Psychology ya kunyalanyaza

Kunyalanyaza munthu ndi / kapena vuto ndi njira imodzi yowonjezereka ya kutetezera maganizo kapena chilango. Mwachidziwitso chosavuta, palibe zambiri zomwe ziri zothandiza ngati chinyengo chophweka. Choopsa ndi chakuti njira yosanyalanyaza kawirikawiri imayambitsa njira yothetsera mavuto ena, chifukwa, ndithudi, ndi njira yopulumuka kuchitapo chilichonse. Tidzakambirana zambiri za psychology za kunyalanyaza lero.

Kunyalanyaza monga chitetezo

Mwa kunyalanyaza, monga njira yodzitchinjiriza pofuna kutuluka kwa vuto linalake, munthu amapanga njira yeniyeni, yomwe palibe chidziwitso. Chomwe chimatchedwa kusalabadira matrix kumathandiza kuchipeza.

Sanyalanyazani Matrix

Kunyalanyaza matrix ndi chitsanzo chapadera chomwe chimaganizira kunyalanyaza mwa mtundu ndi mtundu. Malingaliro awiriwa ali ofanana ndipo pamlingo wina amasinthika.

Mitundu yonyalanyaza:

• kunyalanyaza chenicheni cha zomwe zikuchitika. Pachifukwa ichi, timakana kuwona izi kapena vutoli kukhala ndi vuto linalake;
• kunyalanyaza chenicheni cha vuto. Kusasamala kotereku kumatanthauza kuvomereza zomwe zikuchitika, koma kukana kuvomereza chowonadi chikuyimira vuto;
• kunyalanyaza mwayi. Mukuwona izi, dziwani vuto, koma musanyalanyaze kuti pali njira zothetsera vutoli.

2. Kusanyalanyaza msinkhu:

• kunyalanyaza kupezeka kwa mwayi;
• kunyalanyaza kufunika kwa mwayi, kungoyankhula chabe - kukayikira muzochita zawo (zothandiza);
• kunyalanyaza mwayi wosintha mwayi;
• kunyalanyaza maluso awo, okhudzidwa ndi kusatetezeka mu luso lawo ndi mantha oti sangathe kugwiritsa ntchito mwayi.

Kunyalanyaza matrix kumaphatikizapo mitundu yonse ya mitundu ndi magawo a kunyalanyaza, kupanga chojambula cha zigawo zitatu (mitundu) ndi mizere inayi (miyeso). Njira yogwiritsira ntchito kunyalanyaza matrix imakulolani kuti mupeze gawo ilo la chidziwitso chosasamalidwa, kuteteza yankho la vuto linalake. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kuyamba kuyang'anila selo iliyonse, kuyambira kumtunda wakumanzere kumakono, ndikuyenda mozungulira pansi.

Tiyenera kutchula za zodabwitsa monga kusamvetsetsa bwino, pamene khalidwe lathu losachita chidwi ndilo chifukwa sitingapeze phindu lililonse, chifukwa chochita nawo kanthu kena. Chitsanzo chofala kwambiri ndi kusafuna kupita ku chisankho, kutenga nawo mbali muwonetsero, ndi zina zotero. Pachifukwa ichi, psychology ya kunyalanyaza ikuwonekeranso monga chitetezo, pakadali pano, kutengeka kumatiteteza ife ndalama zowonjezera.

Kunyalanyaza monga njira ya chilango

Kawirikawiri timagwiritsa ntchito njira yosanyalanyaza, kuyesera kuti tisonkheze ena. Psychology ya kunyalanyaza munthu ndikuti ife mosamala sitimvetsera kwa yemwe ife timamulanga, kumukhumudwitsa.

Komanso, chifukwa chonyalanyaza, chodabwitsa, chingakhale kuyesa kukopa chidwi. Kotero, mwachitsanzo, chifukwa chonyalanyaza mkazi wa mwamuna angakhale chikhumbo chake chowonetsa munthuyo cholakwa chake. Vuto ndilokuti njira yoteroyo, monga lamulo, imakomana ndi nkhanza komanso kusamvetsetsana. Amuna kawirikawiri sadziwa momwe angayankhire ponyalanyaza, ndikuyankha mu ndalama zomwezo. Zimakhala zovuta zogwira ntchito zosagwirizana ndi mikangano yomwe ikukula.

Pa nthawi yomweyo, atsikana nthawi zambiri amanyalanyaza pamene akufuna kukopa chidwi cha munthu amene amamukonda. Pankhaniyi, iwo amawerengera mwatsatanetsatane wa kusaka nyama.

Komabe, kunyalanyaza ndichitapo kanthu, ndikugwiritsa ntchito kuti, munthu amasiya mphamvu zake ndi udindo wake. Kumbukirani, kawirikawiri njira iyi sikumakwaniritsa zoyembekeza.