Chikumbutso cha maubwenzi ndi chofunika kwambiri m'miyoyo ya okondedwa, chifukwa anakhala chaka choyesera kukongoletsa miyoyo ya wina ndi mzake, kuthana ndi mavuto, ndi kusangalala nawo. Ndipo kwa iwo omwe sakudziwa kuti ndi zachilendo kuchita chikondwerero cha chiyanjano palimodzi, mfundo zotsatirazi zokondwerera zingakhale zothandiza.
Kodi kukondwerera kukumbukira chiyanjano?
Inde, njira yothetsera vutoli imadalira kwambiri zachuma. Ngati ndalama zikuloleza, ndiye kuti mukhoza kupita ulendo wachikondi. Ndipo mungathe kugonjetsa pamwamba pa phiri, zomwe sizidzangokhala zokondweretsa, komanso zophiphiritsa, chifukwa chaka chimodzi pamodzi ndi chigonjetso chogonjetsedwa. Pokhala ndi ndalama zochepa, zimakhala zovuta kuganizira kuti ndi zachilendo bwanji ndikukondwerera tsiku lachiyanjano. Choyamba, pakhoza kukhala malo omwe zochitika zazikulu zinachitika, mwachitsanzo, kudziwana, kupsompsona koyamba kapena kuvomereza koyamba. Ndi bwino kupanga mndandanda wa malo oterowo ndikuganizira komwe mungakondweretse tsiku lachiyanjano cha maubwenzi ochititsa chidwi komanso oyambirira. Koma kuchokera ku chikondwerero cha nyumba ndi bwino kukana, makamaka ngati sikuti ndi tsiku loyamba, chifukwa nthawi zina zochitika zapakhomo zimatha kuwononga tsiku lonse la tchuthi. Koma ngati zochitika zikukakamiza tsiku loti lichitike panyumba, ndiye kuti wina sayenera kukhala waulesi ndikupanga chibwenzi mu nyumba mothandizidwa ndi zodzikongoletsera, maluwa ndi makandulo. Kusankha malo a chikondwerero, mukhoza kuyamba kulemba script.
Kodi mungakondweretse bwanji chibwenzi ndi okondedwa anu?
1. Kupita zovala
Njirayi ndi yoyenera kwa iwo omwe sakudziwa kukondana ndi chikumbutso, koma ambiri amafuna kuti holide ikhale yodzala ndi chikhalidwe. Choyamba, muyenera kupanga zovala zomwe zikugwirizana ndi zomwe zinachitika. Monga lamulo, zovala zimatha kubwerekedwa mu malo owonetsera zovala kapena kampani imene imakonza zikondwerero. M'mayunivesite a masewera amakhalanso zovala, komwe, mutagwirizana ndi oyang'anira, mungasankhe zovala zoyenera. Panthawi zovuta kwambiri, zovalazo zikhoza kusinthidwa ndi madiresi amakono a madzulo, koma ndizovala zakale zomwe zingakhale zoyenera kuti apange chibwenzi. Kuwonjezera pa zovala, muyenera kuyika galimoto ndi akavalo. M'mizinda yambiri, ntchitoyi imapezeka kupyolera mwa stables, koma ngati izi sizingatheke, ndiye kuti akavalo ayenera kutsatiridwa ndi limousine kapena galimoto yokongoletsedwa. Njira yopita kuulendo ikhoza kukhala yosiyana kwambiri, ikhoza kukumbukira malo, kapena ulendo wopita mumzinda wa usiku. Champagne ndi mabulosi a sitiroberi paulendo sizingakhale zodabwitsa. Ndipo kumaliza tchuthi kuli bwino mu chipinda cha hotelo, kukongoletsedwera kalembedwe kabwino.
2. Kachiwiri tsiku loyamba
Chikondi china cha usiku - kubwezeretsanso nthawi ya tsiku loyamba. Koma osati bwino, koma mwa kusintha. Mwachitsanzo, kongoletsani sitolo yosakumbukika ku pakiyi ndi masamba a maluwa, ndikukumana ndi mimba yanu ndi champagne ndi mphatso yachilendo. Kapena ingokonza tebulo ndi mipando, ndi kukonza chakudya pakati pa paki, momwe, mwachitsanzo, panali tsiku loyamba. Mfundo yodalirika ya chikondwerero chimenechi iyenera kukhala zovala, zomwe zonsezi zinayamba. Ndipo ngati zochitika zosayembekezeka zinachitika tsiku loyamba, ndizotheka kubwezeretsanso, ngati n'kotheka. Kupitiriza tsiku loyamba kungakhale chakudya chamtendere.
3. Kuyenda ndi zopinga
Pachifukwa choopsa kwambiri, thandizo la abwenzi lidzafunidwa. Ulendowu waulendo ndi malo osakumbukika. Koma lingaliro la chikondwerero ndi lakuti malo onse padzakhala chopinga kapena zodabwitsa.
Zopinga zonse ndi zodabwitsa ziyenera kukhala zophiphiritsira komanso zogwirizana ndi zochitika zomwe zakhala zikukhala palimodzi.
4. Chikondi chamadzulo
Njirayi ndi yosavuta, komanso yoyenera kwa onse amene akufuna kusangalatsa chikondwererochi, koma alibe mwayi wokonza phwando losakhala labwino. Ndipo komabe, ngakhale chakudya cham'nyumba chikhoza kukhala chachilendo, osati mwa kupangidwa kwa nyumbayo. Choyamba, muyenera kusankha malo apadera m'nyumba, kumene palibe amene akanaganiza kuti apange tebulo. Kungakhale khola, ngodya kuseri kwa kapu kapena osambira. Mu nyumba iliyonse komanso ngakhale chipinda chaching'ono pali malo oterowo. Kenaka muyenera kukonza malo osankhidwa, zithunzi zammbuyo, komanso zithunzi zomwe zikuyimira lingaliro la tsogolo logwirizana. Mwachitsanzo, ngati pali maloto okhudza nyumba kapena nyumba, za kuyenda kapena bizinesi, mukhoza kukonzekera mafano abwino pasanapite nthawi komanso panthawi ya mgonero pamodzi kumanga tsogolo lanu mwa kuphatikiza zithunzi ndi zithunzi zanu.
Ndikofunika kulingalira pazamasamba za chakudya chamadzulo. Pali zakudya zambirimbiri za maholide oterowo, omwe ali ndi zakudya za aphrodisiacs, zomwe zimaphatikizapo nsomba, avocado, mtedza, udzu winawake, zonunkhira ndi ginger, komanso, champagne ndi chokoleti. Chinthu chachikulu ndichoti mbale ndizosavuta, kuyambira kumapeto kwa chakudya chamasiku ano chidzakhala chiyambi chabe cha tchuthi. Chochitikacho chimadalira okha okondedwa, koma pa tsiku la chiyanjano sichidzakhala chosasangalatsa kubweretsa zosiyana pa moyo wapamtima.
Polemba zochitika za tchuthi, ndikofunika kuganizira zokonda komanso zosangalatsa za mnzanuyo, komanso ndondomeko yowumikizana. Tsikuli liyenera kukumbutsa okonda nthawi zabwino zomwe zonsezi zinayamba, ndipo, zedi, zomwe anali pamodzi.