Chiwerengero chachikulu cha anthu amagwiritsa ntchito matsenga kuti amvetsetse chikondi. Mukhoza kupanga chiwonetsero, kuchita mwambowu, koma ndibwino kuti muyanjane ndi mzimu wa chikondi mwachindunji. Musagwirizane ndi mphamvu zosawoneka chifukwa cha zosangalatsa, mwinamwake zingayambitse mavuto osiyanasiyana.
Mmene mungadzutse mzimu wa chikondi - kusankha nambala 1
Mukhoza kukhala ndi chisangalalo mothandizidwa ndi gulu la Winja , Kukambirana kapena gulu la Witch. Ngati iwo sali, ndiye inu mukhoza kungopanga fano lofanana ndi pepala loyera. Gwiritsani ntchito mwambo uliwonse m'chipinda chilichonse kupatula m'chipinda chogona. Kuwonjezera pa bolodi, muyenera kukhala ndi chithunzi cha wokondedwa, mbale ya madzi ndi kandulo. Musanayambe mu tsiku la mzimu wa chikondi, kanikizani makatani, titsani kuwala ndi foni, kawirikawiri, pasakhale chokhumudwitsa. Tenga kandulo mu manja anu, nenani mawu awa:
"Bwerani kwa ine (dzina lanu) mzimu wa chikondi ndi kubweretsa chisangalalo.
Ndichiritseni ndikundipatsa chimwemwe cha chikondi.
Yankhani, musakhale chete, perekani malangizo, chithandizo. "
Mukhoza kutumiza mzimu pogwiritsa ntchito zamatsenga nokha komanso malo omwe anthu akukhala pafupi. Ngati mzimu wakhudzana, umatha kuzizira kapena padzakhala kutuluka kwa mpweya wabwino. Kuti mupeze yankho lenileni, kaya mzimu wabwera, ndikofunika kugwiritsa ntchito gulu lauzimu. Ngati msuzi atayankha yankho "Inde", ndiye kuti mukhoza kufunsa mafunso ofunika. Kenaka nenani zabwino ndikuthokoza mzimu, mwambo umenewo ukhoza kuganiziridwa kuti watsirizidwa.
Momwe mungatchulire mizimu ya chikondi molondola - kusankha nambala 2
Chotsani m'chipindacho zinthu zonse zofiira ndipo musabvala zovala zoyera. Kuti mukope chidwi cha munthu amene mumamukonda, muyenera kukhala ndi chithunzi chomwe chatengedwa posachedwapa. Pakatikati mwa chipinda, ikani tebulo lokhala ndi nsalu yoyera, ikani chithunzi pakati, ndi pansi pa mbale ndi madzi omveka. M'menemo, ikani khungu la tsitsi ndi dontho la magazi. Tengani kandulo yakuda, ndikupanga zozungulira, kunong'oneza dzina la wokondedwayo. Pa mwambowu, taganizirani kuti ali pafupi. Musanayitane mzimu wa wothandizira mwachikondi, bweretsani kandulo pafupi kwambiri ndi chithunzichi ndipo nenani mawu awa:
"Ine ndikukutcha iwe, Mzimu Wachikondi, bwera kwa ine, usakhale. Ndimasangalatsa kwa ine, mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina). Moyo wanga kuchokera ku chikondi wokha unachiritsa. Ndidzabwezera lamulo. Yankho. Musakhale chete! "
Podziwa momwe mungatulutsire mzimu wa chikondi moyenera, mukhoza kukopa chidwi cha munthu amene mumamukonda, komanso mumatsitsimutsa maubwenzi omwe alipo.