Sikuti aliyense amadziwa kuti mavuto a zaka zapakati akuchitanso akazi, ife timagwiritsidwa ntchito pogwiritsa ntchito mawu awa kwa oimira gawo lolimba la umunthu. Mwinamwake izi ndi chifukwa amayi akale anali osadziimira okha, ndipo lero akukumana ndi vuto lalikulu la maganizo. Kapena mwinamwake chifukwa chazaka zaposachedwapa akazi ayamba kukambirana za mavuto awo. Komabe, vuto la mavuto azimayi omwe ali pakatikati alipo ndipo ndikofunika kudziwa momwe angapulumukire.
Zizindikiro za vuto la zaka za pakati pa akazi
Musanafotokozere momwe mungagonjetsere vuto la msinkhu wa pakati, m'pofunika kumvetsetsa momwe zimadziwonetsera komanso pamene kufika kwake kuyenera kuyembekezera.
Zizindikiro zazikulu za mavuto pakati pa akazi ndi:
- kusowa chidwi pa ntchito ndi zosangalatsa;
- malingaliro opanda chidwi za tsogolo;
- funani tanthauzo la moyo;
- zomvetsa chisoni ndikugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yopanda nthawi;
- Kuyanjanitsa maubwenzi ndi achibale ndi abwenzi, nthawi zambiri molakwika;
- kuvutika maganizo konse, kuvutika maganizo.
Pakati pa zovuta za pakati pa amayi zimakhala zovuta kunena, kawirikawiri zimakhala zaka 35 mpaka 50, koma zimatha kutenga mkazi wamng'ono, zomwe zingachitike mtsogolo, ndipo zimachitika kuti akazi sazindikira nthawiyi. Choncho, yankho lachindunji silingaperekedwe ku funso la mavuto a zaka zapakati pa moyo. Chirichonse chimadalira pa mkazi mwiniwake, pa khalidwe lake ndi udindo wake m'moyo. Wina angapeze njira yothetsera mavuto popanda kuzisiya kukhala vuto lalikulu, ndipo wina akhoza kuthandiza katswiri wodziwa yekha.
Zifukwa za mavuto a zaka zapakati pazimayi
Malingana ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo, kupeŵa vuto la zaka zapakati sikungapambane, chifukwa ndi chilengedwe cha munthu kuti asinthe kuchokera ku dziko lina kupita ku lina. Koma pali amayi omwe samanena kuti akukumana ndi mavuto kumeneko. Chovuta ndi chiyani, kodi iwo ndi ochita masewero abwino kapena pali magulu a anthu omwe akukumana ndi nthawi mosavuta? Zonsezi zingatheke, koma psychoanalysts amadziwika magulu a amayi omwe akudziwika kwambiri ku mavuto aakulu.
- amayi opanda ana;
- Amayi odandaula komanso odzimva okha;
- amayi amene anapulumuka imfa ya mwamuna kapena ana;
- amayi osakwatiwa;
- amayi, mochedwa adachoka ku chisamaliro cha makolo ndipo kotero analibe nthawi yolandira maloto awo.
Mmene mungagonjetsere vuto la zaka zapakati?
Azimayi ambiri amamwalira, osapindula kwa wina aliyense chifukwa chakuti sakudziwa momwe angapulumukire vuto la zaka zapakati. Iwo amaganiza kuti dziko ili ndi losazolowereka, amayesera kuti lizisiye mwamsanga, kutenga nthawi ndi zosangalatsa zopanda kanthu zomwe sizibweretsa zotsatira zoyenera. Ndipo iwo sangathe kubweretsa izo, chifukwa vutoli liyenera kukhala lodziwika, ndi nthawi ya ntchito ya mkati, kubwereranso kwa makhalidwe abwino, kufunafuna malo atsopano a malo awo m'moyo.
Mavuto si olakwika, pakali pano ndi nthawi yoganiza. Mpaka pano, mwakhala mukufulumira-kumaliza sukulu, yunivesite, kumanga ntchito, kukwatira, kukhala ndi ana. Ndipo tsopano pakubwera chilakolako, chirichonse chimene chiyenera kuti chichitike, cholinga cha moyo chatayika, chotero kusayera, kusakhumba kuchita chirichonse. Nthawi zina mumangoganizira zozoloŵera, tchuthi ndikupita kumalo opanda bata,
Koma ngati mukukumana ndi mavuto a msinkhu wautali kwa nthawi yayitali komanso osamvetsetsa zonse zomwe mungachite ndi izi - osati mpumulo, kapena kuthandizidwa ndi achibale ndi abwenzi sikuthandiza, ndi bwino kulumikizana ndi wodwalayo. Kupanda kutero, ndiye kuti tifunika kuganizira momwe tingagwirire ndi mavuto a msinkhu wa pakati, komanso ndi kupsinjika kwa nthawi yaitali ndi matenda amanjenje, ndipo izi ndizitali komanso zodula.