Atasiya lamulo ndikubereka mwana, mayi wina wamng'ono amadziwa kuti, kuphatikizapo kusamalira mwana wake wokondedwa ndi ntchito zapakhomo, amakhalanso ndi nthawi yochuluka. Mwayi wopita kuntchito, kusiya mwanayo akusamalidwa ndi achibale, sikunali konse. Kotero, ambiri akufunsidwa funso lenileni - choti achite chigamulo? Pali zambiri zomwe mungachite kuposa kukhala ndi nthawi yanu. Tiyeni tione zochititsa chidwi kwambiri mwa iwo.
Kodi mungachite chiyani pa nthawi yochoka?
Funso loyamba lomwe limadandaula amayi, komabe akudikira maonekedwe a makanda padziko lapansi - pamene pakufunika kuti apite ku chigamulo? Palibe amene angakupatseni yankho lenileni. Madokotala amalangiza kuti "apumule" pa maziko a ubwino wawo. Ngati muli munthu wogwira ntchito, ndiye kuti muyenera kutumizidwa ndi lamulo pa sabata 70 masiku asanabadwe mwanayo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti pafupi sabata la 32 mudzamasulidwa kuntchito. Ndi bwino kutsatira malangizo othandiza, ndikupitabe ku chiganizo. Ndalama zonse zomwe simungapeze, ndipo panopa zakhala zovuta kwambiri kuganizira ntchito zawo. Inde, ndipo nthawi yayitali mwanayo amakhala pa kompyuta akhoza kuvulaza kwambiri. Koma, pafupifupi mkazi aliyense, pokhala paulendo wobereka ndi makoma anayi, patatha mlungu umodzi amayamba kupenga ndi kukhuta. Mafilimu onse omwe mumawakonda amawonekeratu, nyumbayo ili yowala, ndipo zinthu zofunika kwa mwanayo zagulidwa kale, kapena malingana ndi zikhulupiriro zokhudzana ndi zikhulupiliro, zimakhala ngati mndandanda wa kugula kwa mwamuna pamene mwana akadali m'chipatala. Kotero masabata angapo asanabadwe - ndi nthawi yoti mukhale ndi ntchito zamtendere:
- Kudziwa. Zakudya zabwino, mittens, napkins ndi zina zotentha zabwino osati mwachidule kufupikitsa nthawi kuyembekezera kwa mwana, komanso kukongoletsa kwanu, kuchititsa zokoma.
- Kujambula ndi kupanga zokongoletsa ndi zokongoletsera zokongola. Zimatanthauzanso nthawi yothandiza, ndipo mwana atabadwa angakhale njira yabwino yopeza ndalama. Koma zambiri pa izi kenako.
- Kuwerenga. Kupititsa patsogolo chidziwitso cha chinenero chimodzi ndi phunziro limodzi lothandiza kwambiri pa lamuloli. Mukhoza kutenga mabuku angapo kuchipatala. Ndikhulupirire, tsiku lotsatira pambuyo pa kubadwa, mudzakumbukira ndi kuyamikira malangizo awa ndipo simudzadzifunsa nokha zomwe muyenera kuchita pamene mwana wanu wagona.
- Kuyenda mu mpweya wabwino. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri mwana asanabadwe. Ngakhale ziri zovuta kuti inu musamuke, musakhale aulesi ndipo mutenge ola la nthawi yanu mukuyenda mumsewu. Izi sizidzangowonjezera njira yoberekera, koma zidzathandizanso kuti mwanayo akhale ndi moyo wabwino.
Miyezi ingapo pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa mwanayo, mudzakhala ndi regimen yochepa yochepa. Mudzadziwa nthawi yoyenera kuthana ndi mwana, komanso pamene ntchito zapakhomo zikuyembekezera. Pakati pa maphunziro achikazi akuluwa pali maola angapo a nthawi yopuma. Ndiye ndizo kwa inu kusankha ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito zapakhomo kapena mumagwiritsa ntchito phindu. Mwachitsanzo, dzifunseni momwe mungapezere kukhala pansi pa lamulo.
Kodi mungagwiritse ntchito bwanji lamulo?
Amuna ambiri, poyang'ana akazi awo pa ntchito yatsopano ya amayi ndi amayi, samvetsa chifukwa chake amawononga mphamvu zawo ndikuyesera kugwira ntchito. Pambuyo pake, pali iye - wopindulitsa kwambiri m'banja, ndipo mumadziwa malo anu, imani maola ambiri pa chitofu ndipo mwanayo abwere. Ndipotu, pafupifupi mkazi wamakono wamakono akufuna kutenga ndalama zake m'thumba mwake, zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito payekha komanso pa mphatso kwa mwana wake wokondedwa. Ndicho chifukwa chake tapeza malangizo ambiri othandiza momwe tingapezere munthu watsopano mu lamulo.
- Ife tikupitiriza kugwira ntchito muzipadera zathu. Izi zikugwiritsidwa ntchito pazochitika monga auntiant, wotanthauzira kapena mphunzitsi wa zinenero zakunja, mtolankhani, wolemba intaneti ndi wokonza webusaiti. Ngakhale ngati mulibe diploma muzochita izi, koma muli ndi luso ili pamwambapa, muyenera kukhala ndi mwayi ndikukhala freelancer. Mwa mawu osavuta, mudzakhala antchito amene analembedwera kuti achite ntchito zina. Mukakhala pakhomo ndi makompyuta omwe mumawakonda, mukhoza kuthera maola angapo kuntchito yotereyi. Wogwira ntchitoyo akukakamizidwa kuti awonetsere malipiro a ntchito ndi ntchito. Ndipo pezani ntchito yotere yomwe mungathe poyitanitsa kupitanso kwanu ndi kutumiza malonda pa malo apadera.
- Ngati mumapanga chinachake ndi manja anu, ndi bwino kuganizira momwe mungakhalire pakhomo, mutakhala pansi ndikugulitsa zinthu zanu. Izi zikuphatikizapo zokongoletsera, makadidi, zinthu zamkati ndi zojambula zokha. Mukhoza kupanga masamba m'masamba ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi zolengedwa zanu ndikuwapanga kuti aziwongolera. Ndipotu, ntchito yomwe mumaikonda ikhoza kubweretsa ndalama zambiri, zokhudzana ndi amayi ambiri.
- Kutsatsa malonda. Njira ina yabwino yogwirira ntchito ndi lamulo ndikukhala ndi ndalama zanu. Kampani iliyonse yomwe imapereka katundu ndi mautumiki ake kupyolera mu makina olemba mabuku idzakondwera kukufikitsani ku gulu lake. Ndipo inu, kuphatikiza pa phindu mudzapeza mwayi wogwiritsa ntchito mwaufulu katundu wa makampani awa. Mwachitsanzo, zodzoladzola, katundu wa pakhomo kapena mbale.
- Kuwunikira makampani. Ntchito imeneyi ndi yabwino kwa omwe ali ndi mwayi wochoka mwanayo kupita kwa achibale m'mawa. Chinthu chachikulu ndikusankha yemwe mungathe kudyetsa ndi momwe mungakhalire bizinesi yaying'ono mukhitchini yanu. Mfundoyi, pogwiritsa ntchito kuphika kwanu ikhoza kuthandizira anzanu, ndipo abwenzi ndi achibale angathandize pakufalitsa.
- Kansera kunyumba. Ndibwino kuti mukuwerenga Zimagwira ntchito ngati bwalo la abwenzi anu muli makolo angapo omwe akulolani kulipira inu pokweza mwana wawo pamene ali otanganidwa ndi bizinesi. Komabe, kuti phindu la mtundu uwu likhale mtundu wosiyana wa bizinesi lidzatenga maulendo ambiri ndi makani kuti apange ntchitoyi mwalamulo.
Kuphatikiza pa zopindulitsa, pakadalibe ntchito yambiri imene simunalandire manja anu. Mwachitsanzo - kudziphunzitsa nokha ndi kupita kwa amayi oyembekezera. Izi zikhoza kukhala maphunziro a masewera, makalasi achilankhulo china, komanso ngakhale kuthekera
Poganizira zoyenera kuchita mu lamuloli, musayime ndikupitiriza kudzikuza. Zomwe mumakonda kuchita kapena homuweki ziyenera kukubweretsani chimwemwe ndi chimwemwe. Chinthu chachikulu chimene ntchito yanu ikuphatikizana ndi udindo wa mkazi ndi amayi. Pambuyo pake, pambuyo pa kutha kwa amayi osamalidwa dziko lisanawoneke maonekedwe awiri ovomerezeka - inu ndi mwana wanu.