Zizindikiro zakale zinaphimba galasi ndi galasi lodabwitsa: mphamvu ingathe kuchotsedwe, ndipo kukongola ndi akufa kudzera mmenemo zingalowe m'dziko lathu (sizongoganizira chabe kuti galasilo limapachikidwa mnyumba kumene wakufayo anangothamangitsidwa), ndipo betrothed idzawonetsedwa. Koma kuchokera mndandanda wonsewu padzakhala chimodzi, chomwe chidzatitengera ife modabwa. Pamene mwadzidzidzi imatha mosayembekezereka.
Ngati galasi yathyoka - izi ndizolakwika. Ikulonjeza zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri zovuta, zomwe zidzakhala zodzaza ndi zokhumudwitsa. "Zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri za tsoka" - ndithudi inu mwamvapo chigamulo choterocho. Khalani monga momwe zingathere, ngakhale ngati sitili okhulupirira zamatsenga, kukonzekera tokha kwa zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri za kulephera n'kosavuta kuposa kale.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani?
Choyamba, khalani chete. Ngati mumaganizira za zomwe anthu amatanthauza, mukhoza kumvetsetsa kuti ambiri mwa iwo amachokera pa kusadziwa. Pamene dziko likuwoneka ngati chinsinsi chathunthu, anthu amakonda kupanga zinthu ndikupanga mphamvu yodabwitsa. Komabe, ndi magalasi, ndi choonadi, muyenera kusamala. Kotero, ngati mutathyola galasilo:
- mulimonsemo musayang'ane zidutswazo. Ngakhale galasi losweka, malinga ndi nthano, lingathe kugawaniza tsogolo lanu ndi kutulutsa mphamvu;
- Pezani mosamala nsomba muketi ndikuwaponyera mumtsinje kapena mtsinje. Ndikofunika kuti musakhudze iwo ndi manja anu, kuvala magolovesi;
- Mukhoza kujambulira zidutswa za utoto wakuda (msomali wa msomali) ndikuziyika kwa kanthawi m'madzi;
- Mutatha kuchotsa kalilole wosweka, onetsetsani kuti mukumwetulira pazithunzi zanu zonse.
Mwa njira, ngati mutathyola galasi, musagwirizanitse ndi chizindikiro cha galasi losweka. Kumbukirani bwino bwino, za mbale (zomwe zingakhale galasi) - mwayi!
Zina za "galasi" zikhulupiriro
Tiyeni tipeze zomwe zizindikiro zina za amayi apadera zogwirizana ndi galasi zilipo pakati pa anthu:
- chodabwitsa kwambiri chakale chinalepheretsa kuyang'ana pagalasi kwa amayi apakati. Miyeziyi, kudzimva kunalimbikitsidwanso kukhala kochepa;
- Musayang'ane m'maso mwanu kwa nthawi yaitali - mutha kukalamba msanga;
- posankha galasilo, kumbukirani kuti galasilo siliyenera kusamba (mu bafa) kapena anthu ogona. Izi zingachititse kudwala kapena kutsutsa ;
- Sotsseti lero ali ndi zithunzi za abwenzi omwe amalingalira pagalasi. Pakalipano, agogo athu amakhulupirira kuti panthawi imodzimodziyo akuyang'ana anzanu pagalasi sikofunika - mungathe kukangana pa mkwati;
- chizindikiro cha pakhomo chogwirizanitsa ndi kalilole - nthawi zambiri mwatsuka. Pambuyo pake, galasi imasunga zambiri;
- kusankha galasilo, yesetsani kugula zomwe zidzakhale muzithunzi - izi zimalepheretsa vuto la mphamvu ;
- nthawi ndi nthawi, khalani magalasi;
- Kutayika kwa galasi iyenera kutengedwa monga chizindikiro, chenjezo la kuthera kwakukulu kotheka. Samalani, penyani zinthu zanu;
- ziribe kanthu kaya kuyesedwa kwa mkwatibwi wamtsogolo kudzavala chovala chokwanira ndikudziyang'ana yekha pagalasi - izi siziyenera kuchitika. Panthawi zovuta kwambiri, musayesetse tsatanetsatane wa zovala;
- Kupereka kalilole sikuvomerezedwa, sikunali chizindikiro chabwino. Ngati munapatsidwa mphatso, pezani magalasi pamwamba pa nsalu yothira madzi oyera.
Ndipo, potsirizira pake, kumbukirani kuti magalasi samasunga zambiri mwachindunji. Amagwira mavuto onse komanso chimwemwe chachikulu. Choncho, yesetsani kumwetulira mobwerezabwereza pamene mukuganiza ndipo musazengereze kumuuza kuti "Ndimakukondani!".