Kafukufuku wamakono amasonyeza kuti kusambira ndi luso lomwe liyenera kukhala loyendetsa bwino musanayambe kuyenda. Poyambirira, kuyamwitsa kumapangitsa ana kukhala ndi maganizo abwino, kumalimbitsa minofu yawo, kupuma, mtima wamtima. Kuwonjezera apo, kusambira kwa oyamwitsa oyambirira kumathandiza chifukwa kumayambitsa njira zamagetsi, kumalimbitsa kayendedwe kabwino ka ana, kumapatsa chilakolako, kupirira ndi kugona.
Kusambira koyambirira: ndi kutsutsana
Pokhala ndi pakati, mayi wamng'ono, atatha kuwerenga magazini, masewera, amadzipereka yekha atasambira padziwe. Komabe, maonekedwe a zinyenyeswazi, zopanda chitetezo komanso zopanda mphamvu, zimatipangitsa kuti tipeze njira zowonongeka zotsutsana ndi kuyamwitsa. Izi zikugwiranso ntchito ngakhale ulendo woyamba wopita ku dziwe, chifukwa choyamba kusambira padziwe la ana popanda kukhala ndi chidziwitso choyenera kumatha kutsanulira kupsinjika yeniyeni kwa zinyenyeswazi, komanso kwa makolo ake - makamaka.
Mfundo yakuti kusambira kwa ana akhanda ndi makanda sizowononga chabe, komanso zothandiza kwambiri, zatchulidwa kale. Ana amakula mofulumira komanso mwazinthu zamaganizo. Komanso musaiwale za zotsatira za kuumitsa.
Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti izi sizinthu zatsopano, chifukwa njira yophunzitsira ana kusambira ngakhale m'mbuyo mwathu idapangidwa pafupifupi zaka makumi atatu zapitazo. Kuchokera nthawi imeneyo, zakhala zikusintha, kusintha, koma zotsatira zabwino ndi zothandiza sizikhala zosasintha.
Kusambira ndi njira yokhululukira ana omwe ali ndi zolepheretsa thanzi, koma ana omwewo akhoza kusambira pokhapokha atalandira chilolezo kwa dokotala.
Kusambira mu bafa
Mwezi woyamba ndi hafu zidzakhala zosavuta kukonzekera kusambira kwa ana pakhomo mu bafa, chifukwa ndondomekoyi imatenga nthawi zosaposa khumi kapena khumi ndi zisanu ndi zisanu, ndipo msewu wopita ku dziwe umatenga nthawi yaitali. Kuonjezerapo, kuti akalowe m'madzi ndi mwana, pamene umbilicus sachiritsidwa, ndizoopsa. Ndibwino kuti muyambe kuphunzitsidwa musanafike miyezi itatu, chifukwa pang'onopang'ono pang'onopang'ono zimatha. M'chiberekero, mwanayo amamva bwino m'madzi amniotic, kotero madzi alionse adzakhala okoma kukumbukira. Ndipo pambuyo pa miyezi itatu, kumizidwa m'madzi kudzawonedwa ngati chinthu chatsopano ndi chosadziwika.
Ndikofunika kuthana ndi ana akhanda pamene ali odzaza, okondwa, ogona. Choyamba muyenera kumupaka misala, kusewera, ndiyeno pang'onopang'ono amadzipaka m'madzi mosavuta. Ngakhale mutayang'ana mavidiyo ambiri a maphunziro, werengani milandu ya mabuku apadera, ndibwino kuti musambe kusambira kwa nthawi yoyamba ndi bwalolo , zomwe sizilola mwanayo kuti asambe pansi pamadzi. Patapita nthawi, mwanayo akamakula amatha kusintha, osasambira popanda bwalo. Kumbukirani, cholinga chake ndi kulimbikitsa thanzi, osati kukhazikitsidwa kwa zolemba, ngakhale makanda.
Kusambira padziwe
Ngati mulibe chidaliro pazomwe mumadziwira nokha, kapena ngati kusambira kwachepa kwambiri kuti muyambe kusukulu, ndi nthawi yoti mufunse kwa akatswiri omwe amaphunzitsa kusambira m'madzi oyambira. Pano, mwanayo adzadziwitsidwa ku misala yomwe ikukula, mfundo za ana komanso zojambula zojambulajambula, komanso zofunikira za kusambira. Ndi akatswiri, simungadandaule za chitetezo cha zinyenyeswazi, ndipo kusamba kwa mwana kumakhala kosangalatsa.
Kusambira ndi chisangalalo pamodzi ndi madalitso a umoyo. Patapita kanthawi mudzadabwa kuti mukusambira msanga komanso mofulumira. N'zotheka kuti masiku ano akugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi katswiri mu dziwe - uyu ndiye mtsogoleri wam'tsogolo!