Pali chiwonetsero chimodzi chokha cha kulondola kapena kusayeruzika kwa anthu athu - ichi ndi chimwemwe . Ngati zochita zathu zimapangitsa munthu kukhala wachimwemwe, ndiye kuti palibe chodetsa nkhawa. Komabe, zochepa kwambiri zakhala m'dziko lachimwemwe. Tsopano ndi mwambo kuti anyamata ndi atsikana azileredwa ndi zikhalidwe zomwe zimagwirizana, ndipo motero, akazi a theka ndi theka amapezeka. Ndipo pakati pa anthu omwe ali ndi "hafu ya mtima" mosakayikira pali mikangano pakugawidwa kwa ufulu ndi maudindo muzoyanjana pakati pawo.
Pachifukwa ichi, anthu akuyesera kuzindikira (ndi, makamaka, kukhala ndi) makhalidwe a chikhalidwe cha mkazi ndi mkazi. Ndipotu, njira yokhayo yogwirizanirana ndi ubale ndikutengera chikhalidwe chokonzedweratu ndi psychology ya munthu.
Makhalidwe a nyenyezi
Pogwiritsa ntchito nyenyezi, kusagwirizana kwa anthu omwe akukwatirana akufotokozedwa ndikuti mwamuna ndi mkazi ali ndi makhalidwe osiyanasiyana. Pali mitundu iwiri yokhayo mu nyenyezi - zamalingaliro komanso zomveka. Mtundu wamaganizo umakhala ngati Cancer, Pisces, Scorpions, Aries, Streltsov, Lviv. Kwa wanzeru, motsatira, Capricorn, Taurus, Gemini, Virgo, Libra, Aquarius. Kuphatikiza kwa anthu angapo ochokera "maiko" osiyanasiyana kumabweretsa mikangano.
Zotsatira zake, akazi amadandaula chifukwa cha kusamvera, ngati mkazi amachokera kumaganizo, ndipo mwamuna ndi wololera. Ndipo mosiyana.
Psychology ya kusagwirizana
Anthu akwatirana, atha kale kukhazikitsa makhalidwe, makhalidwe, maganizo. M'zaka zoyambirira za moyo wokhudzana, kusiyana pakati pa anthu awiriwa kumawonetseredwa, ndipo kusiyana kumeneku, pamlingo wina kapena wina, kulipo onse, ngakhale anthu ovomerezeka kwambiri.
Kaya khalidwe la mwamuna kapena mkazi wake, mkazi ndi mwamuna, anthu amayamba kukondana kwambiri kapena ayi. Izi zimayambitsa mikangano , zipsyinjo, makangano, ndi nthawi zina ku ofesi ya maganizo.
Mu psychology pali mavuto anayi okha omwe ali "ophatikizana" maanja:
- kusowa kwa kumvetsetsa ndikutheka kwa anthu kumvetsa mfundo ya wina, kapena kulephera kwawo kutsimikizira kuti ali ndi ufulu;
- Kusiyanitsa maganizo pa zinthu zomwe zimafuna lingaliro lofanana m'banja - choyamba, vuto la kusankha wamkulu, mutu wa banja;
- zosagwirizanitsa ndi anthu - zochita zilizonse, mawu a mnzanu amakwiyitsa wokondedwa wake;
- kusagwirizana ndi zizoloŵezi ndi zochita za abwenzi - zochita ndi zochita za mmodzi mwa okwatirana amapewa (mwadzidzidzi kapena mosadziŵa) kukwaniritsa zolinga zomwe mzanu wina amakwaniritsa.
The Vedas
Koma Vedas nthawi yomweyo ndi zabwino: kum'maŵa amalankhula za zomwe ziyenera kukhala makhalidwe abwino a wokwatirana ndi wokwatirana naye. Ndicho, chiani-khalidwe lachikazi, ndi_mwamuna.
- Kupitiliza - kutanthauza kuti, kupembedza. Malingana ndi Vedas, izi ndi khalidwe lachimuna yekha. Mkazi akamangoyendetsa njuchi, mahomoni ake aakazi amawonongedwa. Akazi ayenera kuchita chirichonse ndi zosangalatsa (ndipo ngakhale kuwuka pa 5 am). Komabe, kudzipereka kumathandiza kuthetsa mavuto. Chifukwa cha kusokonezeka kwa mkazi akhoza kukhala mwamuna. Ngati mwamuna wake ali pabedi tsiku lonse, akuyang'ana m'bokosilo, mayiyo akuganiza kuti banja liri mu tailspin, ndipo limakhala ngati munthu wotsutsa.
- Zoona ndi kutseguka ndi makhalidwe a akazi. Zimakhala kuti pamene mkazi atsegula malingaliro ake kwa mwamuna wake, amasunga banja. Mwamuna amene amasonyeza maganizo ake ndi mantha amachititsa munthu kudalira yekha. Sangathe kuyenda kumanzere, kunama, kukhala waulesi, chifukwa adzazunzidwa ndi kudziona kuti ndi wolakwa pamaso pa chiyero ndi kudzipereka kwa mkazi wake.
- Kukhala wodekha ndi khalidwe la khalidwe la mwamuna. Kukhazikika kumakula chifukwa cha kudzidalira, kumverera uku ozizira.
- Mtendere ndi wamtundu wachikazi wamtendere. Kuchokera ku Pacific kumatulutsa chisangalalo, ndipo kumatanthawuza mgwirizano.