Kukhulupirira m'maloto kapena ayi ndi nkhani yaumwini kwa aliyense, koma, makamaka, malotowo akhoza kuthetsedwa.
N'chifukwa chiyani kulira kolira?
Zimakhulupirira kuti kulira ndi momwe munthu amachitira zinthu zina, zithunzi kapena anthu. Mu maloto mumamva kumverera, chifundo, chifundo ndi zomwe zavumbulutsidwa kwa inu mu loto. Mukhoza kumangokhalira kugwedezeka komanso kukhudzidwa. Pambuyo pa maloto, ganizirani zomwe zinakhala zolimbikitsa kuti chidziwitso chanu chasintha malingaliro omwewo m'maloto.
Pali lingaliro limene kulira mu loto limalota nkhani kapena chimwemwe chachikulu. Mukadziwona nokha mukulira mu loto, mumachotsa maganizo olakwika mwa njira iyi ndikudzimasula nokha ku zovuta ndi zovuta. Maloto amenewa ndi abwino chifukwa munthu wokhumudwa sangathe kukhala ndi moyo wamba, ndipo mothandizidwa ndi maloto amenewa amakhalabe ndi thanzi lake. Choncho, ngati mukuwona maloto omwe mukulira, samalirani maganizo anu komanso mmene mumamvera.
Kodi zimatanthauza chiyani pamene anthu ena akulira mu loto?
Ngati muwona anthu ena akulira m'maloto, ikhozanso kukhala chizindikiro kapena chizindikiro chochitapo kanthu. Amakhulupirira kuti kulira kowawa kwa anthu ena nthawi zambiri kumalota ukwati wachimwemwe.
Kodi mayi akulira akulota chiyani?
Maloto oterowo amaonedwa kuti ndi oipa, omwe amakuchenjezani za kusagwirizana m'banja komanso mikangano yaikulu. Ngati inu ndi amayi anu mumakangana - maloto oterowo mwatsoka. Pankhaniyi, mudzadziona nokha.
Nchifukwa chiyani mwana wamkazi akulira akulota?
Kugona kumatha kusonyeza chisangalalo, chitukuko, moyo wabwino.
Nchifukwa chiyani mnyamata akulira akulota?
Ngati mumalota kuti mnyamatayo akulira, zikutanthauza kuti mumakhala nthawi yayitali pamabanja komanso pafupi.