Zolingaliro ndizo gawo la lingaliro , koma palinso chinthu chozama, chosadziŵika ndi chosadziwika. Ndikulankhulidwa kwa zithunzi ndi zinthu zozoloŵera muchinsinsi chatsopano, kusinthika kwa wakale ndi kulengedwa kwatsopano! Ngati anthu amangozidzidzimutsa, ndiye kuti sipadzakhalanso zowonjezera, mateknoloji, zojambula, nyimbo, mabuku. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndikofunika kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro anu, malingaliro anu komanso ana anu. Mmene mungakhalire malingaliro a mwana ndi wamkulu? Njira zopangidwa ndi izi, ziri zoyenera zonse;
Njira yoyamba ndi "Amalingaliro olingalira"
Mmene mungakhalire ndi malingaliro ndi malingaliro? Pezani bwenzi loganiza, ngakhale simunakhale mwana kwa nthawi yaitali! Asayansi a ku America amatsimikizira kuti anthu omwe ankaganiza kuti ndi anzawo kuyambira ali ana, pokhala achikulire, amakhala ndi malingaliro abwino. Ndipo amakhala ochezeka, okoma mtima komanso osagonjetsa . Bwenzi loganiza, ndilo lingaliro lathu lopanda nzeru, lomwe lakhala ngati mtundu wokhalapo. Zitha kukhala mwana, nyama, cholengedwa. Mnzanu wotereyo adzakuthandizani kuthetsa nkhawa, kuthana ndi mantha, kusungulumwa, kukhala wolimba.
Ngati ndinu wamkulu, ingoganizirani nokha ngati cholengedwa, ndikuchipatsa makhalidwe omwe mulibe m'moyo. Mwamtima "funsani" naye asanapange zosankha. Poyamba, muyenera kuganiza - kuganizira mawonekedwe ake, dzina, zovala, khalidwe. Ngati simukudziwa momwe mungakhazikitsire malingaliro ochokera kwa mwana wanu, muuzeni za njirayi, pangani palimodzi. Mudzawona, izi sizidzangokhala zochitika zolimbitsa thupi komanso zothandiza, komanso masewera osangalatsa!
Njira yachiwiri ndi chilengedwe
Njirayi imakhalanso yothandiza kuti tipeze malingaliro kwa akulu ndi ana. Mitundu iliyonse yodzinenera ikugwirizana ndi inu, mukhoza kujambula, kupanga zolemba, kulemba ndakatulo, kujambulidwa kuchokera ku pulasitiki, kulemba nyimbo. Ngakhale ngati simunali munthu wongopeka (kutanthauza), ingoyamba kulenga, malingaliro atsopano, zithunzi zowala zidzabwera kale. Kumbukirani, kuposa momwe mudakondera kukhala ali mwana, ndikukhala nawo tsopano!
Njira imeneyi ndi yoyenera kuti pakhale malingaliro kwa ana, chifukwa ana ali pachiyambi. Lowani, kulemba, kujambula nawo. Kujambula zolengedwa zamatsenga, wina amatha kupanga nkhani zokhudza iwo, kuwuzana za iwo
Njira yachitatu - kupanga masewera achilendo
Mungathe kupanga masewera otere nokha. Mwachitsanzo, mukhoza kuwerenga tsamba loyamba la nkhani kapena nkhani, ndikubwera ndi zotsatira zake. Masewera ena osangalatsa ndi kujambula pamapepala aliwonse omwe ochita maseŵera achiwiri ayenera "kutsirizitsa" ku chinthu chowoneka. Ngakhale kuyenda mumsewu, mungathe kulingalira, kuyambitsa nkhani za moyo za anthu oyandikana nawo.
Pali njira zambiri zomwe zimakhala ndi malingaliro. Yesetsani nokha, ndipo mudzapambana!