Masewera a masewera

Si chinsinsi choti nthawi zina ana amafunikira thandizo la maganizo. Iwo, monga akuluakulu, amakumana ndi mavuto amtima, amavutika maganizo, amavutika ndi mantha. Koma wodwalayo ndi ana ndi zovuta kwambiri kugwira nawo ntchito. Ndipotu, amafunikira njira yapadera.

Mankhwalawa akufala kwambiri pakugwira ntchito ndi achinyamata achikulire. Masewerawa amathandiza ana kuponya chiwawa chonse chomwe "amadya" kuchokera mkati, amasonyeza mantha, nsanje kwa abale kapena alongo ang'onoang'ono, kukhala osatetezeka kapena kusatetezeka. Kuwonera masewerawa, munthu wamkulu akhoza kudziwa mavuto omwe ali nawo, madandaulo amvekedwe, osatchulidwa mawu, zomwe akumana nazo mwana.

Njira zothandizira masewera

M'makono amakono a maganizo, akatswiri amagwiritsa ntchito njira zothandizira pa ntchito yawo ndi ana. Mungathe kunena mwatchutchutchutchutchutchutchu kuti njirayi ndi "Musasamalire, koma mumvetse." Cholinga chake sikutembenuza mwanayo, koma kunena kuti "Ine".

Mitundu yothandizira masewera

Pakalipano, mankhwalawa amasankhidwa monga:

1. Thandizo la Ego (othandizira, masewera, apatseni mwana kumasulira kwake kuti amuthandize kumvetsa ndi kuvomereza kusokonezeka maganizo komwe anakakamizidwa kapena kukana).
2. Kuchiza, komwe kumagwirizana ndi chiphunzitso cha maphunziro a chikhalidwe cha anthu (katswiri wa zamaganizo amalingalira kuphunzitsa mwanayo kusewera ndi ena, osati pa kukhudzidwa kwa zomwe zili m'masewera a ana).
3. Osati malamulo othandizira ma ARV (nthawi zambiri, wothandizira ali ndi chidwi ndipo mwanayo amachirikiza ndi chiweruzo chosamvetsetseka, kuwathandiza kufotokoza mikangano yawo mwa kupeza yankho lake.) Izi zifotokozedwa mwatsatanetsatane m'buku la GL Landrett la "Game therapy: luso la maubwenzi".

Masewera a masewera

Kuchita masewero a pakhomo panyumba, mungagwiritse ntchito masewera awa:

1. "Chidziwitso". Konzani anawo kuti azidziwika bwino. Aphwanyeni awiriwa, awathandize kutchula mayina awo komanso kuwafunsanso dzina la mnzako.
2. "Tsiku lobadwa". Chifukwa cha masewerawa, mwana aliyense adzamveketsa. Perekani mosiyana tsiku lobadwa. Ndithandizeni kuti ndiyamikire komanso ndikufuna. Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti ana omwe ali ndi nkhanza amafunika masewera omwe amathandiza kuthetsa malingaliro oipa, komanso masewera omwe amaphunzitsa molongosola mmene amamvera komanso akumverera.
3. "Toyu." Perekani imodzi ya zidole zokongola, ndikuthandizani mwana wachiwiri kuti amufunse bwino, panthawi imodzimodzi, ngati pakufunikira, ayenera kupereka chinsalu.

Musaiwale kuti ana ndi apadera ndipo amafunikira njira yapadera. Pambuyo pake, zizoloŵezi za munthu wamkulu zimayikidwa ali mwana.