Kodi mumadziwa kuti nthawi yokhudzana ndi mgwirizano umagwirizanitsa nthawi yochuluka? Ndiponso, nthawi yochuluka yowonjezera ikugwiritsidwa ntchito patapita nthawi ndi atsogoleri ndi kuthetsa mikangano ndi njira yobwezeretsa pambuyo pa zotsatira zawo zovulaza. Kusamvana pakati pa bungwe kumatengera maudindo pambali pa kufunika ndi kupezeka pamunda wa maphunziro a maganizo kwa abwana ndi mabungwe.
Kodi pali mikangano iti?
Kusamvana, ndipo ife tsopano tiri ndi malingaliro, kukangana kokondweretsa ndiyo njira yokhayo yothetsera mavuto, kuzindikira zomwe zingatheke ndikukonzanso bizinesi. Mikangano imabuka nthawi zonse, koma pali "malo otentha" komwe mameneja ayenera kukhala ndi njira yowonongeka yothetsa mikangano mu bungwe. Apo ayi, bwana mwiniwake kapena abusa ake sadzapulumuka:
- Amagulu aakazi - "akupsompsona njoka", amayi ndi kuntchito samabisa maganizo awo ndipo mwachimwemwe amasonyeza zabwino komanso makamaka kuti pali maganizo oipa ndi malingaliro;
- Ntchito yachizolowezi ndi yodalirika - ngati gulu liri ndi ntchito yodalirika, dikirani "kuyatsa moto", chifukwa tonsefe tikufunikira kusiya wina;
- mpikisano waukulu pakati pa anzako - njira zonse ndi zabwino pano, koma yemwe adzipeza yekha pachitsime chosweka sadzakhala ndi ngongole nthawi yotsatira;
- Zokambirana zomwe zikugwira ntchito pazithunzithunzi - nyumba ili patali, kusadzulo mzimayi wosakonzekera kukhitchini, sikugwira ntchito, ndikofunikira "kutsanulira moyo" kwa anzako;
- antchito ali ndi ntchito zosiyanasiyana, koma cholinga chimodzi - ogwira ntchito onse akufufuza nthawi zonse "wolakwa";
- pamene akuluakulu a boma sali okwera, ndipo kusakonda kwawo kwa utsogoleri kuyenera kutsanuliridwa kukangana ndi mnzako.
Mu mabungwe a mtundu woterewu, njira zothetsera kusamvana zimangokhala zosasinthika; apa palibe zomwe zingathe kuchita ndi mtsogoleri wotchuka omwe ali ndi makhalidwe apamwamba.
Ndondomeko ya mkangano
Njira zothetsera mikangano m'gulu zimadalira pa siteji ya vutoli.
- "Kukonzekeretsa" - apa wamkulu woyenera kuchita ndi kuseketsa, mawu okhwima, mwa njira iliyonse yomwe idzathetse mlengalenga. Gawo ili likuwonetsedwa mu mphamvu ya mawu, kutsutsa zolembazo, kukumbukira kutukwana ndi kulephera zaka zingapo zapitazo. Maofesi omwe akudziwa kuti pakakhala zoterezo amatha kufika kwa wopanga khofi ndipo kununkhira kwa mbewu zowonongeka kungasokoneze mwamsanga zotsutsana, makamaka ngati zikukhudza akazi.
- "Asilikali" - kutayika kunakhala chete kwa nthawi yayitali ndipo kunasonkhanitsidwa, kutanthauza, mwamsanga kapena mtsogolo, iwo adzatsanulira. Apa, aliyense adzamenyera ufulu wawo mwa njira iliyonse, koma, kuyendetsa kusamvana mu bungwe lamakono pa gawo lino ndizosatheka popanda omvera.
- "Kukambirana" - kuzindikira kumatengera patsogolo, kapena kungokhala mphamvu yakulimbana pamapeto. Pamafunika kuthekera kokambirana ndi bwana,
amene ayenera kukhala ngati chess player, kapena msilikali m'mphepete mwa migodi. - "Kulankhulana" ndikumapeto kwa mkangano, pamene mbali iliyonse ikuzindikira ulamuliro wa wina. M'tsogolomu, mutatha kudutsa, zokangana zidzangokhala ndi kuphwanya malamulo.
Chowonadi, chinthu chachikulu muzochita za mtsogoleri chidzakhala chidziwitso cha mtundu wa nkhondo, chiyambi chake, ndipo, ndithudi, kuthetsa. Akuluakulu a boma ayenera kuchita zinthu molimbikitsana komanso mwachikondi kwa gulu lopandukira, ndipo kulakwitsa kwakukulu kudzakhala kuyesa kupondereza nkhanzayo poyankha.