Pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa mphamvu za amuna ndi akazi. Azimayi amakhala osasamala komanso amatha kusokonezeka, mphamvu zawo zonse zimayikidwa mu chiwalo chogonana. Amuna, amapatsanso mutu wa mphamvu ku ubongo wawo.
Momwe mungakulitsire mphamvu za amai kumalo apamwamba?
Izi ndi zophweka ngati mutadziwa bwino kufunika kokwaniritsa cholinga.
Chimene chimapereka kufotokoza kwa mphamvu za akazi:
- chidwi chachikulu mwa amuna;
- bwino;
- mawonekedwe okongola;
- charisma.
Mphamvu ya amayi ndi yodabwitsa kwambiri, ndipo podziwa momwe mungakhalire kapena kudzutsa, mukhoza kukwaniritsa zambiri.
- Mungayambe ndi zakudya zoyenera. Izi zimathandiza kuti zikhale zofanana, komanso kuti thupi lanu lonse likhale bwino.
- Yesetsani kukhala nokha ndi malingaliro anu, izi zidzakuthandizani kuti mukhale ogwirizana ndi umunthu wanu wamkati ndikudziwonetsera nokha mtsogolo.
- Gawo lovuta ndi kukana zizoloŵezi zoipa. Amapha mtsikana aliyense ndikupha mphamvu zake.
- Poyankhula za momwe tingabwezeretse mphamvu za amayi, sitingalephere kutchula boma. Yesetsani kugona mokwanira, chifukwa kugona mokwanira kumalimbitsa mphamvu ya munthu aliyense, kumamuthandiza kuti ayambe kuyang'ana ndikuyang'ana mwatsopano.
- Phunzirani kudzikuza nokha. Dzilemekezeni chifukwa cha kupambana kochepa, kulimbikitsa, ndipo musayiwale kuti ndinu munthu.
- Ndi mfundo ina yofunika kwambiri. Yesetsani kukhala pafupi ndi chilengedwe ngati n'kotheka. Mphamvu ya dziko lapansi imapereka chisangalalo ndi chidaliro m'tsogolo ndipo imapereka zokondweretsa.
Mkazi amene amadziwa komanso kumvetsetsa momwe angapititsire mphamvu za amai, akhoza kubwezeretsanso maso athu. Mpaka posachedwa, ngakhale anzakewo sankamudziwa, ndipo lero adakhala wojambula bwino ndipo amayenda padziko lapansi ndi luso lake. Chinthu chachikulu ndikugwira ntchito payekha ndikuyesera kukwaniritsa cholinga chanu.
Kodi mphamvu ya amai iyenera kukhala yanji - funso lothandizira, chifukwa ndi amuna okha omwe amadziwa za izi komanso makamaka, pa msinkhu wosadziwika. Ndipotu, amakondana ndi mphamvu ndikusankha akazi awo amtsogolo. Mwinamwake izi ndi zomwe timazitcha madzi, magnetism ndi kukopa, koma chinthucho chimakhala chofanana.