Nkhani zachinsinsi ndizosavuta, koma zothandiza kwambiri. Thandizo lachidule likuwonetsedwa kwa ana ang'onoang'ono ndi "akuluakulu". Mantha, phobias, nthawi yovuta m'moyo, ndizofunika kukhala pansi ndikuyamba ndi nthano yomwe mtsogoleri wamkulu ndi ulemu amachokera ku mayesero osiyanasiyana ndikukhala amphamvu - ndipo kwenikweni mwadzidzidzi chuma chikuwoneka ndi mantha akuchoka.
Nkhani Zothandizira - ndi chiyani?
Mankhwala opatsirana pogwiritsa ntchito nthano ndizolowera mu maganizo omwe amakulolani kupanga zozizwitsa zosinthika mu malo otetezeka kwa mwana ndi wamkulu, kuthetsa mavuto ovuta, kuyembekezera zenizeni zatsopano ndi gawo limodzi ndi zilakolako zakale, kukhala ndi "maganizo" othawa kuti athe kuwataya kwathunthu. Nkhani zachinsinsi za ana a sukulu mogwirizana ndi masewera ndizofunikira kwambiri kuti mwanayo adziwe bwino psyche .
Kodi ntchito yamakono yachinsinsi ndi yotani?
Nkhani zochepa zochiritsira zimakhala ndi chochitika cha ichi kapena chikhalidwechi mu mawonekedwe ofotokozera, koma izi sizikutaya mtengo wake ndipo zimanyamula katundu wina. Ntchito za nthano zachinsinsi za psychotherapeutic:
- Mwachidule, amaonetsa zofunika zofunika pamoyo;
- phunzirani zabwino;
- kuthandizira kuthana ndi chitsanzo cha ankhondo ndi mavuto;
- muli ndi zambiri zokhudza momwe dziko likugwirira ntchito;
- kuwonetsa kufunikira kwa mayesero osiyanasiyana ndi chitukuko cha zochitika pamoyo;
- kuthandiza kuthana ndi chisoni, mantha;
- Tengani chigawo chokonzekera pa chitukuko cha makhalidwe oipa.
Nkhani Zothandizira Kukonza Makhalidwe
Nkhani zachinsinsi zowonongeka ndi ana ndi gawo lofunikira la ntchito ya katswiri wa zamaganizo. Nkhani zimakhala zosavuta kukumba ndikuthandizira kuphunzira makhalidwe oyenera. Nkhani Zowonongeka:
- " Kuphulika kwa phiri la Sandy " E.S. Mosina - kukonza chilakolako cha mwanayo;
- " Nkhani ya Kolya ndi abwenzi ake " L. Tsvirko - kugwira ntchito ndi ana okwiya;
- " Mbiri ya Hare Zabiyaka " I. Gurin - ngati mwanayo akumenyana;
- " Nkhani ya Chisomo Chosowa " ndi D. Trushin - kukonza khalidwe lachiwerewere, kupweteka kwa makolo.
Nkhani zachinsinsi za ana
Nkhani zachinsinsi - amafunikira mwana aliyense, chifukwa mosiyana ndi wamkulu, alibe zambiri ngati akukula kuthetsa mavuto omwe akukumana nawo, mwanayo ali pachiopsezo kudziko lakunja, ntchito ya akulu ndi kuthandiza mwanayo pogwiritsa ntchito nthano pofuna kusonyeza momwe munthu wamkuluyo amachitira patsogolo pake vuto. Nkhani zothandizira usiku zimakhala ndi chuma chodabwitsa kwambiri , pamene kukonzekera ndi kukwaniritsa zofunikira zomwe zimachitika, ndipo ngati kuli kofunikira kuchiza mantha.
Nkhani Zachidule Zopanda mantha
Nthano zachipatala za usiku kwa ana zimathandiza kulimbana ndi zoopsa, zomwe ziri panthawiyi kapena nthawi ya ana. Nthawi zambiri makolo omwe amalandira mwambo wamaganizo amadandaula kuti mwana wawo sangathe kugona chifukwa choopa kubedwa ndi "Babaika" kapena Baba Yaga. Kodi nkhani zochiritsira za mantha zingagwiritsidwe ntchito:
- "Yemwe amakhala mu mdima" nkhani yongopeka;
- "Kumene Ambiri Amakhala" ndi M. Sendak;
- "Chakhumi Chachisanu" - G. Harriet;
- "Njovu yomwe inkawopa mdima" O.V. Khukhlaeva, O.E. Khukhlaev.
Nkhani Zothandizira Achinyamata
Nkhani zachipatala pakugwira ntchito ndi achinyamata ndi chida chabwino chothandizira khalidwe la mwana. Achinyamata ndi nthawi imene maofesi amadziwonetsera okha, komanso zinthu zina zowonongeka zomwe zimakhala chifukwa chowonetsedwa ndi banja losagwira ntchito ndipo maonekedwe a "mantha" akuyamba kuwonetsa. Nkhani zachipatala ndi njira yophweka yosonyeza mfundo zofunika kwa mwanayo ndikuwona zofunikira.
Nkhani zachinsinsi zokhudza sukulu
Ntchito za nthano zachinsinsi zimangonena za zovuta. Sukulu ndi malo omwe nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta "kupulumuka" kwenikweni kwa achinyamata omwe ali ndi vuto lopweteka komanso lodziwika bwino. Nkhani zachipatala zokhudzana ndi anyamata osiyana omwe amapambana mayeso amathandiza ana a sukulu kuthana ndi mavuto omwe amabwera kusukulu. Nkhani za Masewero zimakhalanso ndi chigawo chokonzekera.
Nkhani Yothandizira Bwenzi
Nkhani yochepa ya maganizo kwa achinyamata, katswiri wa zamaganizo amadzipereka mosaganizira mwachitsanzo, fanizo kapena nkhani yomwe adachitira umboni. Ubwenzi ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pa moyo wa munthu aliyense, ubwenzi weniweni ndi wamphamvu ndipo sungakumane ndi mavuto ndipo umaphunzitsa zambiri za munthu. Achinyamata mu chitsanzo akhoza kubweretsa nkhani ya I. Vachkov "Za ubwenzi ndi imfa yake."
Nkhani iyi ya abwenzi awiri a nyerere Mure ndi Rume, omwe ankafuna kuyesa ubale wawo ndipo anali otsimikiza kuti apambana mayesero onse. Chifukwa cha ichi, iwo adatembenukira ku Mantis, ndipo adawalangiza kuti apite kwa witchress Pchela. Mkazi wamatsenga anabwera ndi mayesero ndipo adawapanga iwo osayankhula, Moore ndi Ramu anadutsa bwinobwino, adaphunzira kumvetsetsa popanda mawu. Pachiyeso chachiwiri, njuchi inalankhula temberero kuti nyerere zikhale zonyansa, zabodza komanso zokhumudwitsa wina ndi mnzake. Poyamba iwo anagonjetsedwa ndi zidazo, koma adadziwa nthawi kuti sizingatheke - ubwenzi unayima molimba.
Amzanga adafunsidwa kuti ayesedwe zambiri. Njuchi zinapeza ubale wawo ndi ukali, ndi mantha - zonse zidapulumuka, koma izo sizinali zokwanira kwa iwo, ndipo Moore ndi Ram adapempha mayeso omalizira, njuchi sizinagwirizane kwa nthawi yayitali, koma anamvetsera pempho lawo ndipo adawapanga kukhala odzikonda. Kotero ubwenzi wapamtima wa nyerere unagwa - inakhala mayeso ovuta kwambiri, chifukwa egoists amangoona okha. Ubwenzi uyenera kukondedwa.
Nkhani Zothandizira Akuluakulu
Cholinga cha nthano zachinsinsi ndi kuthandiza munthu kukhala moyo wosasangalatsa m'moyo, kuchiritsa moyo ndikumvetsa chifukwa chake zinthu zina zimamuchitikira. Nkhani zachipatala zachipatala zakonzedwa kwa ana ndi akulu - ndicho chofunikira chapadziko lonse chomwe chimathandiza kusintha moyo kuti ukhale wabwino mwa kuzindikira ndi kumverera. Ngakhale kuwerenga nkhani zamphano wamba kumapereka masomphenya a momwe angalowerenso boma lazinthu.
Nkhani Zothandizira Zambiri
Ubwino wa nthano zachinsinsi ndizoti ndizosavuta ndipo zimalowa mopanda chidziwitso, ndikukulolani kuchotsa mapulogalamu owononga. Ndi zofunika kupanga zolemba zanu nokha. Pamene mungathe kukweza mtima wanu, ndizosavuta kuti mudziyerekeze nokha ngati mdierekezi wotsogolera moyo wanu komanso chuma chanu. Kodi ndi zomvetsa chisoni? Ndi nthawi yolemba nthano, osati yayikulu, mwachitsanzo, za Chisoni.
Panthawi ina panali Chisoni, ndipo anali wosungulumwa, palibe yemwe ankafuna kukhala naye payekha, aliyense anamuthamangitsa, ndipo ngakhale ankawopa kuti akhale ndi mbali yake - kuchokera kuchisoni chinakula kwambiri, ngati mtambo, choncho adayenda, adayendayenda padziko lapansi ndipo anayamba kukayika chifukwa chomwe chimafunikira, n'chifukwa chiyani Mlengi wake analenga, tanthauzo lake ndi chiyani? Chisoni chosokonezeka ndipo adaganiza zopita kwa Sage wotchuka, mwinamwake amadziwa chomwe tanthauzo lake liri.
Wachikulire, kudabwa kwa Chisoni, adamulandira ndi manja ake ndipo anamuuza momwe kulili kofunikira kwa anthu. Sage, "anati Sage," kuthandizira kuthetsa imfa, chifukwa chakuti ndi nthawi yoti muzisiye ndipo zikuyenera kuchitidwa mwauleme, koma mwa inu, palibe njira ina yowonjezera yosagonjera, zizindikiro zonse ziyenera kutayidwa, ndipo nthawizonse zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni, Pokhapokha mutakhala ndi moyo wathunthu wokhumudwa, munthu amalowa muzithunzi ndipo akukonzekera pang'ono pang'onopang'ono. " Nthano imanena kuti malingaliro onse ali ndi ufulu kukhala.
Nkhani Zothandizira Zolakwa
Nthano zachipatala pa psychology ya kudzimva zimathandiza kuzindikira kumverera, komwe kumamangika mwa munthu ngati kupunduka, kuti munthu amva kuti ali wokhumudwa, amamupweteka, koma sangamuzindikire iye. Lingaliro la kulakwa ndikumva kwowononga ndipo likudziwika ndi chakuti:
- pogwiritsa ntchito chinthu choyamba chamanyazi, chopangidwa mu ubwana;
- amalepheretsa munthu yemwe ali ndi udindo komanso luso lochita;
- pokhala ndi lingaliro lodziimba mlandu, munthu amadziwa mwachidwi chilango;
- mwamphamvu munthu yemwe ali ndi chilakolako chokalamba ali mu mwana, ndiko kuti, mkhalidwe wovuta, zomwe zikutanthauza kusowa thandizo.
Nkhani za kuchimwa zimathandiza kumverera ndi kumasula kuweruzidwa. Nkhani ya kulakwa. Panali mtsikana wokongola kwambiri Sofia m'chipinda chimodzi ndi mayi ake okalamba. Sophia wayamba kale kugwa pansi kwa zaka 30, koma sanakhalepo pachibwenzi, sanalota banja, chifukwa anali kusamalira amayi ake odwala. Mayi Sophia anali woyenera kuti apitirize kuntchito kapena pamisonkhano yosawerengeka ndi amayi ake omwe amamukonda. Amayi ake anamuuza kuti ayitane, ndipo adamuuza kuti nthawi yomweyo anapita kunyumba, chifukwa nthawi yake imakhala yovuta kwambiri.
Sophia anathawa, mwamsanga anapita kunyumba. Chifukwa chakuti amayi anga ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa moyo wa munthu, ndipo amayi omwe anakulekani nokha popanda bambo ake amapereka thanzi lake lonse ndi malipiro ang'onoang'ono, kudzikana kuti "woyera". Mayi a Sophia ankamukumbutsa nthaŵi zonse za mwana wake wamkazi yekhayo, ndipo amadziimba mlandu. Pamene Sophia ankachita zambiri kwa amayi ake, mayiyo ankafuna kuti azisamala, akudzikana yekha chisangalalo cha moyo.
Panthawi inayake, Sophia anadziyang'ana pagalasi akudabwa kwambiri ndi momwe iye ankaganizira: maso akuda akugwa, kutsika kwa milomo yake, monga momwe zinalili ndi chisoni, ankawoneka ngati wachikulire ndipo anazindikira kuti inali nthawi yoti asankhe yekha . Koma adamuuza kuti atenge udindo wake, poyamba adakwiya ndi amayi ake kuti agwiritse ntchito, koma adazindikira kuti udindo wake ndi wakuti adakulira ndipo angasankhe kupitiriza kudzimva kuti ndi wolakwa kapena kukhala wamkulu ndikudzimangira yekha.