Njira ina imene ingakuthandizeni kupeza munthu amene mumawakonda - kukonda fodya pa ndudu. Inde, ndizoyenera kwa amayi omwe ali ndi chizolowezi choipa ichi. Izi zidzakuthandizira kulimbikitsa kumverera kwa masitolo ndi "kukankhira" mmanja mwanu. Komabe, ndi bwino kukumbukira zotsatira zosafunika kwambiri za njira zoterezi.
Chifukwa cha utsi wa ndudu umene umadzipangira nokha, mphamvu ya chiwembu imakula. Pa mwambo wotero, ndi kofunika, monga nkofunikira kufalitsa maganizo anu ndi maganizo anu , kotero musakhale wamanyazi.
Kodi mungatani kuti muzikonda fodya?
Chitani mwambo kwa mwezi ukukula utatha dzuwa. Ponena za malo, iyenera kukhala nyumba imene zinthu zonse zimaphatikizidwa ndi mphamvu zanu. Ndi bwino kuti palibe munthu amene ali m'nyumba ndipo foniyo imachotsedwa .. Kwa mwambo ndikofunika kutenga ndudu, kandulo, pensulo ndi chithunzi cha wokonda. Yatsani kandulo, ikani chithunzi patsogolo pake, ndudu pa izo ndipo ganizirani mu malingaliro anu kuti muli ndi chiyanjano chotani ndi okondedwa anu, momwe mumakondana. Tsopano pa ndudu muyenera kulemba dzina la wosankhidwa ndi mawu omwe akuyimira maubwenzi amtsogolo, mwachitsanzo, chikondi, ukwati, ndi zina. Pambuyo pake, tenga ndudu m'dzanja lanu lamanja, yatsani kuwala kwa kandulo ndi kusuta. Pa nthawi ino, nthawi zonse muziganizira za mwamuna ndi chibwenzi chanu cham'tsogolo. Phulusa liyenera kusonkhanitsidwa mosamala mu dzanja lamanzere, monga doc, kutsegula zenera, phulusa phulusa ndi kunena kuti:
"Phulusa linapita mu mphepo, ndipo wokondedwa wanga (dzina) anandipeza ine, Anandikhudza ine kwa ine, kumamatira kwanthawizonse. Zidzakhala zanga ndizokha ndi ine. Kwamuyaya. "
Chotupa cha ndudu chikhoza kutayidwa kunja, ndi kusiya kandulo kutentha. Chithunzicho chimaloledwa kuti chigwiritsidwe ntchito mu miyambo ina, chifukwa chake chidzakhala chithumwa champhamvu kwambiri pa ubale wanu. Simumauza aliyense kuti wachita mwambowu. Chikondi ichi chimatulutsa ndudu, monga zina zilizonse, zingakhale ndi zotsatira zosasinthika, choncho ganizirani mozama ngati mukufuna kukhudzidwa ndi chiopsezo chotere.