Kusasamala ndipadera pa moyo pamene kuphulika kapena kusowa kwa malingaliro pamaganizo aliwonse akuwonetseratu, koma maganizo onse osagonjetsedwa amasungidwa. Chisamaliro chikhoza kuchitika chifukwa cha zinthu zakunja kapena chifukwa cha matenda.
Mkhalidwe wosasamala ukhoza kuchitika pa msinkhu uliwonse, koma okalamba amavutika nthawi zambiri. Njira yokhala ndi chidwi ndi anthu osadzikonda ndi yakuti, opitirira muyeso, mitsempha ya mitsempha imatayika nthawi iliyonse yokhoza kuchita ndi mahomoni achimwemwe, mantha, ndi zina zotero. Zifukwa za kuoneka kwachisokonezo ndi zambiri.
Choncho, matenda ambiri omwe ali ndi matenda omwe amachititsa munthu kukhala ndi moyo pakati pa moyo ndi imfa, amachititsa kuti anthu asamvetse. Mwachitsanzo, munthu amene anapulumuka ngozi yowopsa, amalephera kumvetsera zonse zomwe zimamuzungulira, ndipo masiku angapo akhoza kumangoganizira. Komanso, anthu atatha kudwala matenda a mtima omwe amavutika kwambiri ndi kuperewera kwa oxygen amayamba kuganizira nthawi zonse za imfa ndipo sakhala ndi chidwi ndi chilichonse chomwe chimachitika.
Odwala pazilombo nthawi zambiri amakhala osasamala, chifukwa amakhala ndi chidziwitso chakufa. Komabe maganizo awo amachititsidwa ndi mankhwala amphamvu a mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo, omwe amauzidwa ndi dokotala kuti athetse vuto la ululu.
Nchifukwa chiyani kusamvera kumabwera?
Kupanda chidwi kungabwere chifukwa cha zopinga zazikulu, pafupifupi kugwa kapena "kulephera." Kotero kuti kuyambitsa kusokoneza maganizo kungathe kutayika kwa katundu yense, kusintha kwakukulu mu zikhalidwe za moyo osati za chifuniro chake, kutaya mwadzidzidzi kwa wokondedwa.
Kusamvetsetsa kwa amai nthawi zambiri kumapangitsa kuti chikondi chisakwaniritsidwe. Popeza atsikana ali ndi mtima wamtima, kukondana nthawi zambiri kumapereka "moyo wonse", ndipo podziwa kuti zonse zachitika ndi kuwonongeka, anthu ambiri "amaunikiridwa". Ndipo pakadali pano maganizo awiri akuwonekera mkati mwa mkazi - chikondi chabwino (kawirikawiri chimachitika) ndi kukhumudwa kwakukulu, chifukwa cha "malo ogulitsa" maganizo okhudzidwa maganizo amapezeka ndipo kusasamala kumachitika.