Ukwati mu Tchalitchi cha Orthodox - amalamulira

Kuti mupange ukwati mu ofesi yolembera, mukufunikira chikhumbo chofanana, malipiro a ntchito ndi boma. Malamulo a ukwati mu Orthodoxy ndi ovuta kwambiri, ndipo ngati palibe mwa iwo sakusamalidwa, ndiye kuti ukwati sungatheke.

Malamulo a ukwati mu Tchalitchi cha Orthodox

Musanayambe kukhala ndi udindo woterewu, onetsetsani kuti mukuphunzira malamulo onse a ukwati wa Orthodox, chifukwa aliyense wa iwo ndi wovuta komanso wokakamizidwa.

1. Pa ukwatiwo, onse awiri ayenera kukhala Akhristu obatizidwa. Nthawi zina ukwati umaloledwa ndi akhristu osiyana-Akatolika, Achilutera, Achiprotestanti. Komabe, ana obadwa muukwati uwu ayenera kubatizidwa mwalamulo. Ukwati ndi Buddhist, Muslim komanso nthumwi ya chikhulupiriro china ndizosatheka.
2. Phwando laukwati lingatheke pokhapokha pamapeto a ukwati wa boma mu ofesi yolembera. Milandu, pamene njirayi ikukumana ndi mavuto, imathetsedwa payekha - chifukwa ichi muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito ku tchalitchi.
3. Ukwati ndizotheka kokha nthawi zina, pamene mpingo wachangu sungadutse. Posankha tsiku la ukwati, tchulani kalendala ya tchalitchi cha Orthodox.
4. Ukwati, komanso ukwati wa boma, umapezeka kwa anthu oposa 18.
5. Palibe zoletsedwa kwa alendo a sakramenti - mukhoza kuitana aliyense amene mukufuna.
6. Ukwati ukhoza kuchitika tsiku lomwelo ndi mapeto a ukwati, koma ndizovuta kwambiri.
7. Ukwatiwo udzakanidwa kwa anthu omwe ali ndi chiyanjano chilichonse.
8. Ndikofunika kukwatirana ndi zovala zabwino. Choyenera, mkwatibwi ayenera kukhala ndi diresi yomwe imabisa manja, mapewa, kumbuyo komanso ndithu miyendo. Ngati chovalacho chiri chopanda manja, muyenera kuvala chovala pa mapewa anu.
9. Ukwati umaloledwa kukhala wojambula pa filimu, koma izi ziyenera kuchitika pambuyo pa mgwirizano woyamba ndi wansembe.
10. Kusokoneza ukwati wa mpingo ndi kovuta kwambiri, kotero muyenera kumaliza pamene mukudalira wokondedwa wanu komanso mgwirizano wanu. Ukwati ukhoza kuchitika osati katatu mu moyo. Ngati munthu wina ndi mkazi wake kale ali mu ukwati wa mpingo, choyamba m'pofunikira kukwaniritsa kukonzanso kwake.
11. N'kosatheka kukwatira kapena kukwatira kapena kukwatiwa ndi munthu wina, kapena onse awiri omwe ali okwatirana ndi wina.
12. Mafunso aliwonse omwe muli nawo, nkofunikira kusankha mosamalitsa ndi wansembe, osati ndi mlonda, azimtchalitchi-azimayi kapena wogulitsa mu sitolo ya tchalitchi.

Malamulo onse a mwambo waukwati ndi okhwima, ndipo ngati sakulemekezedwa muukwati, banjali lingakane. Mwa njira, ngati zopereka zowonetsera ukwati ndizokulu kwambiri kwa inu, mungathe kuyankhula ndi wansembe, kufotokozera mkhalidwewo ndi kuvomereza pa zosiyana.

Ukwati umakhala ndi malamulo oti asankhe mboni

Poganizira malamulo onse omwe takambirana kale, abambo okwatirana asanasankhe mboni, kapena amuna abwino. Ayenera kukwaniritsa ntchito yovomerezeka, yomwe imayendetsedwa ndi malamulo ena.

1. Ngati mwambo wachisawawa ndi mwambo wosankha achinyamata osakwatiwa ngati mboni, ndiye mwachizolowezi anasankha banja ndi ana, makamaka ukwati, pa ukwatiwo. Pakalipano, uwu si lamulo loyenera. A Mboni akhoza kukhala okwatirana, kapena osagwirizana. Musasankhe anthu omwe ali pafupi kukwatira: mwambo umabereka ubale wa uzimu pakati pawo (monga mulungu ndi godfather, mwachitsanzo), ndipo izi ndi zosayenera. Kwa okwatirana kale, sipadzakhalanso zotsatira zoipa.
2. A Mboni ayenera kubatizidwa, odziwa bwino ndi malamulo a tchalitchi. Ili ndi lamulo lokhwima, ndipo ngati simutsatira, mukhoza kukanidwa paukwati.
3. Zimakhulupirira kuti mboni nthawi zonse zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi anthu okwatirana kumene, choncho ndi bwino kusankha osakwatirana omwe ali ndi nzeru.
4. Pofuna kuti azimayi apatsidwe korona pamwamba pa mutu wa okwatiranawo, zikhale zofanana kapena zapamwamba, komanso m'malo mwake zikhale zolimba komanso zotsalira.

Ngati mwatayika, mungasankhe bwanji mwapadera pazigawo zonse, ndi bwino kukwatira popanda mboni, mpingo saloledwa. Izi ndi zabwino kuposa kutenga mboni zaukwati wauzimu wa anthu osasunga malamulo ndikutsogolera miyoyo yosalungama.