Posachedwapa, moyo wathu uli wodzaza ndi mitundu yonse ya zoipa, zimakhala zosavuta kupuma. Ife, mofanana ndi mpweya, timalandira chifundo ndi chifundo cha ena, koma anthu ochepa amaganiza kuti nkofunika kuyamba, choyamba, ndi nokha. Ganizirani za nthawi yomwe mumatsutsa anthu, kuwaneneza chirichonse, kukwiya ndi kulumbirira? Komanso, inu, mumadzipezera zifukwa zambiri, mukuganiza kuti zomwe mukuchita ndi zoyenera: "mwachedwa kwambiri kwa mphindi zisanu ndi zisanu!", "Zingatheke bwanji kuvala?", Ndipotu. Ndipo ndi kangati komwe iwe unapereka kwaulere, kuchokera mu mtima wangwiro, kumuthandiza munthu wosadziwika kapena munthu yemwe sakukudziwani kuti ali ndi udindo? Ndi kangati mumayenda mumsewu ndikusangalala lero, mbalame zomwe zimaimba pozungulira, dzuwa lomwe limawala kwambiri pamwamba pa mutu wanu? Dziyeseni nokha moona mtima, ndi chiyani chomwe muli nacho, chabwino kapena choipa? Ngati muli ndi chizoloŵezi chotsiriza, muyenera kuganizira momwe mungakhalire okoma mtima komanso potsiriza, tengani tsatanetsatane ku chimwemwe ndi chimwemwe.
Ndikufuna kukhala wokoma mtima
Pali lingaliro lakuti ndizosatheka kukhala munthu wabwino, iwo akhoza kubadwa kokha. Mwinamwake. Koma zimadziwika bwino kuti, ngakhale patali kwambiri, mosasamala kanthu za chikhalidwe chathu, mtundu wa khungu, thupi, aliyense wa ife ali ndi kukoma mtima kumeneku. Ndipo zidzatiuza momwe tingakhalire okoma mtima, okonda, omvera komanso ololera kwa ena.
Chifukwa chokhala okoma mtima
- Khalani okoma mtima kwa ena, mumadzikomera mtima.
- Monga mukudziwa, zoipa zonse ndi zabwino, nthawi zonse zimabwerera kwa iwe mu kukula kwakukulu.
- Kukoma mtima kungapindulitse osati moyo wanu wokha, koma dziko lozungulira.
Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale wokoma mtima komanso wokoma mtima?
- Choyamba, tiyenera kukumbukira kuti zabwino zisakhale kwa inu nokha, koma poyamba kwa ena. Khalani omvera, yesetsani kuthandiza osati kokha ndi uphungu, komanso ndi ntchito.
- Khalani oyamikira pa zonse zomwe muli nazo kapena kupeza ndi kuyamikira kwanu. Kumbukirani kuti ngakhale kuchokera kuoneka ngati kosafunika ndi kosauka "zikomo", wina akhoza kukhala wopepuka mu moyo.
- Pewani kuweruza ena ndikupulumutsidwa bwino ndi kutsutsidwa. Kumbukirani nzeru "Musaweruze ndipo simudzaweruzidwa."
- Chitani chirichonse ndi kumvetsa, pewani mikangano. Yesetsani kuzindikira kuti simungamvetsetse aliyense, monga momwe aliyense sangathe kumvetsetsani, ndiye bwanji osokoneza nthawi ndi mphamvu pazitsutsana zopanda phindu.
- Limbikitsani, mmalo mozindikira zophophonya ndi zolakwika zosiyanasiyana, zindikirani zinthu zabwino ndipo musaiwale kuwuza anthu za iwo, chifukwa chonchi, koma chabwino.
Kukoma mtima ndi chinthu chenicheni komanso chosadziwika, khalani okoma mtima kwa anthu oyandikana nawo, ndipo dziko lonse lidzakhala lokoma kwa inu.