Munthu aliyense ali ndi khalidwe - izi zatsimikiziridwa mwasayansi. Pali makhalidwe omwe timakhala nawo chifukwa cha chibadwidwe, chomwe chinayambira chifukwa cha chilengedwe, ndi zina zotero. Koma kodi munthu ali ndi chikhalidwe ndi chiyani? Kodi timatanthauza chiyani tikati "ali ndi khalidwe"?
Kupanga khalidwe
Tanthauzo lake ndilo tanthauzo lake. Aliyense amaika malingaliro ake m'chinenero cha zomwe zanenedwa. Koma kawirikawiri, mfundo ndi yakuti "munthu wokhala ndi chikhalidwe" ndi munthu yemwe amatha kuwoloka "safuna" ndipo "sangathe", ndikuchita zomwe amafuna. Uyu ndi munthu wokhumba kwambiri.
Kotero, ndithudi, mungafune kudziwa momwe mungakwiyitsire khalidweli ndi momwe mungakhalire munthu "khalidwe".
Zovuta
Amati mavuto amakwiya. Ndipo izi ziri ndi choonadi chake. Ndiponsotu, munthu amene apulumuka zomwe ambiri a ife sadazionepo adzachitapo ndi "masoka" athu monga za zinthu zazing'ono. Koma mavutowa adzabwera mwa iwo okha, sitingawaitane, ndipo sikofunikira.
Zochita
Pali zochitika zosiyana zomwe zingakhale yankho la funso limene limatizunza: momwe mungakwiyitse chifuniro ndi khalidwe.
Choyamba, ichi ndi cholinga. Khalani ndi cholinga, perekani tsiku kuti liwonongeke. Konzekerani maganizo anu pa zomwe mukuyenera kudzipatula nokha pa cholinga chanu, ndiyeno, yambani ulendo wanu.
Chokhacho chikhale chofunikira kwambiri kwa inu.
Pali njira yophweka: dzipangitse wekha kuyang'ana pa dzanja lachiwiri la ola tsiku lililonse kwa mphindi ziwiri. Pa nthawi yomweyi, dzikanizeni nokha, ndipo mukangoyendera ganizo lochepa kwambiri - yambani.
Ndipo, chachitatu, koma osati chotsiriza. Chitani chimene mukuwopa. Mukuwopa kudziwonetsera nokha kwa wanu wakale, yemwe, monga mukudziwa, sali nokha, pitani ndi kupita. Khalani mwaubwenzi, mwachindunji, muwononge chirichonse "Sindikufuna," "Ndikuwopa," "sindingathe," ndipo mudzadzigonjetsa nokha.
Munthu yemwe ali ndi khalidwe nthawi zonse ndiye yemwe wapambana pa zofooka zake.