Ambiri mwa kugonana kwabwino, kukondana kukonzekera zambiri, ngati kuti amuthandize mwamunayo amene amamukonda. Pankhaniyi, mungagwiritse ntchito matsenga, koma panopa ndikuyenera kudziwa momwe mungamvekere munthuyo popanda zotsatira. Ndikofunika kugwiritsa ntchito miyambo yokha ya matsenga, zomwe sizikhoza kuvulaza, zomwe sizingathe kunenedwa za black privorotah, chifukwa zimakhudza anthu onse awiri. Ngati miyambo yomwe ili pansipa ndi yolakwika, sizingagwire ntchito, ndipo mavuto azachuma sadzauka.
Momwe mungalowerere munthu wopanda zotsatira pa chithunzicho mothandizidwa ndi matsenga?
Zimakhulupirira kuti chithunzichi ndi mbali ya mphamvu ya munthu, choncho miyambo ndi zithunzi ndi yotchuka kwambiri. Ndikofunika kugwiritsa ntchito chithunzi chatsopano, chimene maso akuwoneka bwino. Mungathe kutenga chithunzi pa foni kapena kupita nayo kumalo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Tengani chithunzi chiri mkati ndipo kwa kanthawi ganizirani momwe mwamuna ali pafupi, avomereze chikondi, ndi zina zotero. Kuwonetseratu n'kofunika kufotokoza mphamvu ya chikondi mu chithunzi. Kuyang'ana chithunzichi, munthu ayenera kunena chiwembu chotere:
"Mbuye weniweni, kapolo (dzina) sangathe kukhala opanda mthunzi wake, kundilakalaka ine, kapolo wanu (dzina) sangagonjetse. Yendani, mupunthwe, kuchokera ku chisoni pant. Monga dzuwa kumwambako, momwemonso muli ndi ine, kapolo wamkulu (dzina). "
Chiwembucho chiyenera kubwerezedwa m'mawa, masana ndi madzulo. Ndi bwino kuti muziwerenge tsiku lirilonse musanakhalepo.
Kodi mungamve bwanji munthu wakale?
Nthawi zina mutatha kugawana, pali kumvetsa kuti malingalirowo sakhala otayika, koma palibe lingaliro la kubwezeretsa munthuyo, pazochitika zotere mungathe kuchita mwambo wamba. Chikhalidwe chofunikira - matsenga angagwiritsidwe ntchito ngati osankhidwa alibe ubale watsopano, mwinamwake padzakhala zotsatira zoipa. Kuyamba mwambo ndikofunikira pa tsiku lachitatu la mwezi ukukula. Tenga kandulo wofiira ndikuwunika. Pambuyo pake, fufuzani chithunzi chimene mwasonyezedwa ndi yemwe kale munali wokondedwa pamene aliyense anali wokondwa. Ikani chithunzi pa tebulo ndikuyikapo mphatso yake, yomwe siikhala yayikulu, mwachitsanzo, ikhoza kukhala mphete kapena ndodo iliyonse. Dulani chinthu chosankhidwa ndi manja anu, kutseka maso anu ndi kunena katatu:
"Panali nthawi, mumakonda, ndipo munandipatsa mphatso! Ndikufuna kukhala ndi iwe, ndipo ndikupeza iwe! "
Pa mwambo, nkofunika kulingalira momwe ubale wayambiranso ndipo aliyense ali wokondwa. Ikani chithunzi ndikuchiika pamalo obisika.
Kodi mwamsanga mungamulume bwanji munthu?
Njira iyi ndi yoyenera kwa atsikana omwe angathe kulankhulana ndi chinthu chopembedzera ndikuphika chakudya chake. Tikulimbikitsanso kuwonjezera coriander kapena parsley kwa mbale yosankhidwa, monga masambawa adzakwaniritsa zamatsenga za chiwembucho. Pamene mukuphika ndikofunikira kuimira mgwirizanowu ndi chinthu chopembedzedwa ndikuchichita moyenera. Asanayambe kuphika, nthawi zitatu zotsatizana ziyenera kunenedwa:
"Monga chakudya ichi, ndidzakhala wabwino kwa inu. Amen. "
Ndikoyenera kutumikira vinyo wofiira kwa mbale yokonzedwa. Mu masiku angapo mudzawona zotsatira.
Momwe mungalosere mnyamata amene amakonda galasi?
Zojambula zojambula zachikondi za munthu amene ankakonda zinagwiritsidwa ntchito kale. Mwambo uyenera kukhala pakati pa usiku wokha. Zojambula zimayikidwa moyang'anizana wina ndi mzake, kupanga chigawo chosatha. Tenga kandulo ya mpingo, uwunike ndi kukhala patsogolo pa magalasi. Chipinda chiyenera kukhala mdima. Bwezerani chiwembu chotsatira mpaka kandulo ikuyaka:
"(Dzina la okondedwa) Cher Cher Cher Mogori Procher."
Panthawiyi, zithunzi zosiyana zimatha kuonekera pazionetsero ndi kumveka koopsa, koma nkofunika kuti tisasokonezedwe. Pambuyo pake, phimba magalasi ndi nsalu ndipo musatsegule masiku angapo.
Kodi mungasangalatse bwanji mnyamata ali patali?
Kuti muchite mwambowu, muyenera kukonzekera kandulo yofiira. Kuligwiritsa ntchito ndi mwezi watsopano. Papepala lembani dzina lonse la osankhidwa ndi ake omwe. Bhenani kandulo ndi machesi ndi kuyatsa pepala, ndipo pamene ikuyaka, werengani chiwembu ichi:
"Monga moto wa kandulo ukuwotcha, momwemo mtima wanu (dzina la mnyamata) udzandiwonekera (dzina lake), ndi chikondi chofiira, ndi kukhudzidwa mtima. Ine ndikuwotcha pepala, ndikudikirira. Ndibalalitsa phulusa, ndikukoka iwe, wokondedwa wanga. "
Phulusa lotsalira libalalika mu mphepo.