Poyamba, ankakhulupilira kuti tsogolo la mtsikanayo - kuima pambali, maso osokonezeka, ndi kuyembekezera kuti mnyamatayo adzamvetsera. Masiku ano, kugonana kwabwino kwambiri kumatengedwa kuti kunyengedwe kwa amuna, palinso malamulo oti asankhe atsikana. Ndizoipa kapena zabwino, ziri kwa inu, tidzakuuzani momwe mungachitire chidwi ndi munthu komanso zomwe mungachite naye pambuyo pake.
Kusankha malamulo kwa atsikana
Choyamba muyenera kunena kuti "chipika" ndi chiyani. Lingaliro limeneli limaphatikizapo kupusitsa mwamsanga ndi cholinga chenichenicho - kungakhale kungodzimva (kumvetsa zomwe zingathe "kuchotsedwa" munthu aliyense) kapena mapulani a bedi madzulo. Ngati mukufuna kupambana mwamuna kwa nthawi yaitali, mumupange mwamuna wanu, ndiye kuti simuli pano. Choncho, malamulo akuluakulu a chithunzithunzi kapena kunyengerera mwamsanga ndi awa:
- Maonekedwe okongola. Izi sizikuphatikizapo zapamwamba zokha, komanso zimakongoletsa zovala za amuna. Kuwonjezera apo, muyenera kukhala okonzeka bwino - tsitsi, misomali, nkhope ndi, ndithudi, chiwerengero - sizili za miyezo yachitsanzo, koma zazomwe zimakondweretsa maso. Mkazi wina yemwe ali ndi mvuu yovuta kwambiri sangakhale ndi chidwi chilichonse kwa wina aliyense.
- Maphunziro osiyanasiyana, asungwana amaphunzitsidwa njira zokopa chidwi cha amuna, chimodzi mwa zomwe ndizo "kutayirira". Pochita izi, muyenera kufufuza "wozunzidwa" patali ndikuwonetsa chidwi chanu ndi maso. Ngati mwamunayo akulowetsani, mutha kutenga gawo lotsatira kuti mudziwe bwino.
- Malamulo akuluakulu sikutaya nthawi pa osakhudzidwa. Ngati mwamuna samangodzipereka nthawi yomweyo, chokani "chokhudza" kwa iwo omwe ali ndi malingaliro ozama ndipo akufuna kuthera nthawi yakugonjetsa linga limeneli.
- Pambuyo pachidziwitso chachitika, yambani kukambirana. Mitu yaikulu ndi yabwino kuti musakweze, yesetsani kupeza mutu wa zokambirana, zomwe zingakhale zosangalatsa kwa iye. Izi zikadacitika, lolani womulankhulanayo alankhule, ndi kuyika ndemanga zanu pokhapokha.
- Pokambirana, musaiwale kutamanda munthu, aliyense amafunika kuzindikira, ndipo amuna omwe akufuna maudindo sangathe kukhala popanda izo.
- Ngati n'zovuta kuti mudziwe bwino, musabwezeretu gudumu, gwiritsani ntchito njira yakale yovomerezeka - pemphani thandizo.
Nenani kuti simungathe kulimbana ndi malo otetezeka pa botolo la madzi, funsani kuti mutenge chinachake kuchokera pamwamba pa alumali m'sitolo, kawirikawiri, perekani ntchito yosavuta yomwe ingasonyeze makhalidwe ake achimuna.
Kusankha ndi njira yodziwana bwino omwe alibe zolinga za nthawi yayitali, choncho gwiritsani ntchito njira pano kuti muchepe chidwi, komanso kuti musayambe kudandaula ndi chiyembekezo. Mwachidule, kunyamula ndi njira yothandizira chirichonse, kukhala mtsogoleri wa maubwenzi, kusankha nthawi yoyamba ndi nthawi yothera. Koma ngati mukufuna chidwi ndi chidole, yesani nokha.