Maganizo amanong'onong'onongeka nthawi zonse ndizopanga zida zapadera zomwe zimathandiza pazosiyana. Zomwe zalembedwa kale, zikuwonekeratu kuti kutchula mawuwo kumakhala kunong'oneza, popeza akukhulupirira kuti motere mawu ali ndi mphamvu yapadera yomwe ingakhudze mkhalidwe uno.
Pali malamulo angapo odzudzula nthawi zosiyanasiyana, zomwe ndi zofunika kuziwona kuti matsenga amachitidwe. Ndikofunika kuwerenga mawu mwakachetechete komanso momveka bwino, komabe n'zotheka kuwatchula nokha. Ndikofunika kukhulupirira kuti kung'ung'udza kudzagwira ntchito.
Kulira kwa nthawi zonse
Chiwerengero chachikulu cha anthu amayamba m'mawa ndi khofi kapena zakumwa zina. Zimakhulupirira kuti ngati mumamwa mawu amatsenga pa zakumwa, ndiye kuti zidzakupatsani nyonga ndi mphamvu, ndipo ziribe kanthu kuti mumadzuka bwanji ndipo mumagona. Kumveketsa kumawoneka motere:
"Ndimamwa mphamvu, ndimamwa thanzi, ndimamwa mphamvu zamasiku ano."
Mwambo wina wamba pakati pa anthu akutsuka pambuyo pa ntchito kapena asanagone. Ndipotu, njira yotereyi ingakuthandizeni kuti mutsuke osati dothi, koma kutopa, komanso kusokonezeka masana. Pochita izi, nkofunikira kunena, mawu awa:
"Ndimasamba, ndikuchotseratu zovutazo, ndikutsuka chisoni."
Mutha kuwerenga izi ndikumasamba m'manja. Pambuyo pa nthawi yoyamba muwona momwe mkhalidwe woipa unasinthika.
Ena amanong'onong'onoting'ono, mungapeze ziwembu, muwerenge poyeretsa. Kuchotsa panyumba osati zonyansa zokha, komanso magetsi osiyanasiyana omwe amachokera mumsewu, ndikulimbikitsidwa kuti muwerenge anthu onyoza:
"Ndimayeretsa nyumba yanga, ndimadzaza ndi mwayi, ndi ndalama komanso mwachikondi."
Kwa onse a m'banja mwathu anali osangalala komanso okhutira, komanso pofuna kukopa chuma, pokonzekera msuzi, bwerezani mawu awa:
"Ndiphika msuzi kuti aliyense adye, kuchiritsidwa ndi kulemera, kuti aliyense yemwe ali msuzi wanga akhale, chimwemwe ndi chikondi zidzadziwa."
Pakati pa ziwembuzo, amanong'oneza nthawi zonse, mukhoza kupeza mau omwe angakuthandizeni kulimbana ndi tulo ndikuchotsa maloto oipa. Kuleka kulota maloto, pamene iwe uyala bedi, umangonena mawu awiri: "Palibe zoopsa zapamwamba!" .
Pofuna kugona, kungogwira mtolo ndikuwona maloto osangalatsa, muyenera kunena mawuwa mwamsanga mukangogona pabedi:
"Pillow-pillow, nditenthe khutu langa. Nditumizireni maloto abwino, ndikuwoneka ngati nthano. "
Ambiri mwagonjera amatha kusungulumwa, akulota kukomana ndi anzawo. Pofuna kukopa chidwi cha anthu omwe si amuna kapena akazi, pamene muli pamalo ambiri, muyenera kunong'oneza bondo kuti:
"Otsuka woyera, atavala bwino, guluu ndipo amawonekedwe, oyera, oyera, ofiira. Kukongola pa nkhope, stat pa mapazi. Amen. "
Zimakhulupirira kuti asungwana omwe amawerenga mawuwa amawala kuchokera mkati, ndipo sadziwa chomwe chimakhala choipa.
Anthu ambiri amadandaula kuti ali ndi chibwenzi cholakwika ndi abwana awo, zomwe siziwalola kuti azigwira ntchito bwinobwino ndikusunthira ntchito. Zikakhala choncho, kung'ung'udza kungathandizenso, zomwe ziyenera kuwerengedwa musanalowe mu ofesi ya mtsogoleri kapena zisanachitike zochitika zina zofunika. Kumveketsa kumawoneka motere:
"Mng'oma pamakona, zitseko ndi zitseko, mafumu ndi mafumu." Ine ndikubwera kwa inu ndi mantha, ndipo inu kwa ine mwachikondi, pitani kwa inu ndi tsabola, ndi inu kwa ine ndi mtima wabwino. Amen. "
Ndikovuta kupeza munthu yemwe alibe chikhumbo chokonda komanso zamatsenga angathandize pakukwaniritsa kwake. Ndikofunika kutenga madzi atsopano ndikumuuza mawu otere:
"Chikhumbo changa chachikulu chidzakwaniritsidwa mu mzimu wa Ambuye, pakuti Ambuye amathandiza iwo omwe amapempha thandizo. Thandizo lidzabwera mu njira zosadziwika, ndipo chikhumbo changa chidzakhala chenicheni, ndi zochitika zomwe zidzakhala njira yakuzindikira, ndipo ndi mzimu wa Ambuye ndidzapatsidwa zomwe ndikupempha kwa Iye. Ndimangiriza shawl ndikudikirira. Amen. "
Lembani chibokosicho mu mfundo ndipo mubwere nayo nthawi zonse mpaka munthu wofunayo atsimikizire. Pambuyo pake, uwotchereni mpango, koma musamasule thunthu. Kumbukirani kuti ndikofunika kukhulupirira nokha ndi wekha, ndipo malingaliro amatsenga adzakupatsani chikhulupiliro chowonjezereka ndipo zonse zomwe mukufuna zidzakwaniritsidwa ndithu.
Mdima akung'ung'udza nthawi zonse
Zimakhulupirira kuti kumbuyo ndi malo osokonezeka kwambiri pa thupi la munthu. Ndicho chifukwa chake
Ambiri anakumana ndi vuto pamene wina anali kunena kapena kufuna chinachake choipa. Pankhaniyi, pofuna kuthetsa cholakwika, wina ayenera kunena mawu awa:
"Kodi iwe ukufuna kuti ndidzipe wekha?"
Ngati mulibe chiyanjano ndi oyandikana nawo ndipo mukufuna kuwalanga, mungagwiritse ntchito mawu onong'oneza, omwe amawerengedwa pabwalo:
"Dziko lapansi ndi mchere, chitsime chilibe kanthu, ndipo chuma chonse chiri ndi wogontha kamodzi. Pitani ku mphepo ndi kufalitsa mphepo. Ugh. "