Kukongola kwachikazi, monga chirichonse mu dziko - ndiko kwaufupi. Kamodzi, ngakhale wokonda kwambiri komanso mkazi wokonda ufulu akubwera ndi lingaliro lakuti ndi nthawi yokwatira. Amayi, kuyenda mofulumira pamodzi ndi oyendayenda pamsewu, osakhalanso ndi iwo omwe amathera ubwana wawo pachabe, ndipo ngakhale mosiyana, amakhala ndi nsanje, ndipo magalimoto achikwati ndi mabelu ndi nthano zomwe zimasonyeza kuti njira yonse sichikhumudwitsa, ndipo zimangopangitsa kuti munthu asamveke.
Chabwino, ngati mukufuna kwenikweni kukwatira, muyenera kupeza mwamsanga mwamuna. Momwe mungachitire - silo funso loyambirira, choyamba muyenera kusankha chimodzimodzi, chifukwa chiyani mufulumizitse ndondomekoyi: nthawi ndi "kuyimitsa" kapena ndi nthawi yeniyeni?
Bwanji mukukwatira mwamsanga?
Ndikofunika kuti muyankhe funso ili nokha. Chowonadi ndi chakuti kuthamanga pakupanga zisankho zazikulu sikokwanira nthawizonse, chotero, kusankha mwamsanga mwa mwamuna ndi kulembedwa kwa "mphezi mwamphamvu" mu registrar kungathe kusudzulana mofulumira. Ganizirani zifukwa zomveka komanso zolinga, ndipo ngati zilidi zofunikira kwambiri, ndipo chiopsezo chokhazikitsa banja limodzi ndi munthu wosadziwika sichikuvutitsani, ndiye ife tikuwerenga mwamsanga zinthu zotsatirazi kuti tikwatirane.
Kodi mungakwatire mwamsanga komanso mwakachetechete?
Kupeza bwino mu gawoli si kophweka: zinthu zambiri zomwe sungathe kuziganizira: palibe amene amadziwa zomwe zidzasankhidwe zaka 10, ndipo zomwe mukufuna m'tsogolomu, n'zovuta kufotokozera. Choncho, chofunikira chachikulu chosankhira mnzanu ndi chomwe chikukugwirani tsopano. Ngati pali zochepa "zosungira" - osati zoopsa, zilipo. Koma ngati mutayang'ana kumbuyo kwake chinsomba chakumwa chakumwa chaukali, makina achitchova, mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena khalidwe lachiwerewere kwa kugonana kwa atsikana - kuthawa kwa iye.
Mnyamata wanu ndi wotani?
Kuti mukwatire bwino, samverani amuna awa:
- wochenjera ndi wochenjera (zabwino pa ntchito);
- amakonda nyama (osati munthu wankhanza);
- Odala (sipadzakhala mavuto, monga "kudzipangira chovala chatsopano");
- otsogolera (sangamange kutseka kwa mpweya ndikulonjeza zomwe sitingathe kuchita - padzakhala chinyengo chachikulu);
- Ogwira ntchito mwakhama (patapita zaka zisanu zakubadwa) simudzamva kuti mwakwatirana "infusoria nsapato" - thupi lophweka ndi moyo wosasangalatsa komanso zotsatira zake zonse).
Ngati munakumana ndi munthu amene ali ndi makhalidwe atatu oyambirira, ndiye kuti ndi nthawi yoti muganizire za ukwati.
Kodi mwamsanga mungapeze bwanji mwamuna?
Anthu - monga vinyo, pirira nthawi. Kotero samalani ndi kusankha mwamsanga.
Popeza moyo sungaganizidwe, ndipo ndithudi, ukhoza kukumana ndi mwamuna wako wamtsogolo kulikonse, ndiye kuti moyo wako ukhale wotanganidwa kwambiri: pitani ku cafe, kumanga maso (maonekedwe abwino maola 24 pa tsiku, palibe amene anachotsa), pa maulendo, mawonetsero, rollerdromes, ma cinema ndi malo ena amtunduwu, mwa mawu, kuwonjezera mwayi wokhala ndi munthu woyenera.
Langizo: Amayi 21 peresenti amapeza mwamuna kapena mkazi wawo wamwamuna wam'tsogolo, 27% ammabanja ammudzi, ndipo mabanja 16% amakhala ndi anzawo. Choncho mapeto: Timalankhula zambiri, nthawi zambiri timapanga "kutuluka m'kuunika" ndikuyang'ana anzathu.
Kodi mungakwatire mwamsanga bwanji?
Munthu akapezeka, atayesedwa, ndipo akwaniritsa zosowa zochepa, ndiye kuti ayenera kukakamizidwa kukwatira. Nazi malingaliro a momwe mungakwatire mwamsanga:
- Phunzirani zoyenera za mkazi wake (osati kumvetsetsa koyenera kwa mkazi wabwino, ndiye mkazi yemwe ali wokonzeka kugwiritsa ntchito moyo wake wonse).
- Ngakhale malingaliro ake okhudza mkazi wake sakugwirizana ndi anu, tidzipangitseni: kenaka tibwererenso "mwanjira yanu."
- Mupangitse kuti asangalale ndipo musamapangitse zambiri: ziribe kanthu kuti mukufuna kukwatira kapena ayi, koma simungalole kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yambiri yolankhulana.
Nanga ndi ndani amene angathandize kukwatira mwamsanga?
Zinthu zochepa zomwe zifulumizitsa ukwati:
- zonunkhira ndi zonunkhira zokoma;
- kuphika;
- Malo abwino komanso osowa malo omwe mumakhalamo: mulole kuti apeze kuti ndinu wothandizira bwino komanso amadziwa kupanga chisa chokongola ngakhale kuchokera ku "kennel" yomwe mukufuna kukhala kwamuyaya.
Anthu omwe angakuthandizeni kukwatira mwamsanga:
- Makolo: ayenera kusonyeza kuti akusangalala ndi wosankhidwa wanu ndipo akukonda kale "mpongozi wanu wam'tsogolo";
- Anzanga: anthu awa ayenera kufotokoza momveka bwino kuti mukhoza kuthera nthawi pamodzi nawo.
Kuzindikira luso la "banja mwamsanga" sikuli kosavuta, koma kutsatira malangizo awa, mudzafulumira kufufuza kwanu ndikutha kumasulira maloto anu.