Mwanayo ayenera kuzindikira chipinda cha ana monga malo awo, gawo lawo lachidziwitso, masewera, ntchito ndi zosangalatsa. Choncho, mkhalidwe wake, mosakayikira, uyenera kukhala wokondweretsa kwa iye ndikuganizira zofuna zake, ngakhale ndi funso la chipinda chodziwika kwa mnyamata ndi mtsikana.
Malo ogona
Kugwiritsira ntchito mfundo za chipinda cha ana cha mnyamata ndi mtsikana chimayamba ndi kukonza malo. M'mayamayi, ndi chizoloŵezi chosiyanitsa magawo atatu ogwira ntchito: m'chipinda chogona, kuntchito ndi chipinda chosewera. Kenaka, muyenera kusankha mapepala kapena chipinda china kumbali ya ana a mnyamata ndi mtsikana. Pali njira ziwiri: mwina, pokambirana ndi ana onse, sankhani mtundu wonse wa makoma omwe aliyense angakufuneni, kapena mugawitseni chipinda chimodzi mwa magawo awiri ofanana, girlish ndi boyish, ndipo sankhani mapepala pa gawo lirilonse. Ngati tilankhula za mapangidwe a malo ogona, ndiye apa titha kuthandizira mabaibulo osiyanasiyana a mabedi, omwe adzapulumutse malo mu chipinda chogona. Ngati mutapanga magawo awiri osiyana ndi malo a chipinda chachikulu, mutenga mabedi awiri ofanana, koma mothandizidwa ndi nsalu, azikongoletsera m'njira zosiyanasiyana ndikuziika pamalo omwe magawano azimayi ndi azimuna amapita.
Malo ogwira ntchito
Kulingalira kwa chipinda cha ana kwa mnyamata ndi mtsikana kumatenga ntchito yosiyana kwa mwana aliyense. Ngati dera likulolera, mukhoza kukhazikitsa matebulo awiri kapena kugwiritsa ntchito njira zotsatirazi: Pogwiritsa ntchito makomawa palikwera pamwamba pa tebulo, kumbuyo komwe kuli malo awiri ogwira ntchito. Izi, poyamba, zimaphatikizapo zinthu zina zomwe zili zofunika kwa ana onse, koma ndizokopera, ndipo kachiwiri, perekani malo okwanira kuti aliyense adziwe malo awo. Kusiyana kwa kusiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi kungakhazikitsidwe mothandizidwa ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya mipando (buluu kwa mnyamata, pinki kwa mtsikana) kapena zolemba.
Masewera a Masewera
Zipinda zamakono za mnyamata ndi mtsikana kawirikawiri zimapita m'njira yoti masewerawa ali pakati kapena pafupi ndi chipinda. Ndipo izi nkulondola, chifukwa palibe chifukwa chogawira zofuna za ana chifukwa cha kugonana. Chipinda cha masewera ndi malo wamba ponseponse pojambula chipinda cha anyamata ndi anyamata, ndi aang'ono. Ngati ana ali a mibadwo yosiyana, ndiye mmodzi wa iwo sangagwiritse ntchito masewerawo chifukwa cha cholinga chake, koma, komabe, ayenera kudziwa kuti danga ili ndilo, nayenso. Kukongoletsa masewerawa mokwanira kuti ukhale pansi pamtunda, ndipo ana amakonda kusewera, atakhala pamtunda.
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