Kutanthauzira ndikofunikira kwambiri kudziwa osati chinthu chokha, komanso mfundo zina za chiwembucho. Ngati mwasankha maloto okhudzana ndi khonde, yesani kukumbukira momwe zinkawonekera komanso momwe munayanjanirana nawo. Zonsezi zidzakuthandizani kuti mupeze zambiri zosangalatsa komanso zokhudzana ndi zomwe zikuchitika komanso zamtsogolo.
Nchifukwa chiyani mumalota khonde?
Maloto oterowo nthawi zambiri amakhala chizolowezi cholandira nkhani zosasangalatsa zomwe zidzakhudza abwenzi. Khola lachinsinsi ndi chizindikiro chabwino chomwe chikulosera kuti zingatheke patsogolo pa ntchito. Ngati khonde linali mlendo, ndiye kuti muyenera kuyembekezera kusakhutira chikondi. Chiwerengero chachikulu cha zipinda ndi chizindikiro cha malonjezo opanda kanthu. Kulota mu loto la maloto kuchokera pansipa, kumatanthauza, zenizeni iwe sungakhutike ndi zomwe zikuchitika, komanso zingakhale chizindikiro cha kukhala ndi mavuto mu chikondi . Maloto, pamene mwawona kumanga khonde, akulosera kukwaniritsidwa kwa zilakolako za chikondi ndi malo ogwira ntchito.
Kuima pa khonde m'maloto, ndiye kuti milandu yonse yomwe idayambika kale idzafika mofulumira.
Ngati sichidawombedwe ndi chosakhazikika - ichi ndi chisonyezero chakuti zenizeni inu munali pangozi. Wotanthauzira maloto amalimbikitsa kuganizira mozama pogwiritsa ntchito zosankha zake komanso osapanga zochitika. Maloto omwe khonde limagwera ndi chenjezo kuti chiyembekezo sichitha kuchitika. Wamasulira wotanthauzira amalimbikitsa kukhala osamala, pamene mwayi wa kukhala m'mavuto ndiwonjezeka. Ngakhale masomphenya a usiku ngati amenewa akulimbikitsanso kuchiza thanzi lanu.
Kugona, kumene iwe umayenera kugwa kuchokera khonde - ichi ndi chizindikiro choipa, chomwe chimasonyeza kuti zolinga zonse zokhudzana ndi moyo waumwini, zidzagwa. Komabe izi zikutanthawuza kuti kuyesa kupeza ulemu kuchokera kwa anthu oyandikana nawo sikudzatha. Lembani m'maloto kuchokera kumalo osungirako, ndiye pali ngozi yogonjetsedwa ndi zofooka zazing'ono zomwe zingasokoneze ubwenzi wanu ndi mnzanuyo.