Ife timadziwika kwambiri ndi zolemba zomwe mkazi amatha kuthetsa kuzunzidwa kwa mwamuna wake, chabwino, timakhulupirira kuti pamoyo palinso. Kotero kwa ife ndizodabwitsa ngati mwamuna sakufuna kugonana. Pamene kukana koteroko kumachitika nthawi zina, palibe chowopsya, koma ngati mnzanu sakufuna kugonana nthawi zonse, izi zakhala zikukhala vuto lalikulu. Tiyeni tiwone chifukwa chake mwamuna sakufuna kugonana komanso ngati ndi vuto lathu.
Mwinamwake iye ali ndi mkazi wina?
Tikazindikira kuti mwamuna sakufuna kugonana, timangoganizira za chifukwa chake izi zimachitika. Ndipo chinthu choyamba chimene chimabwera m'maganizo ndikuti ali ndi wina. Inde, njirayi ndiyotheka ndipo ndizomveka kuganiza kuti ngati mwamuna alibe mphamvu yogonana nawe, ndiye kuti amakumana ndi zosowa zake zogonana kunja kwa banja. Koma, choyamba, kupezeka kwa ambuye kumayenera kudatsimikiziridwa, ndipo kachiwiri, njirayi siyo yokhayo yothekera.
Chifukwa chake mwamuna sakufuna kugonana: physiology
Ngati mwamuna amakana kugonana, mwinamwake, mavuto azaumoyo ali olakwa. Kuwonjezera pa kusintha kwa zaka zomwe zimakhudza kuchepa kwa libido, chifukwa chake chingakhale matenda monga shuga, uchidakwa, kuvutika maganizo. Kuonjezerapo, chifukwa chake chikhoza kukhala lamulo lachiwerewere la mwamuna. Anthu ena amafunika kugonana kamodzi pa sabata (kapena osachepera), ena amafuna kugonana 3-4 pa sabata, pamene ena amafunika kugonana tsiku ndi tsiku. Komanso nkofunika kulingalira zizindikiro za kugonana kwa munthu - kawirikawiri amuna amatha kugonana m'mawa, pamene amayi amakonda kukonda kwambiri usiku. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kuyesa kupeza zosamvana, nthawi ya tsiku, yabwino kwa inu nonse.
Chifukwa chiyani mwamuna safuna kugonana: mavuto kuntchito
Kulephera kugonana kungayambitse mavuto. Mwinamwake mwamuna ali ndi mavuto ambiri kuntchito moti sangangoganizira chilichonse. Lankhulani ndi mwamuna wake, mumuthandizeni kuti azisangalala. Komanso, kusowa kwa kugonana kungayambitsidwe ndi mavuto a m'banja. Kumbukirani momwe mumamulangira nthawi zambiri, kumuchotsa mu thupi. Mwinamwake tsopano, mwamuna wanu wakhumudwitsidwa ndi chinachake, anaganiza kuti akugwiritseni chilango chomwecho.
Mwamuna safuna kugonana: mkaziyo ndi amene amamuimba mlandu
Kawirikawiri akazi, kukwatiwa, kuleka kudziyang'anira okha, kukula molimba, mochulukira "chonde" bamboyo sivala zovala zachigololo, ndi zovala zoyera zovala ndi mawonekedwe owopsya pamaso. Kwa amuna, maonekedwe a mayi ndi ofunikira, ndipo amene amasiya kuyankha maganizo awo pa mkazi wokongola ndi wachigololo, amawasiya chidwi. Kuphatikiza pa maonekedwe, chifukwa chokana kupuma pa kama ndiko khalidwe la mkazi - zodandaula nthawi zonse, zokayikira, zokhumudwa, ndi zokhumudwitsa siziwathandiza kuwonjezeka kwa chilakolako cha kugonana.
Palinso nthawi zomwe mwamuna safuna kugonana chifukwa cha mimba. Chowonadi ndi chakuti amuna ambiri amadziwa kugonana ndi amayi oyembekezera monga kupotoza, kudzipatula - pambuyo pa zonse, izo zimanyamula moyo watsopano.
Mwamuna samakonda kugonana
Poyamba, lingaliro lakuti mwamuna sakonda kugonana, kuchokera ku gulu la zosangalatsa. Komabe anthu omwe sakonda kugonana, m'chilengedwe kumeneko. Ziwerengero zimati amuna awa ali pafupifupi 3 peresenti ya chiwerengerocho. Koma kupanda chidwi kumeneku sikungodzipangire, kawirikawiri khalidwe ili likhoza kuyambira kuyambira pachiyambi, ngakhale atatha msinkhu, mnyamatayo sakusangalatsidwa ndi atsikana kapena kugonana.
Monga momwe tingagwirizire pazinthu zomwe tatchulazi, kusowa kwa kugonana sikokwanira chifukwa cha kupezeka kwa ambuye. Choyamba, chinthu choyamba muyenera kuchita ndi kukambirana ndi mwamuna wanu, kupeza chomwe chikumuvutitsa, mwinamwake akusowa chinachake mu chibwenzi chanu. Chabwino, podziwitsidwa, ndikofunika kuthetsa vutoli, ngati munthuyu akufunabe.