Mayi aliyense wachinyamata, atangotenga mwana wake wamwamuna m'manja mwake, ali wotsimikiza kuti adzabweretsa mwamuna weniweni, njonda, wamtundu wamakono, yemwe adzayang'ane tsiku ndi tsiku ndi ntchito zovuta popanda kuyang'ana kumbuyo, kugonjetsa mapiri atsopano ndikukondweretsa akazi onse . Koma kodi njirayi ingakhale yolondola? Kodi mu dziko lamakono lingaliro la "njonda" likuphatikizapo chiyani?
Ngati mu nthawi ya Victor mawu oti "gentle" anali ndi mbiri yabwino, lero iwo amatchedwa ophunzira, amuna okhwima omwe ali ndi ulemu, amalemekeza anthu ozungulira.
Udindo wa bambo mu maphunziro a njonda
Amayi ndi abambo onse ayenera kuzindikira kuti njira iliyonse yolerera yomwe ingalekerere ingasokoneze malingaliro a dziko lapansi ndi mnyamata, kusokoneza ubwenzi wake wam'tsogolo ndi abambo. Ngati zaka zingapo zoyambirira za moyo, adzalumikiza mwinjiro wa amayi ake, kenaka adzikhala odziimira okha. Sikoyenera kuti mnyamatayo asokoneze izi. Gawo lililonse la chitukuko ndi lofunika kwambiri, chifukwa limatembenuza mwana kukhala mwamuna.
Ndili ndi zaka zisanu kapena zisanu ndi chimodzi, anyamata awonetsa chikhumbo choyankhulana ndi mamembala awo. Ndipo apa Adadi akubwera patsogolo. Makina osiyanasiyana ndi njira, okonza mapulani, kukonzanso njinga yamoto kapena galimoto yodzitetezera, kusodza - izi ndizo zomwe zimamukondweretsa. Ndipo bambo - wothandiza kwambiri, bwenzi, wokondedwa. Anyamata ndi otsimikiza kuti zochitika zotere kwa atsikana (ndi amayi, pakati pa ena) satha mphamvu. Chisamaliro kuchokera kwa abambo, kutenga nawo mbali ndi chisamaliro kumabereka maganizo a mnyamata wa mutu wa banja. Ngakhalenso ngati mwana akukula m'banja losakwanira, amafunikira munthu. Ndi udindo umenewu ukhoza kupirira ndi amalume, ndi abambo opeza, ndi aphunzitsi, ngakhalenso m'bale wamkulu.
Koma musaganize kuti mwamuna weniweni alibe ufulu wosonyeza chikondi. M'malo mosiyana, tcheru ndi chithandizo chachikondi ndi anyamata, chisamaliro, mphatso ndi zosangalatsa zabwino - izi ndi zoona nthawi zonse! Ndipo chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri ndi maganizo a papa kwa amayi, agogo, alongo.
Malamulo a maphunziro a njonda
Mwana aliyense ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi khalidwe lake, khalidwe lake, khalidwe lake, kotero sitingathe kukhala ndi malamulo oyenera a maphunziro. Komabe, malamulo onsewa alipo.
- Udindo . Kuyambira ali mwana, mwanayo ayenera kumverera kuti ali ndi ufulu wosankha. Makolo ayenera kumudalira mwanayo, ndipo ayenera kuzindikira kuti zosankha zake zonse zimaphatikizapo udindo, ngakhale zolakwika. Ndipotu, phunzirani ku zolakwa.
- Kudziimira . Ngakhale ali wamng'ono, mnyamatayo akhoza kudalirika kuti azichita ntchito zoyambirira mmaganizo anu (kusonkhanitsani masewera, kuyeretsa ana, ziweto zodyera). Kupambana kulikonse kwa mnyamata wamng'ono kumamulimbikitsa iye ku zatsopano, zopambana kwambiri.
- Muzilemekeza ena . Ngakhale wazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi -
uyu ndi munthu wamng'ono. Muphunzitseni kupereka njira zonyamula anthu kupita kwa amayi a msinkhu uliwonse, nenani hello kwa anansi anu, thandizani aliyense m'njira iliyonse. Amene akusowa. - Chidziwitso . Kuphunzitsa khalidwe ili mnyamatayo akhoza kukhala mayi kuchokera pachiyambi! Mulole wamng'onoyo athandize kubweretsa thumba ndi botolo la mkaka, ponyani malaya anga a mayi, vanizani. Kumva kutamandidwa, mwana wokondwa amayesetsa kuthandizira okondedwa komanso alendo. Pambuyo pake khalidwe ili lidzakhala lokhazikika.
Ndipo kumbukirani: ndi mawu otani omwe simungawauze mwana wanu, bwana weniweni, angakhale ngati akuzunguliridwa ndi anthu abwino komanso olemekezeka!