Manda ndi malo omwe dziko la amoyo ndi akufa limagwirizanitsa. Zimakhudzana ndi tsankho komanso zolakwika zambiri zomwe zimapezeka pakati pa anthu. Chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zoyipa ndizo zomwe zimafotokozera zomwe munthu adagwa m'manda. Ndikofunika kumvetsa zomwe zikhulupiliro zimatanthawuza, koma ngati kutanthauzira kosayenera sikuyenera kusintha kusintha, chifukwa izi zimangowonjezera mkhalidwewo.
Chizindikiro chimagwa pamanda
Kubwera kumanda, ndibwino kuti tizichita mwanzeru monga momwe tingathere, chifukwa ngati munthu akukhumudwa pamalo otere, ndiye kuti izi ndizovuta. Zowopsa zowonjezereka zikuyembekeza ngati iwe uyenera kupita kumanda. Zikatero, muyenera kupita mwamsanga kunyumba, kusamba ndi madzi oyera ndi kudzidutsa nokha. Pambuyo pake, ndizowona katatu kuwerenga pemphero "Atate Wathu".
Pali zizindikiro zina mu Orthodoxy - Thupi la munthu wakufa linagwa kumanda. Chochitika choterocho chimaonedwa kuti ndi chizindikiro choipa, chikusonyeza kuti pa miyezi itatu yotsatira padzakhalanso maliro ena. Ndalama zikaperekedwa kuchokera ku chikwama kapena thumba pochezera kumanda, sayenera kubwezeretsedwa. Ikani misonkho pamanda
Pofuna kuthetsa zochitikazo, ndibwino kuti mubwere kunyumba kuti mukasambe, ndiyeno, kuti muzichita mwambowu. Kuphika zikondamoyo ndikuzitengera kumanda monga dipo. Yambani ndi zikondamoyo kumanda atatu omwe ali ndi dzina lomwelo. Onetsetsani kuti muwerenge pemphero "Atate Wathu". Pambuyo pake, zikondamoyo ziyenera kufalitsidwa pafupi ndi tchalitchi kwa anthu omwe amapempha thandizo. Ndikofunika kusunga chete pa mwambo wonse komanso osayankhula ndi wina aliyense.