Munthu sangathe kulamulira maganizo ake, kotero ngati mumaphunzira kuwerenga "thupi", mukhoza kuzindikira chinyengo, kudziwa zomwe akufuna, kudziŵa momwe akufunira, ndi zina zotero. Tsopano tiyeni tiyese kupeza momwe tingadziwire bodza ndi nkhope ndi manja .
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Munthu aliyense ndi wosiyana ndipo amakhudzidwa mosiyana, koma pali zizindikiro zambiri zomwe zimapangitsa kuti muone ngati munthu akunama:
- Kusamba mphuno . Mwamwayi, chizindikiro ichi nthawizonse chimakhalabe chosaoneka, chifukwa zonse zimachitika mofulumira kwambiri komanso mwachibadwa.
- Kusakaniza maso . Pamene munthu wakula kwambiri, amawonjezera mabodza, koma mkazi ndi wovuta kuwerengera; iye "amapulumutsa" maonekedwe, amachitira mosamalitsa ndipo mosamvetsetseka.
- Kupukuta kwa khutu . Komabe, chochita ichi sichitha kunena bodza , komanso kusayimirira kumvetsera wopembedzera.
- Kupalasa khosi . Kawirikawiri wabodza amachititsa ichi chala chachindunji cha dzanja lamanja.
- Kulira kwala . Izi zikutanthawuza zambiri za kusatetezeka ndi kusakhulupirika, koma nthawi zambiri izi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi munthu akunyengani.
- Mwa kupenya . Mukhozanso kuzindikira mabodza ndi maso, ndizofunikira kuti muone mmene wophunzira amachitira. Ngati maso ali "akuthamanga" kapena munthu akuyang'ana patali, ndiye kuti akunama.
- Kuphimba pakamwa ndi manja anu . Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zomveka bwino zomwe wolembayo sali woona ndi inu.
- Amabisa manja ake . Wobodza amadziwa mosavuta kubisa manja ake m'matumba kapena kumbuyo kwake, ngakhale kuti nthawi zina munthu wotero amatsutsana kwambiri.
- Kuthamanga kwa minofu ya nkhope . Pamene munthu alankhula zabodza, diso kapena khungu la maso likhoza kugwedezeka pamaso pake, pamakamwa ake pamakanikizidwa.
- Zosayenera . Pamene munthu amanama kwambiri, zimakhala zosiyana kwambiri ndi zomwe akukhala kapena kuimirira, chifukwa chosadziwa, interlocutor yanu imakhala yosasangalatsa ndi zomwe akunena.