Mawu oti "snobbery" sapezeka m'zinenero zamakono nthawi zambiri, koma chodabwitsa chimatanthawuza chingapezekedwe mu mtundu uliwonse. Snob amadziona kuti ndi wapamwamba kuposa ena chifukwa cha kukhala wa banja lapaderalo, gulu. Amakhulupirira kuti iye ndi woyenera kulemekezedwa, ngakhale kuti kunyada, kudzikuza ndi kudzikuza kwa njoka kumapangitsa anthu kuti asakhale naye ndipo amakhumudwitsa.
Snobbery - ndi chiyani?
Poganizira za izi, chithunzithunzi - chomwe chiri, munthu ayenera kutembenukira ku etymology ya mawu awa. Ponena za chiyambi cha mawu akuti "snobbery" pali matembenuzidwe osiyana, koma onsewa amawotcha kuti munthu wina amadziika yekha pamwamba pa ena. Mu lexicon mawu awa adakhazikitsidwa zaka 18-19, pamene iwo anati snobbery ndi chikhumbo chokhala a anthu apamwamba. Ndipo njokayo nthawi zambiri imachokera ku zigawo zosavuta, koma mwa njira iliyonse yodziwika kuti ndi munthu wochokera kumalo opambana.
Snobbery imatha kusankhidwa kuti ikhale malo a anthu oyandikana nawo. Malinga ndi udindo umene munthu wapatsidwa, snob imasankha njira yolankhulana naye. Kulankhulana kwake kumasankha: mwachinyengo ndi iwo omwe ali pansi pa udindo, ndi kusakaniza ndi iwo omwe akuzungulira. Makhalidwe amenewa akhoza kuphatikizidwa ndi kusamvetsetsa komanso kusakwanira poyerekeza ndi anthu oyandikana nawo.
Snobbery ikhoza kukhala mu imodzi mwa magawo kapena kuphatikiza zovuta:
- chiwonetsero;
- snobbery;
- chithunzithunzi cha anthu olemera;
- katswiri wamakono.
Zokometsa zokhazokha - ndi chiyani?
Chifukwa cha ntchito yawo, anthu ojambula amadziwika ndi zokongoletsa zokhazokha. Amadziona kuti ali anzeru kwambiri, anzeru ndi ophunzira, osati oimira ntchito zina. Chotsatira chake, pali mtundu wapadera wa anthu, omwe snobbery imatchulidwa ndi kuphatikizapo matenda a stellar . Zotsatira za snobbery ndizomwe zimayambitsa kubadwa kwabodza, kudzikuza ndi kudalira muyeso yake.
Zotsatira za snobbery
Pali zifukwa zosiyana zowonekera kwa snobbery:
- banja limene zinthu zonse zidapangidwa ndi snobbery;
- snobbery yamapiri ikhoza kukula kuchokera ku chikhumbo chothawa ku "midzi";
- mphamvu yogwira ntchito;
- kudzikonda, kumene munthu sawona zofuna ndi zokhumba za anthu ena;
- kuchepa ndi kuuma kwa kuganiza, chifukwa cha zomwe snob imangoganizira khalidwe ndi makhalidwe ena kuti akhale olondola ndi ofunikira;
- kudzidalira, zomwe munthu amayesa kubweza chifukwa cha kukula kwake kwa chikhalidwe chake ndi kunyozetsa ena.
Snobbery ndi zizindikiro
Snob ndi munthu amene amadziona ngati wapadera komanso woyenera ulemu waukulu kuposa ena, choncho zizindikiro zazikulu za snob ndi:
- malingaliro osiyana kwa anthu a magulu osiyanasiyana;
- zovuta;
- kukhala ndi chidaliro kuti lingaliro lake lokha ndilo lolondola kwambiri;
- Osanyalanyaza anthu omwe sagwirizana ndi malingaliro ndi chiwerengero cha nzeru cha snob;
- kudzidziyimira okha kwa banja lapaderadera, osankhidwa anzeru, zonunkhira za mtundu;
- Kusasamala kwa mavuto ndi zochitika za anthu ena;
- kudzilemekeza kwambiri.
Snobbery - zabwino kapena zoipa?
Snobbery ndi lingaliro losamvetsetseka, koma akatswiri a sayansi ya anthu amayambabe kunena kuti kusokoneza bongo ndi chinthu choipa pakati pa anthu. Malingaliro a psychology, snobs ndi anthu omwe ali ndi zithunzi zambiri. Amakonda kudzizungulira ndi zinthu zokongola komanso anthu abwino. Amamva bwino kwambiri kukongola kwa chirengedwe, monga kuyendera malo osungiramo zinthu zakale, kuwerenga mabuku ojambula, kupita kumaseĊµera. Sakonda makhalidwe osadziwika, kunyansa, zochitika zosadziwika, zojambula zochepa. Mbali yabwino iyi ya njoka, koma imabweretsa mavuto.
Snobs amadzisiyanitsa okha mu wapadera, kalasi yoyamba mmalo mwa anthu. Podziona kuti ndi ambuye, onse omwe sagwirizana ndi malingaliro awo, akhoza kuika chirichonse. Anthu ena kwa iwo ndi anthu apamwamba kwambiri, opanda pake ndi osayenera kusamala. Kuonjezera apo, snobs ndi otsutsana ndi chirichonse chatsopano, chosakhala chachikhalidwe, chosakhala chachikhalidwe. Iwo amanena kuti chikhalidwe chokhachi ndi chikhalidwe chovomerezeka choyenera chiyenera kuchitidwa chidwi ndi munthu wophunzira. Ngakhale kuti iwo okha sakhala ndi chidziwitso chenicheni pa chikhalidwe.
Kuwombera ndi chinyengo
Njovu ndi zodzikongoletsa ndizosiyana ziwiri. Amasokonezeka ndi wina ndi mzake chifukwa chakuti yoyamba ndi yachiwiri amadziona kuti ali pamwamba pa ena ndikuyang'ana ena ndikunyoza. Apo ayi, mfundo izi zimasiyana. Snob amakhulupirira moona mtima kuti iye ndi wabwino kuposa ena, amakhalidwe abwino komanso okhwima. Amayesetsa kulankhulana ndi anthu ake okha ndikuyesera kukwaniritsa miyezo yawo.
Mosiyana ndi njoka yamphongo, kudziletsa sikukhala ndi miyezo yakeyake. Zofuna zake zikugwirizana ndi anthu ena omwe akufuna kuphunzitsa moyo, amawafotokozera. Hanja ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi nkhope ziwiri. Iye samawona zolakwitsa zake, koma nthawizonse amazindikira zozizwitsa ndi machimo a ena. Amaphunzitsa anthu oyandikana nawo, kuyesera kudziwonetsera yekha ndi ena za uchimo wake, chidziwitso kapena zokonda zake.