Ndikoyenera kudziwa kuti palibe kugwirizana kofanana pakati pa kugonana. Pali zoyesayesa zogwirizanitsa mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya kugonana malinga ndi magawo osiyanasiyana.
Kodi kugonana ndi kotani?
Mtundu umodzi wa kusiyana pakugonana ndi kukhalapo kwa mnzanu. Ndipo pankhaniyi, kugonana kungakhale kosiyana.
Popanda wokondedwa:
- gwiritsani ntchito achinyamata, kutenga zochitika zoyamba zogonana pa nthawi ya kutha msinkhu, pamene kuyitana kosadziwika komwe kwa thupi kukuwonetsedwa ndi maliseche kapena maliseche;
- ndizovuta kwa anthu osakhutira ndi kugonana, osasankha kapena osakhala opanda zibwenzi, komanso omwe akufunafuna mitundu yatsopano yogonana.
Ndi mnzanga:
- Kugonana kwachilendo ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wina;
- chiyanjano ndi mnzanga wa kugonana komweko;
- ndi abwenzi angapo omwe ali amodzi kapena osakwatirana.
Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, kugonana komweko ndi kugonana kwa magulu kunapeza malo awo m'moyo. Kuyankhula za mtundu wanji wa kugonana uli ndi zibwenzi, nkoyenera kulabadira iwo omwe amasiyana ndi chikhalidwe chachikazi ndipo samapereka chomwe chimatchedwa kulowa. Popanda kulowa muzinthu za mtundu uliwonse, apa ndizotheka kuzindikira:
- Chilankhulo, chomwecho, chomwechonso, chimaphatikizapo mphuno, cunnilingus ndi kugonana pakati pawo;
- anal, yomwe imaphatikizapo kufika pampando wa abambo a mbolo patsogolo pa anus kapena mwa iye.
Kugonana kosagwirizana
Kusiyana mitundu yachiwerewere kungatchulidwe kuti, zotsatirazi:
- phokoso;
- mamembala;
- chiwonetsero;
- Gluten;
- ndi zina zambiri zomwe zimaphatikiza pachifuwa, matako, m'chiuno ndi ziwalo zina za mnzanu kapena mnzanu panthawi yogonana.
Tikamalankhula za mitundu yosavuta ya kugonana, ndiye, nthawi zambiri, zimatanthauza zotsatirazi:
- mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya zopotoza, monga zoophilia, necrophilia, sadomasochism ndi ena ena;
- kugonana kwachinyengo, pamene akugwira ntchito, akulowa muzithunzi ndi chithandizo cha hypnosis ;
- kugonana mu maloto, pamene masomphenya a kugonana ndi zowawa zikuwonekera pamene akulowerera m'maloto.
Masiku ano, anthu ambiri amagwiritsa ntchito mitundu yatsopano yogonana. Pakati pa iwo, malo amodzi anayamba kugwidwa ndi kugonana kotere:
- kugonana kwakukulu, pamene chiwerewere chimapezeka pamtunda, m'madera ambiri, m'madera omwe amawopsyeza moyo wawo
umphumphu wa chibadwa. Ndi zachiwerewere izi, ziphuphu zimapezeka ndi kutulutsidwa kwa adrenaline, chifukwa cha kuchuluka kwa ngozi; - kugonana pogwiritsa ntchito masewera apadera;
- kugonana ndi kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa mitundu yambiri yamagetsi, makamaka - vibrators;
- kugonana kwapadera, pamene kugonana pakati pa zibwenzi kumawonetsedwa monga ntchito;
- pafupifupi, wogwirizana ndi kupeza malonda popanda womanga naye kudzera mauthenga a SMS, Skype kapena kulankhulana kwa foni.