Pafupifupi banja lililonse posakhalitsa funso lidzakhudzana ndi kugonana kwa abambo, ndipo otsogolera ali ambiri amuna. Tonse timadziwa kuti nkhaniyi ndi yovuta kwambiri, ndipo mkazi aliyense asanasankhe zochita payekha adzalingalira za kuvulaza ndi kupindula kwa kugonana kwa ana. Tidzayesera kuthetsa nthano.
Phindu la Kugonana Kwachiwerewere
Choyamba, ganizirani mbali yabwino ya funsoli, ndilo, kugwiritsira ntchito kugonana kwa abambo. M'magazini iyi padzakhala nkhani zomwe zimawoneka kwa abambo ndi amai, komanso zosiyana.
Choyamba, kugonana kwa abambo ndi chinthu chochokera m'maganizo a kugonana, choncho ndizosangalatsa komanso zosaiŵalika. Kugonana kwachilendo kumakhala kosangalatsa ndi nthawi, ndipo uwu ndi mpweya wa mpweya wabwino kwa iwo omwe akufuna kusintha chinachake.
Kuphatikizanso, kugonana kwa abambo kumayimira njira yatsopano yokhulupirira mu maubwenzi. Mzimayi woteroyo amadziwa za "zovuta zosuntha", ndipo sangakwanitse kugonana ndi mwamuna amene samakhulupirira mokwanira. Kwa munthu, ichi ndi chisonyezero chokwanira cha kudalira ndi chidaliro kwa wokondedwa.
Phindu lina la kugonana kwa abambo kwa amayi ndi mwayi wolandira chisangalalo popanda kutseguka kwa amayi, zomwe ndi zofunika kwambiri kwa atsikana, asungwana ndi amayi m'mayiko amenewo kumene kukhalapo kwa olemekezeka n'kofunika kwambiri paukwati. Pokhala ndi chilakolako cha kugonana, mtsikana sangathe kudandaula za kusungulumwa kwenikweni.
Zopindulitsa za kugonana kwa abambo kwa amuna makamaka mwazo zatsopano zomwe zimatha kupatsirana. Icho chidzapereka maonekedwe atsopano atsopano ndipo idzakhalanso ndi chilakolako choyambirira.
Pali lingaliro loti amuna omwe amaloledwa kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amafunanso okondedwa awo ndi abwenzi awo, koma chikhumbo choyesa zatsopanochi chimawululidwanso mwa iwo omwe ali ndi chidwi chodziwika bwino kapena zovuta kukumbukira mafilimu oonera zolaula.
Chiwerewere: Kupewa
Kugonana kwa chiwerewere kumabweretsa matenda ochuluka kwambiri, ngati akuchitidwa molakwika komanso kawiri pawiri pa mwezi. Choyamba, izi zimaphatikizapo kuwonjezereka kwa ziwalo za m'mimba, kupweteka kwa kachilomboka, matenda opatsirana a amayi ndi matenda a bakiteriya mwa amuna. Komabe, munthu akhoza kutetezedwa mwa kuvala kondomu, koma ndi thanzi la amayi, zonse zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Ganizirani njira zomwe zingatengedwe pofuna kupewa kugonana kwa abambo povulaza:
- Kugonana koyambirira sikuyenera kukhala kawirikawiri - kokha kokha pachaka, makamaka ngati mwamuna ali ndi chiwalo chachikulu chogonana;
- Kugonana koyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito kondomu, ndipo kondomu itatha nthawi yomweyo imathamangitsidwa (osagwiritsidwa ntchito mmagonana);
- Kusunthira kwa amuna kukhale kofewa ndi kosalala, kuti asawononge makoma osalimba a matumbo;
- Panthawi imeneyi mkazi sayenera kukhala ndi chibwibwi kapena kutsekula m'mimba, pokhapokha pangakhale kutuluka kosasamala kwa nyansi;
- musanayambe kugonana ndi bwino kupanga eema yaying'ono;
- Akazi ayenera kuyendetsa kayendetsedwe kake ndi kuya kwake, ndipo ndi chizindikiro chochepa cha ululu, asiye ntchitoyo mwamsanga;
- Ndikofunika kugwiritsa ntchito mafuta opangidwa ndi apadera, popanda kulowera kukhala kowawa;
- chiwerewere choyambirira ndi chiwiri chachiwiri chogonana, ndipo muyenera kukonzekera mosamala;
- Mtsikanayo ayenera kumasuka, ngati kugonana kwa abambo kumabweretsa zowawa zokha;
- Yesani mtundu uwu wa kugonana kokha mwa njira yowononga kuti mupewe kuvulala.
Kugonana kwachilombo - ndi mchitidwe wosiyana, ndipo ngati simutengedwera kwambiri, ndiye kuti sikudzavulaza. Chinthu chachikulu ndikukhulupirirana pakati pa abwenzi ndi chidwi ndi zovuta.