Kusakhudzidwa

Nthawi zina zimachitika tikamalongosola khalidwe la munthu wina, tigwiritsire ntchito mawu oti "kukhudzidwa mtima". Koma funso limabuka ngati tikudziwa tanthauzo lenileni, kodi timamvetsa chomwe chiri chokhudzidwa.

Choyamba, tiyenera kukumbukira kuti khalidwe laumwini limalimbikitsa munthu, ngakhale kudzidzimvera yekha, kuti achite zinthu zomwe sizinayambe kuchitidwa mofulumira, kuyeza zonse zomwe zimapindulitsa. Mwamwayi, chifukwa cha kukhudzidwa mtima, kukhudzidwa kwapakati, munthu akhoza kupanga chisokonezo.

Kuchita chidwi m'maganizo kumatanthauzira khalidwe la munthu, lomwe liri ndi chizoloŵezi chopanga zisankho, kukhala ndi chikoka choyamba, potsutsidwa ndi zochitika kapena maganizo. Munthu wopupuluma safuna kuganizira za zochita zake, koma nthawi yomweyo amawakhudza ndipo nthawi zambiri amalapa mwangwiro. Chifukwa cha kuonekera kwa achinyamata ndi zotsatira za kuwonjezereka maganizo. Ndipo anthu akuluakulu amatha kudziwonetsera kuti amatha kugwira ntchito mopitirira muyeso, matenda ena ndi omwe amakhudza (ndiko kuti, ndi amphamvu, koma ocheperako, zomwe zimachitikira, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimawonekera ndi maonekedwe a mkati ndi magetsi a umunthu).

Kutengeka ndi mtundu wina wotsutsana ndi lingaliro la "reflexivity". Kusinkhasinkha - kutengeka ndikutanthauzira kuganiza kwa chiyero cha khalidwe la chidziwitso. Zimachokera kuwona, mothandizidwa ndi zomwe zinatsimikiziridwa kuti kuthetsa mavuto omwe anthu angagawidwe kukhala mitundu iwiri. Mtundu woyamba umakhala wofulumira kuchitapo kanthu, poganizira chinthu choyamba chimene chinachitika (kutengeka mtima), pamene mtundu wachiwiri umakhala wokonzeka kwambiri, ndiko kuti, asanayambe kuchita kanthu, amalingalira mosamala vutoli.

Monga lamulo, munthu wopupuluma pakapita kanthawi amayamba kudandaula ndi ntchito yabwino, yomwe poyamba inachititsa kuti chiwonongeko chilichonse chiwonongeke. Malingana ndi makhalidwe ake, munthu uyu akhoza kupempha chikhululuko, kapena kuwonjezera kuwonjezereka kwake.

Yesetsani kuyesa

Pofuna kudziŵa kukhalapo kwa chisokonezo, mayesero omwe amapangidwa amagwiritsidwa ntchito (mwachitsanzo, funso lofunsidwa la H. Eysenck).

Mu funso ili pansipa, phunziroli liyenera kuikidwa pafupi ndi mawu akuti "+" kapena "-", malinga ndi ngati akugwirizana kapena ayi.

1. Mumakonda kupanga kupanga mwamsanga.
2. Mu moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku mumakhala pansi pa mphindi, osaganizira za zotsatira zake.
3. Mukamapanga zisankho, mumayesa zopindulitsa ndi zowononga.
4. Kuyankhula popanda kuganiza ndi za iwe.
5. Nthawi zambiri mumagwira ntchito pamaganizo anu.
6. Mumaganizira mofatsa zomwe mukufuna kuchita.
7. Mumakwiya mukamaona anthu omwe samatha nthawi zonse kusankha chilichonse.
8. Malingaliro ali pafupi ndi inu.
9. Chisoni ndi chofunika kwambiri kuposa maganizo, ngati mukufuna kuchita chinachake.
10. Simukufuna kusankha zochita kwa nthawi yaitali kuti mupange chisankho.
11. Nthawi zambiri mumadzidzudzula mwamsanga pakupanga chisankho.
12. Nthawi zambiri mumaganiza za zotsatira za chisankho chomwe mukufuna kuchita.
13. Inu mumakhala ndi kukayikira kwautali, mpaka mphindi yotsiriza, pakupanga chisankho.
14. Inu mumaganizira za izo kwa nthawi yaitali ngakhale pamene mukuthetsa funso losavuta.
15. Mukumenyana, mumadzudzula wolakwayo, popanda kukayikira.

Kwa "+" pa mafunso 1,2,4,5,7,9-12 ndi 15 komanso chifukwa cha mayankho olakwika kwa 3.6, 8,13,14, m'pofunika kuikapo mfundo imodzi. Chiwerengero, chiwerengero cha ziwerengero, chiwerengero chowerengera kwambiri.

Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti sizingatheke kunena kuti kukhudzidwa ndi chinthu choipa mwa munthu. Musaiwale kuti chilengedwe cha anthu chimakhala ndi zambiri ndipo nthawi zambiri sichidziwika.