Chikondi nthawi zina chimaphimba maso kuti wotsutsana asankhe kuphwanya malamulo a chirengedwe ndikukonzekeretsa mtima wa winayo. Ndipo malo opita kulemera wakuda matsenga - a spell. Mwanjira iyi, mwa njira, siilimbikitsa chikondi, imangomanga chisoni kwa wamatsenga. Ndipo munthu yemwe spell imaperekedwa, akukumana ndi ululu waukulu. Amataya mtima, amakhala wansanje, amavutika maganizo, amayamba kumwa mowa. Ngati muzindikira kuti munthu wanu akuchita zosayenera, ndipo mukuganiza kuti watembereredwa, tenga nkhaniyi m'manja mwanu. Ndiponsotu, zochita zamatsenga zamphamvu zimangowonjezera osati munthu wokondedwa, komanso banja lake, kuphatikizapo ana. Mmene mungachotsere chikondi cholimba paokha, mumaphunzira kuchokera ku nkhaniyi.
Kodi kuchotsa spell mu mpingo?
Mpingo umatsutsa mawonetseredwe alionse a matsenga, ndiko kuti, ngati ndinu munthu wokhulupirira moona mtima, ndiye wansembe sangakudalitseni m'njira ina iliyonse.
Ngati spellyi inaperekedwa ndi mtsikana, msungwana wopanda nzeru, nthawi zina makandulo okwanira a thanzi la mapemphero okondeka ndi owerengera kuti azichita nawo mwambo. Komabe, ngati mukuchita ndi matsenga amphamvu, muyenera kutenga nthawi yochuluka kuti mupange spell:
- kulankhulana ndi wamkulu wauzimu;
- kuvala mtanda, kupita ku tchalitchi kawirikawiri, kuwerengera mapemphero a zaumoyo. Pitani ku misonkhano, makamaka pa maholide;
- Pomwe kuchotsa matsulowo, sungani kukaona zosangalatsa (ulendo kupita ku magulu, odyera, etc.);
- Tsatirani zomwe adalangizi amapereka.
Kodi mungachotsere bwanji chikondi chanu?
Yesani imodzi mwa miyambo yotsatirayi:
Mwambo ndi zinyenyeswazi za mkate
- Mudzafunika: mkate wouma wouma, makandulo asanu odzipatulira (mdima, waxy) ndi chopukutira;
- Kukhala pakhomo pakhomo, kuunikira makandulo onse palimodzi, kufalitsa chopukutira patsogolo panu;
- katatu udzidutse wekha ndi mkate ndikuyamba kuwuphwanya pa nsalu yofalikira, kutchula mawu akuti "momwe mkate umagwedezeka, choncho chigwirizano chako chimagwa";
- kudula mkate, kumangiriza ndi mfundo ndi kukhala pamwamba. Kukhala pansi kudzakhala ndi maola awiri;
- Pambuyo pake, tsanulirani m'matumba ndi nsapato za mwamuna wake. Onjezerani pang'ono ku chakudya.
Mwambo ndi makandulo
Njirayi ndi yabwino ngati mukudziwa dzina la mbuyeyo.
- tenga kandulo wakuda ndi wofiirira, ndipo papepala lembani mbali zonse ziwiri maina: mwamuna ndi mbuye;
- kuyatsa makandulo, ndiyeno kudula pepala pakati pa maina, kuwasiya iwo;
- kutentha pepala limodzi ndi dzina la mwamuna pa kandulo imodzi, pamzake - ndi dzina la ambuye;
- ikani phulusa mu manja osiyana, tulukani mumsewu ndipo, mutatha kuyembekezera mphepo, mutenge phulusa mosiyana.
Kodi mungachotsere bwanji malonda achikondi kwanu kwanu?
Izi zimachitika kuti ife tokha tikhoza kukhala ogwidwa ndi matsenga akuda. Ngati mumadziwa kuti ndi ndani, ndiye gwiritsani ntchito njira yotsatirayi:
- tenga chithunzi kapena chinthu chaumwini cha munthu yemwe anachita mwambo, ndi kugula kandulo yampatuko;
- khalani pagalasi ndikuyika chinthu ichi patsogolo panu kuti muwone bwinobwino, koma kuti sichiletsa nkhope yanu;
- kandulo kandulo ndikuyamba kuyang'ana chithunzi cha munthu kapena chinthu chake, kuyesera kuti adziwe ndi mphamvu zake;
- Pokhala ndi ndondomeko, yambani kukambirana malingaliro ndi icho. Gwiritsani ntchito mawu amfupi, pamapeto pake omwe mubwereze kuti "musiye".
Khalani bwino:
- atalongosola, kutembenuzira chinthu kapena chithunzi kumbali yotsalira, ndiye nkuphimba ndi udzu wa chitsamba chowawa kapena nettle. Ikani kandulo;
- m'mawa kuika chingwe cha makandulo mu mpingo kuti ukhale wathanzi.
Tsopano mumatha kuchotsa nokha (kapena nokha) tsamba lokonda nokha. Komabe, kuchotsa spell sikukutsimikiziranso kubwerera kwa wokondedwa. Ngati spellyi inaperekedwa ndi wamatsenga amphamvu, ndiye, mwinamwake, nayenso anachita mwambo wowononga chiyanjano. Choncho, khalani okonzeka kuyesetsa kubwezeretsa chikondi cha munthu wokondedwa wanu .