Mwambo wamakono wa matchmaking ndi wosiyana kwambiri ndi miyambo yakale ndi lero, kuti, poyamba, chidziwitso china cha achibale a mkwatibwi za zolinga za achinyamata. Miyambo yambiri yakale yatha, koma, makamaka, palinso miyambo yokongola ya matchmaking.
Kodi mwambo waukwati uli bwanji?
M'nthaŵi yathu ino, gawo lokonzekera la ukwati nthawi zambiri limasowa, ndipo limawombera kulengeza kwa makolo okha zolinga zawo. Ngakhale zili choncho, n'zotheka kuzindikira miyambo ina imene ambiri amapitiriza kuiona.
Miyambo ya matchmaking ndi mkwati:
- Wachibale aliyense akhoza kukhala wothamanga, koma wokwatiwa yekha.
- Mkwati ayenera kukonzekera ma bouquets awiri omwe akufunira mkwatibwi ndi amayi ake. Ndi bwino kudziwa zizindikiro za zomera zosankhidwa.
- Okonza ayenera kukhala oyamba kulankhula ndi makolo a mkwatibwi ndi njira zonse zotheka kupempha manja awo kwa iwo.
N'zotheka kuchita masewera a matchmaking pazinthu zina, zomwe zingathandize kuti ntchitoyi ikhale yosangalatsa komanso yosangalatsa.
Miyambo ya matchmaking ndi mkwatibwi:
- Dothi lophiphiritsira liyenera kukonzekera, mwachitsanzo, likhoza kukhala sheti kapena thaulo zopangidwa ndi manja a munthu.
- Chikhalidwe chofunika ndi dzungu, lomwe linaperekedwa kwa ophatikizana ngati makolo a mtsikana sakonda mkwati.
- Mkwatibwi wamtsogolo ayenera kuvala molingana ndi udindo wake, koma osati mwaukali. Ndikoyenera kuti muzivala zizindikiro zina.
- Otsatirawo atatha, kukambirana kumayambira, kumene achibale amtsogolo amapeza mafunso onse ofunika. Mwa njira, anthu omwe angokwatirana kumene nthawi zambiri amakhala chete usiku wonse.
Okonza amatha kuyang'ana mkazi wam'tsogolo ndikumupempha kuti achite chinachake, mwachitsanzo, asese pansi kapena kuphika chakudya china. Ngati makolo a mkwatibwi amatha kuvomereza mkwati, ayenera kuika mbale yaikulu patebulo, mwachitsanzo, keke.