Akafunsidwa kuti ndi gulu lanji, mungayankhe kuti awa ndi gulu lachipembedzo omwe mamembala awo adagawanika kuchokera ku tchalitchi cholamulila ndikuyamba chiphunzitso chatsopano. M'tsogolo, malingaliro a gulu lotsekedwa la anthu akhoza kukula kukhala njira yaikulu ya umodzi wa zipembedzo ndipo ngakhale kukhala chiphunzitso chodziimira.
Kodi gululi limapangidwa bwanji?
Chipembedzo chowononga kapena chipembedzo cha chipembedzo chatsopano chili ndi cholinga chobwezeretsa zosowa zauzimu za munthu. Iye akuchitafunafuna tanthauzo la moyo, amalonjeza munthu aliyense wosakhoza kufa ndi chiwombolo kuchokera ku zowawa. Ndipotu, dera lamtundu umenewu ndi piramidi yachuma, komwe kuli woyambitsa - mphunzitsi, amene amamvera mosamalitsa ndikukwaniritsa ntchito zina: kuwatenga anthu, kuyesa kudzipatula kwa okondedwa awo ndi kusamalitsa woyambitsa. Mu mpatuko, nthawi zonse munthu wina akuposa wina, ndipo mamembala ake onse amayenera kutsata malamulo ena, kupita ku misonkhano, kuchita malamulo, ndi zina zotero.
Kuonjezerapo, mamembala achipembedzo amapereka bungwe: kupereka gawo limodzi la ndalama kapena zopereka mwezi uliwonse. M'manyuzipepala, mafilimu ambiri amalankhula za milandu yachipembedzo chifukwa chochotsa nyumba, pamene anthu mwadzidzidzi kapena mwachangu akugulitsa nyumba kapena nyumba, ndikupereka ndalama kwa mpatuko.
Zizindikiro za gulu lachipembedzo
Ambiri a iwo amadzipereka okha, kuimitsa odutsa pamsewu ndikuyankhula nawo za Mulungu. Koma ngati mumadziwana ndi munthu simunayambe pa izi, koma mukuwona zinthu zachilendo, ndiye mutha kuzindikira machitidwe achipembedzo kudzera momwe amachitira ndi zomwe akunena. The interlocutor amadziika yekha ngati gulu lina la anthu omwe ali ndi chidziwitso chachilendo. Iye ali wokonzeka kuwagawana nawo ndipo amapereka kupezeka pamsonkhano momwe mudzaphunzire choonadi cha kukhalapo ndi kukhala moyo wabwinoko.
Komabe, kuchokera ku mayankho enieni a mafunso, wotsutsa amapewa, kawirikawiri, kupempha mawu osadziwika ndi osamvetsetseka, nthawi zambiri kupanga malingaliro akuti iye mwini samvetsa tanthauzo la zomwe zanenedwa, koma amangobweretsanso magawo a malemba ophunziridwa kale. Okalamba amatchula mtsogoleri wawo wopanda tchimo ndikutsutsa kuti mphatso yake ndi chifukwa cha kulankhulana ndi mizimu, alendo ndi wina. Sitiyenera kuiwala kuti ambiri a iwo ndi amalingaliro oganiza zamaganizo omwe angathe kusewera pamalingaliro a anthu, makhalidwe awo oipa, mwachitsanzo, zopanda pake. Anthu amakhulupirira kuti amasankhidwa, apatsidwa udindo waukulu wopulumutsira okha ndi kupulumutsa ena, ndipo izi zimangopangitsa anthu kudzikuza mwa iwo eni komanso kudana ndi ena omwe sadziwa cholinga chawo.
Kuwonjezera pamenepo, mamembala ambiri ali ndi zizindikiro zawo, zomwe zimatchedwa zovala, kulankhula, ndi zina zotero. Nthawi zambiri thupi liri ndi zizindikiro zofanana. Zolinga zamtunduwu zikhoza kukhala ndi antchito awo oimba,
Akulimbana ndi magawo
Kulimbana ndi mabungwe amenewa kumayendetsedwa ndi boma komanso anthu apadera, koma kwa nthawiyi kuli ngati kulimbana kwa Don Quixote ndi mafilimu. Mfundo yonse ndi yakuti izi zimafuna kudziwa, nthawi ndi ndalama. N'zotheka kusokoneza fano la oimira bungweli, mwa njira iliyonse yotsutsana ndi ntchito zawo, kuphatikizapo apolisi ndi ma TV, koma oyamba ndi aŵiri mwa milandu yawo ndi ochuluka, komanso kuwonjezera apo, amachipembedzo sangawonetsetse kuti wina awononge miyoyo yawo. Amatha kuyankha pamalopo, potsata njira zalamulo ndi zoletsedwa. Mungayesetse kupulumutsa winawake kuchokera kwa achibale anu omwe ali m'gulu lachipembedzo, koma nthawi zonse sizingatheke.