Ndi zabwino kulandira mphatso pa msinkhu uliwonse, koma ndi zabwino kwambiri kuti muzipereka nokha. Zimakhala zokondweretsa makamaka tikawona kuti panopa zasankhidwa bwino ndipo munthuyo ndi wokondwadi. Pogula mphatso, nkofunika kulingalira osati zofuna zokha komanso mtundu wa ntchito za munthu, komanso msinkhu wake. Choncho, mphatso za okalamba ziyenera kusiyanitsidwa ndi kuphweka, zozoloŵera komanso zosavuta, pamene achinyamata angapereke chinachake chodabwitsa komanso chophweka.
Kodi mungapereke chiyani munthu wachikulire?
Tiyerekeze kuti agogo ako ali ndi tsiku lobadwa posachedwa. Nthawi yomweyo pali mafunso ambiri okhudzana ndi mphatso, monga mu moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku mumalankhulana ndi anthu a msinkhu wanu ndipo nokha mukhoza kuweruza zokhumba zawo. Koma nchiyani choti mupereke munthu wachikulire? Pali njira zingapo zosatsutsika:
- Chovala chofunda kapena bulangete lapadera ndi manja;
- zofewa zofewa;
- masokosi a ubweya;
- chowongolera ;
- Perekani TV ndi njira zambiri kapena mbale ya satana;
- kuwunika kwa magazi atsopano;
- chithunzi chobwezeretsa cha banja, chokhala mu chithunzi chokongola;
- fyuluta yamadzi ;
- foni yatsopano (onetsetsani kuti n'zosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito);
- zida zowonongeka;
- asankha nsomba;
- Kulembetsa kwa kugula magalasi atsopano (agogo aakazi nthawi zambiri safuna kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama kuti agwirizane ndi magalasi akale).
Kuonjezera apo, zidzakhala bwino kwambiri kutumiza agogo aamuna kuti apume ku sukulu yabwino. Kumeneko adzasintha thanzi lake, kulipira mphamvu zowonjezera ndipo adzalandira malingaliro abwino. Ngati palibe ndalama zokwanira kugula vouki, musataye mtima. Patsiku la tchuthi, mungathe kupanga pikiniki kunja kwa mzinda nokha ndikutenga agogo anu aamuna. Mukamachita zimenezi, yesetsani kuziyika pa chilengedwe monga momwe mungathere. Mmenemo mudzathandizira mipando yowongoka yokhala ndi apamwamba, kuteteza ku dzuwa.