Mwinamwake, mkazi aliyense kamodzi kamodzi pamoyo wake anamva mawu - "Amuna ndi mitala." Azimayi ena avomereza izi ndikukhulupirira, koma amayi ambiri ochenjera amaseka mawu awa, omwe amuna amagwiritsa ntchito kuti awonetsere kusakhulupirika kwawo. Ndi maofesi angati omwe ali pa intaneti, momwe akazi amafotokozera zovuta za moyo zomwe zimagwiridwa ndi kusakhulupirika kwa mwamuna wake . Pambuyo powerenga mayankho a malipoti amenewa, mukhoza kuseka ndi mtima wanu wonse, chifukwa amayi omwewo amanyengerera kuti akulekerere ndi kukhululukira kupha mwamuna wanu wokondedwa, popeza ndi mitala, koma simungathe kupondereza chilengedwe.
Izi ndi zopanda chilungamo
Chifukwa chake kusalungama kotereku, mungaganize kuti izi ndizo mawu achikazi, koma mwamuna yemwe amasintha amatchedwa mitala, ndipo mkazi ndi mawu achinyengo. Chifukwa cholekana kotero, ambiri adzanena kuti kuchokera ku chilengedwe, koma ndi zopusa. Anthu onse ali ofanana ndi ofunika kwambiri, onse kunja ndi mkati sakuwonedwa. Kotero, mawu awa, mwinamwake ananenedwa munthu yemwe sangathe kudzala ndi chifukwa china chachinyengo chake.
Chilengedwe chayesera
Monga, yang'anani pa zinyama, mkazi amadzipezera yekha ndipo amabweretsa mwana, ndipo mwamuna amakhoza kupita kulikonse ndi kuchita chirichonse chimene iye akufuna. Zimatanthawuza kuti mawu - "anthu amtundu "wa amadziyesa ndi nyama, pakati pa oimira awo pali awo amene ali ndi nyanga komanso akumwa. Ndipo ngakhale titayamba kumvetsa zinyama, ndiye kuti ndi koyenera kuti mwamuna abwere kwa mkazi, ndipo si kosavuta kuti abwere, adachoka. Makamaka ngati zinyama za mtundu umodzi wamwamuna ndi mitala, ndiye wamkazi ali yemweyo omwe mu moyo waumunthu amawoneka osadabwitsa komanso opanda pake. Choncho, poyerekeza khalidwe la anthu ndi zinyama, osati zomwe siziri zolondola, koma zachilendo.
Ndi chiyani chinanso chimene amuna amachivomereza?
Oimira ena a kugonana "amphamvu" sanali aulesi kwambiri ndipo amapezeka, ngati kuti asayansi amavomereza mitala:
- Mwamuna amaganiza za kugonana tsiku lililonse 206. Ndikudabwa momwe adawerengedwera, mnyamata wina, atangoganiza za kugonana, kuika Mafunso osakaniza kapena kusindikiza batani lapadera? Zimamveka zosangalatsa komanso zabodza.
- Kwa munthu, kusakhulupilira sikukutanthawuza kanthu, koma mkazi sangayambe kukondana ndi mnzanu wina-bodza lina lopanda pake limene wina sanawone.
- Mu thupi lachimuna, mahomoni ogonana amapangidwa mosalekeza, ndipo mkazi akhoza kupitirira. Onetsani munthu yemwe anazikonza ndi kuzilola kuti zilembetse mawu ake.
- Malingana ndi ziwerengero, 52% maanja amakhulupirira kuti chiwonetsero chimodzi ndi chachilendo ndipo chinyengo chifukwa cha izi sikofunika. Chabwino, apa kuti ndizinene, awa ndi mawu okha, ndipo pakudza bizinesi, aliyense "mwini" akuphatikizana ndi khalidwe labwino kuti asinthe akhoza kuiwalika.
Kodi kwenikweni?
Ziwerengero zina zimapereka ziwerengero zomwe ziyenera kudabwitsa amuna, chifukwa amayi ambiri ali oposa 30% kuposa awo. Zifukwa za mitala ndi izi:
- achinyamata;
- Kusamalidwa mokwanira ndi kulera bwino ubwana;
- chilolezo;
- makhalidwe;
- kusakhutira ndi mnzanuyo, ndi zina zotero.
Choncho, kunena kuti mitala ndi yobadwa mwa amuna osati yolondola.
Ndikofunika kuti tisaiwale zomwe zingakhale kusasamala komanso kusinthasintha kwa anthu ogonana, chifukwa matenda osiyanasiyana ndi matenda sanathetse.
Mawu onsewa amapangidwa ndi amuna omwe amapereka akazi awo, koma akazi, osadzidziwa okha, amawathandiza pa izi. Kotero, pamene mumva kuchokera kwa mwamuna kuti onse ndi amitheka ndipo izi ndi zachilendo, "kuyitana" kwa thupi, kuthawa kwa iye, monga momwe adzasinthire mkazi wake ndikuwona kuti ndizochitika zachilendo.