Nthawi zambiri mumakumana ndi malingaliro abwino a ena? Munthu wolekerera nthawi zonse amasangalala kuthana naye, komanso, munthu ameneyu asanakhale "atachotsa chipewa" chifukwa cha khalidwe lake ndikuti: "Ndikuyamikira malingaliro anu ndi kulemekeza ufulu wa malingaliro, ndipo chifukwa chake, zimakulimbikitsani kuti muchite ntchito moyo malo ".
Kupanga chidziwitso choleza mtima
Ngati tilankhula za chiyambi cha maganizo olekerera ku Western Europe, maziko a izi ndi maphunziro achipembedzo, mphamvu, ndiko kusindikiza kwa Edict of Nantes. Chifukwa cha lamulo ili, Akatolika ndi Aprotestanti adakhala ofanana pa ufulu, ponena za kuvomereza ku masukulu ndi kupeza chithandizo chamankhwala.
Ngati tilingalira chiyambi cha khalidwe lolekerera pa chitsanzo cha munthu mmodzi, ndiye malingaliro oyamba okhudza chabwino ndi choipa, malingaliro a makhalidwe abwino ambiri amapangidwa ngakhale m'zaka za msinkhu. Kupitiliza izi, patatha zaka, munthu wamkulu ndizovuta kusintha maganizo ndi malingaliro aliwonse a moyo.
Zizindikiro za umunthu wolekerera
- Kudzizindikira, kumvetsetsa zolinga za zochita zanu. Anthu oterewa amatha kufufuza zolimba zawo ndi zofooka zawo. Pamene pali mavuto, sasamala za milandu mwa ena. Amakonda kudzichitira okha zinthu mopitirira malire. Ndikoyenera kuzindikira kuti mkati mwa munthu aliyense pali "I-abwino" (momwe inu mumafunira kukhala) ndi "I-weniweni" (muli pakali pano). Choncho, munthu wolekerera pakati pa malingaliro awiriwa ndi kusiyana kwakukulu, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti, nthawi zambiri, sagwirizana.
- Ubwenzi wotere umakhala ndi chitetezo, chitetezo. Iwo samayesetsa kutseka pakati pa anthu, kuthawa.
- Pankhani ya udindo, anthu ololera samasintha kwa ena.
- Amakonda kuzindikira dziko lozungulira iwo mu mitundu yosiyanasiyana, osagawaniza anthu zabwino ndi zoipa.
- Kudziimira nokha, choyambirira, choyamba, kudziyesa nokha, podziwonekera ndi kuntchito.
- Munthu wololera amatha kumva mkhalidwe wauzimu wa wina. Sizakhala zachilendo kwa chinthu choterocho monga kumvera .
- Dzitonza nokha? Mwachangu. Adzapeza zolakwa mwa iyemwini ndikumuseka, ndikudzidalira yekha kuti adzapeza njira yochotsera cholakwikacho.