Mumafuna bwanji amayi onse kuti awone mwana wawo wamng'ono mtsogolo, mkazi weniweni, amene anthu onse oyandikana naye amamuyamikira! Ophunzira bwino, ophunzitsidwa, olingalira, odekha, omvetsera, okonzeka bwino - makhalidwe awa akugwirizanitsidwa ndi anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi "lady". Ndipo izi ziribe kanthu ngakhale kuti poyamba poyamba anagwiritsidwa ntchito kwa akazi omwe amangodziwa kuphika mkate! Tsoka ilo, lero khalidwe labwino, makamaka pakati pa atsikana omwe ali atsikana, sikuti nthawi zonse amalingaliridwa kuti ndilozoloŵera. Koma ngakhale mwana wanu wamaphunziro akuyamana kuti akhale paubwenzi ndi anyamata, amakhala ngati tomboy weniweni, akadali ndi nthawi yokweza mayi weniweni kuchokera kwa iye.
Mayi kuyambira pachiyambi
Njira yowonjezera komanso yosavuta yokweza mwana wamkazi wamwamuna wamng'ono kuchokera ku kamtsikana kakang'ono ndi chitsanzo chake. Pazaka zoyambirira za moyo, mayi ndiye udindo umene mwanayo ali nawo. Psychology ya mwanayo ndi yakuti chirichonse chimene chimazungulira, chimachoka pamutu pa khalidwe, khalidwe labwino komanso maonekedwe. Ngati mayi akuganiza kuti ndi bwino kuyang'ana bwino ndikukonzekera bwino kunja kwa nyumba, zidzakhala zovuta kufotokozera mwanayo, bwanji kusunga malamulo a ukhondo, kuyang'anira mkhalidwe wa zovala, tsitsi, misomali. Kawirikawiri makolo amaganiza kuti zinthu zokongola ziyenera kutayika, komanso kuti nyumba yamatabwa yakale ikhale ndi mabowo, raglan ndi mawanga a madzi kapena chokoleti amatsika. Ayi, izi sizikutanthawuza kuti panyumba muyenera kuvala msungwana mwanzeru, koma zovala zodzikongoletsera zikhale zoyera, zoyera.
Kuyambira ali wamng'ono, amavala zovala zachikazi, sizobisika kuti masiku ano akazi ambiri samachoka pa thalauza zawo, poganiza kuti siketi ndi madiresi sizimasuka. Wafashoni wamng'ono angakhale wokondwa kukonda zovala zapamwamba, ndipo chizoloŵezicho chidzakhala moyo wonse. Zakolochki, magulu a tsitsi labwino, makoswe, nkhumba za nkhumba - msungwana yemwe ali ndi chidwi chokha!
Inde, maonekedwe ndi ofunika, koma pali zinthu zochepa. Mwachitsanzo, kulankhula kwa mtsikanayo. Ndipo si za mawu osayenera, omwe sali ovomerezeka kwathunthu! Ndemanga zoipa za anthu ena, miseche, miseche - izi ndi zomwe mayi weniweni sangadzilole. Ndicho chifukwa chake msungwana sayenera kumva mawu awa kuchokera kwa amayi, agogo, alongo. Ali mwana, chizolowezi chilichonse chimapangidwira mofulumira, choncho makolo ayenera kutsatira zomwe amalankhula.
Dona-ndi ufulu, chikazi, kudzidalira, chisomo, chithumwa, chisomo. Koma n'zosatheka kuswa khalidwe la mtsikanayo! Ngati ali wotanganidwa kwambiri, ndiye kuti ntchito ya mayiyo ndi kuthandiza mtsikana kupeza malire omwe angamulole kukhala msungwana, koma nthawi yomweyo amadzimva yekha. Fotokozani kwa wamng'ono kuti mawonekedwe okoma ndi okongola ndi makhalidwe onyansa sakutanthauza chirichonse! Kukongola kudzadziwika!
Tiyeni tiwone zotsatira
Mukudziwa bwino mwana wanu kuposa wina aliyense! Palibe malamulo omwe angathandize kuphunzitsa mayi weniweni kuchokera kwa mwana, koma kutsatira zotsatirazi, mutha kuchepetsa ntchito yanu:
- chitsanzo;
- kulimbikitsa mawonetseredwe aliwonse a chikazi;
- kugwira ntchito nthawi zonse pa khalidwe la mwanayo;
- kutsatira malamulo a ukhondo (mu zovala, pakati pa ena);
- kukulitsa kukula kwake kwa mwana;
- kusonkhanitsa makhalidwe abwino.
Ndipo musamvere anthu amene amati nthawi zamakani olimba mtima ndi amayi okongola apita kale! Kukoma mtima, kulera bwino, kuyankha, kulemekeza ena, kukongola kwa mkati kudzatamandidwa kwambiri. Ndipo chikondi cha makolo, chisamaliro ndi chisamaliro ndi othandiza kwambiri mu maphunziro a dona wamng'ono wokongola.
Vuto lovuta ndilo kwa makolo komanso kulera kwa mnyamata wamng'ono.