Usiku mu loto, tikuwona nkhani zosiyanasiyana. Nthawi zina masomphenya amenewa amatichenjeza za ngozi, ndipo nthawi zina, amalonjeza kuti zinthu zidzatiyendera bwino komanso chimwemwe. Pezani zokhumba zogonana ndi mwamuna, mungathe kuphunzira ma nyenyezi osiyanasiyana.
Nchifukwa chiyani mukulota kugonana ndi mlendo?
Ngati maloto amenewa akuwonekera kwa msungwana wosungulumwa, posachedwa, adzalandira phindu ladzidzidzi, komanso mawonekedwe ake omwe amamukonda. Mkazi wokwatira angayembekezere kupititsa patsogolo kapena mphoto ya ndalama pambuyo masomphenya. Chuma, chimwemwe ndi ubale wabwino wa m'banja - izi ndizo maloto okhudzana ndi kugonana ndi munthu wachilendo mtsikana yemwe kale ali ndi chibwenzi.
Panthawi yomwe chiwonetsero chomwecho chidawoneka mwa mwamuna, sikuli koyenera. Izi zikutanthauza kuti munthu amapezeka mu moyo wa munthu. Mtsutso uwu ukhoza kugwirizanitsidwa ndi ntchito, komanso ndi moyo waumwini.
Ngakhale, akatswiri a maganizo, mosiyana ndi mabuku a maloto, amagwira maganizo osiyana. Amakhulupirira kuti maloto amenewa amanena za zilakolako za kugonana zomwe munthu akufuna kuzizindikira. Malingaliro awo, nkoyenera kukumbukira zonse za chiwembu ndi kuzifufuza. Kotero inu mukhoza kumvetsa izo kwa zilakolako za kuzunza anthu.
Nchifukwa chiyani mukuganiza kuti mukugonana ndi wokondedwa wanu?
Masomphenya awa akusonyeza kuti banjali liri logwirizana . Posachedwapa, mutha kuyembekezera chidwi cha mnzanuyo, kapena tsiku lachikondi, lomwe lidzakonzedwa ndi theka lachiwiri. Uthenga uwu waperekedwa ndi mabuku osiyanasiyana otota.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo, komabe amagwirizana ndi izi. Amanena kuti malotowo amati munthu amakhala wokhutira ndi ubale wawo, banja kapena chikondi. Komanso zimasonyeza chidaliro chonse mwa wokondedwayo.