Bungwe la chikondwerero cha ukwati sichinthu chovuta, koma mayeso ochepa ngati amenewa ndi maphunziro abwino a moyo wam'tsogolo. Kukonzekera ukwati, mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ayenera kuphunzira kugwirizana kupanga malingaliro abwino, kugaŵira ntchito, kulemekeza maganizo a halves, ndi kupeza kuyanjana. Mndandanda wa milandu yaukwati siikwanira kokha ku phwando ndi kujambula, chifukwa aliyense akufuna kuti tchuthi likhale lapadera. Ndipo pofuna kukwaniritsa zomwe akufuna, banjali liyenera kuyesetsa kwambiri.
Choyamba muyenera kulingalira mosamala pa mndandanda wa zinthu zofunika ndi milandu yaukwati ndipo pangani ndandanda ya maphunziro kuti musathetse mavuto ofunika mofulumira. Choyamba, ndithudi, muyenera kusankha pazochitika za chikondwerero ndi chiwerengero cha alendo. Izi makamaka zimadalira mndandanda wa zonse zofunika pa ukwati. Kuti mukonzekere tchuthi lanu, mungagwiritse ntchito mndandanda wamndandanda wa milandu pamaso pa ukwati ndi ukwati ndi mndandanda wa zinthu zofunika paukwati, woperekedwa ndi akatswiri pazochita zikondwerero. Inde, muyenera kulembetsa zonse zomwe mukufunikira paukwati pazochitika zomwe mwasankha. Zingakhale zina zofunikiranso ndi ntchito, mphatso za alendo, zovala, ndi zina zotero.
Mndandanda wa zinthu zofunika komanso trivia pa ukwati:
- Sankhani tsiku la ukwati.
- Sankhani bajeti ya ukwati.
- Lembani mndandanda wa oitanidwa.
- Sankhani mboni.
- Sankhani ofesi yolembera, yesetsani, yothetsani nkhani zonse zachinsinsi.
- Konzani nkhaniyo ndi wokonzekera ukwatiwo, kaya akhale olimba pokonzekera maukwati, kapena mkwati ndi mkwatibwi adzakonza zinthu zonse okha, mothandizidwa ndi achibale ndi abwenzi. Monga lamulo, posankha mwamphamvu, kukonzekera kukonzekera mkwati ndi mkwatibwi kumangokhala kokha kukambirana zomwe mungachite ndikukondwerera mwachindunji. Ngati anthu omwe angokwatirana kumene adasankha kukonza tsogolo lawo, ndiye kuti tikhoza kupita ku zinthu zotsatira kuchokera mndandanda wa zokonzekera ukwati.
- Sankhani malo ochitira phwandolo.
- Kambiranani za menyu ndi zokongoletsa za holoyi.
- Sankhani wojambula zithunzi, cameraman, toastmaster, DJs ndi oimba.
- Fotokozerani zochitikazo ndi wamkulu wamkulu, pangani mndandanda wosiyana wa zomwe zikufunika kuti ukwati ukwaniritse ndondomekoyi. Zidzakhala zosavuta kupereka gawo ili la bungwe kwa wapamwamba.
- Kambiranani nyimbo ndi oimba patsikuli, osayiwala zolemba za kuvina koyamba kwa okwatirana kumene.
- Sankhani wojambula tsitsi ndi wojambula.
- Tumizani maitanidwe kwa alendo, funsani achibale ndi abwenzi omwe akukhala mumzinda wina ndi mayiko ena, kaya angadza ndi kusamalira malo awo okhala.
- Sungani nkhaniyo ndi zonyamulira. Pezani kuchuluka kwa magalimoto ndi mabasiketi omwe mukufunikira, sankhani kampani yonyamula katundu.
- Lamukani keke ya ukwati.
- Sungani nkhuku ndi maphwando oyenda.
- Konzani nthawi yachisangalalo.
- Perekani maudindo, pezani ndondomeko ya milandu yonse kuti tsiku lomaliza muli zinthu zosavuta kupanga phwando.
- Funsani mboni kapena makolo kuti aone ngati zonse zomwe mukufunikira paukwati zili m'ndandanda. Mwina adzakhala ndi malingaliro ena kapena adzakumbukira chinthu china chofunikira kwa banja kapena alendo.
Mndandanda wa zinthu zofunika paukwati:
- Oitanira alendo.
- Zovala kwa mkwatibwi ku ukwati ndi pa tsiku lachiwiri, ngati zidzakondweretsedwa.
- Muyenerere mkwati.
- Zojambula ndi cushion pa mphete.
- Ndalama zolipira mu ofesi ya registry, mtengo wa mkwatibwi, ndi ndalama zina pa tsiku laukwati.
- Zikopa za mboni.
- Champagne, magalasi, talasi ku ofesi yolembera.
- Pasiports, mapepala oyenera ojambula.
- Zakumwa, zopsereza zokha ndi ziwiya za kuyenda pambuyo pa kujambula.
- Zokongoletsera zamagalimoto.
- Zokongoletsa pakhomo.
- Maluwa a mkwatibwi.
- Petals of maluwa, mapira, maswiti, ndalama zowononga mkwati ndi mkwatibwi.
- Mkate.
- Magalasi achikwati.
- Zosowa za mikangano yaukwati.
- Mphatso kwa alendo.
- Mabatire a makamera.
- Zokongoletsera za chipinda chogona cha okwatirana kumene.
- Ndibwino kuti mukhale ndi chithandizo choyamba m'galimoto, ndi ndondomeko yokonzekera yomwe ingakuthandizeni kupeŵa mavuto ena, mwachitsanzo, mankhwala osokoneza bongo, komanso zida zogwiritsira ntchito mowa ndi moledzeretsa mowa, zingakhale zothandiza pa phwando.
Mlungu umodzi usanachitike phwando, muyenera kufufuza mosamala ngati chirichonse chomwe chili mndandanda chikuwoneka kuti ndi chofunikira pa ukwati, komanso zomwe zikugulitsidwa ndi kuchita.
Mndandanda wa zonse zoyenera paukwati uyenera kusindikizidwa m'makopi angapo, kwa aliyense amene alowerera nawo m'gulu la chikondwererochi. Pa kopi iliyonse, ziyenera kudziŵika kuti ndi bizinesi yomwe yapatsidwa, ndi kupereka ntchito kwa mwini wakeyo. Pomwepo sipadzakhala chisokonezo, ndipo aliyense adzadziŵa bwino lomwe mbali yake yomwe ali nayo, ndipo ngati pali mafunso kapena malingaliro pazinthu zina, zidzakhala zomveka kuti ndani angatembenuke, osati kuti asokoneze mkwati kapena mkwatibwi kachiwiri.
Ndi bungwe loyenera, kukonzekera kwaukwati kudzachitika mchikondi chakumvetsa ndi kumvetsetsa, ndipo chikondwererocho chidzakhalabe chikumbutso chowala komanso chokongola cha moyo.