Nyenyezi zomwe sizikhala ndi ana zimatha kudziwika zokha, koma ambiri mwa iwo amadzinenera kuti mwadzidzidzi apitilizabe banja lawo. Pano inu mudzawona osankhidwa osankhidwa, omwe mwazifukwa zina safuna kukhala ndi mwana.
Kuyendetsa uku kunapeza ngakhale dzina lakuti "childfree" kapena, pomasulira, liribe ana. Mwina mwa njira imeneyi wina amayesera kubisala mavuto awo chifukwa cholephera kukhala ndi ana pa zizindikiro zachipatala kapena chifukwa chodzikonda, poopa kuweruzidwa kwa anthu.
1. Kim Cattrall
Nyenyezi ya zovuta zogonana "Kugonana ndi Mzinda" Kim Cattrall wakhala akuwonetsa mobwerezabwereza kuti sakufuna kukhala ndi ana. Pa nthawi yomweyi, wolemba masewerowa amamuuza kuti sakhala ndi nthawi yokhala ndi apongozi ake komanso kusewera nawo, koma akafika kunyumba, Kim akufuna kumva chete, awone dongosolo ndi kupumula, zomwe sakanakhoza kuzipeza ndi ana. Ndipo ngakhale atakhala m'mabanja atatu, Cattrall akunena kuti sanadandaule kuti alibe ana. Komabe, nthawi zina nyenyezi, poyankhula momasuka, inati sakanatha kusankha nthawi yoyenera ya kubadwa kwa mwanayo, atasinthidwa mpaka mtsogolo, ndipo nthawi inali itachedwa, koma anali ndi chikhumbo chokhala mayi.
2. Renee Zellweger
Chikhalidwe chachikulu cha filimu yotchuka "The Bridget Jones Diary" Renee Zellweger nthawi zonse ankakhulupirira kuti ana ndiwothandizira kumoyo, kutanthauza "kutsanulira", osati mbale yaikulu. Chofunika kwambiri kwa iye nthawi zonse chinali kudzisamalira yekha ndi chinthu chake chokonda. Monga Rene mwiniwakeyo akunena, anatenga zonse zomwe anam'patsa kuchokera ku moyo, ndipo zina zonse sizilibe kanthu, ndipo sanakhazikitse cholinga chokhala ndi zaka zina ndikubereka mwana.
Komabe, mu 2013 Renee anakumana ndi Doyle Bremhall, yemwe ndi wofalitsa wachikondi chatsopano, yemwe adasankha kukhala ndi mwana, koma kuti asadzitenge yekha, ngati atachedwa, koma adzalandira. Pachifukwa ichi, mwamuna wake Zellweger akutsimikizira kuti popanda thandizo, sangathe kupirira, chifukwa ndi amene amamukakamiza kuchita izi.
Oprah Winfrey
Oprah Winfrey yemwe ndi wofalitsa wotchuka kwambiri pa TV, amanena kuti sadakhale ndi chikhumbo chofuna kukhala ndi ana. Ngakhale ku sukulu zaka zambiri, atsikana ambiri atalota kuti akwatire ndi kukhala ndi mwana, Oprah wamng'ono ankalota chinthu china. M'zaka zimenezo iye ankafuna kukhala wandale wamkulu, monga Marteni Luther King, yemwe anabweretsa zabwino zambiri kwa umunthu. Komabe, pali njira yina yosakhudzira kukhala ndi ana: ali ndi zaka 14, Oprah anali mobwerezabwereza akugonana ndi abambo ake, amalume ake ndi abwenzi awo, ndipo panthawi imeneyo mtsikana wosasangalala anatenga pakati ndipo anabala mwana wamwamuna yemwe adamwalira tsiku lachiwiri. Choncho, chifukwa cha kukumbukira izi, maganizo okhudza kubadwa kwa ana awo amachititsa Winfrey lero kukhala ndi mantha kwambiri.
Monga momwe Opraz mwiniwake akunenera, anali ndi nthawi zosautsa zambiri pamoyo wake, ndipo mawonekedwe ake, ntchito zake, sanamlole kuti akhale ndi ana ndi kupanga banja lopanda.
4. Mlimi Wanga
Mkazi wa ku France ndi woimba Milen Farmer sazengereza kunena kuti analibe ana chifukwa chachabechabe chake. Nyenyeziyo nthawizonse imayankha funso ili ponena kuti iye mwiniyo ali mwana, kotero iye samasowa ana. Kuwonjezera apo, adathetsa ubale wa zaka zisanu ndi wojambula wa ku America Jeff Dahlgren chifukwa adafuna kwambiri ana ake kuchokera kwa iye ndipo anangosinthidwa. Masiku ano, ana a Milen amalowetsedwa ndi capuchins awiri omwe amakhala m'nyumba mwake.
George Clooney
Kwa wotchuka wotchuka wa Hollywood ku George Clooney, ulemerero wa mwakhama wamakono wakhala kwa zaka zambiri. Iye anali ndi mabuku ambiri pambuyo pa oyamba aja atalephera ukwati, womwe unasweka mu 1992. Malingana ndi Clooney mwini, sakwatiranso, ndipo amakonda zinyama kuposa ana, kotero safuna kupeza ana. Komabe, mu Septemba 2014, Clooney adagwera mumtendere wa advocate Amal Alamuddin, akuphwanya lumbiro loyambirira, kukwatiwa mwalamulo. Ndani amadziwa, Amal yemwe sali wodalirika angathe kuwononga moyo wake wosakonda ana ndipo amupatsa wolowa nyumba mtsogolo.
6. Christina Hendricks
Christina Hendrix analibe nthawi yoti ayende pamapepala ofiira a Hollywood, pamene adakhala chizindikiro chogonana chatsopano. Kutulukira nyenyezi ndi chidaliro chonse kumatsimikizira anthu kuti ndi 100% opanda ana. Wojambulayo wakhala atakwatirana kwa zaka zingapo, safuna kukhala ndi ana. Ndipo monga Christina mwiniwake akunena, ana ndi ntchito yaikulu, yomwe, mwachiwonekere, iye sali wokonzeka.
7. Cameron Diaz
Cameron Diaz, yemwe ndi wotchuka komanso wotchuka, anali ndi mabuku ambiri, koma sadakonzekere kuyambitsa ana, akukhulupirira kuti moyo wake unali wokongola, ndipo ngati anali ndi ana, sakanakhala nawo. Komabe, posachedwa mu nyuzipepala anayamba kuonekera malipoti ochuluka omwe Cameron anayenda ndikukonzekera kusintha miyoyo yawo, kubereka ana ndikudzipereka okha kwa banja. Inde, pazotsatila izi, adakankhidwa ndi mwamuna wokondedwa wa Benji Madden. Mwinamwake, pamene mwamuna "wolondola" ali ndi mkazi pafupi ndi iye, ndiye kuti mwachirengedwe mwachibadwa amadzuka kuti apange malo achibale ndi kuwateteza. Koma pamene ana angapo apabe.
8. Patricia Kaas
Wolemekezeka kwa mimba yonse ya ku France dzina lake Patricia Kaas anali ndi pakati panthawi ya ntchito yake, koma chisankho sichinagonjetse mwanayo, sanasiye mwanayo, ngakhale kuti ankamukonda, chifukwa chakuti iye anali ndi tanthauzo la moyo. Lero sakuvutika chifukwa cha izi ndipo amakhulupirira kuti ngati akomana ndi munthu woyenera m'moyo, akhoza kutenga mwana wopanda mavuto. N'zotheka kuti zifukwa izi ndizolingalira nokha. Koma ena mafani amakhulupilira kuti pamaso pa woimbayo akuwona ululu ndi funso lopanda mawu: "Chifukwa chiyani kupambana kunayenera kukhala kotsika mtengo kulipira?". Koma onse osasamala omwe woimbayo amalowa mu galu amene amamukonda, omwe amamutsatira nthawi zonse paulendo.
9. Eva Longoria
Kukongola kwa Eva Longoria ali kale zaka zoposa 40, koma iye alibebe ana ndipo sakaganizira za izo. Eva amakhulupirira kuti ngati sapeza "munthu woyenera" asanakwatire 50, ndiye kuti sakufuna kukhalabe mayi mmodzi, choncho ndibwino kuti asakhale ndi ana konse. Koma wojambula zithunzi ndi chitsanzo samakana kuti ngati mwamuna wake wokondedwa akufuna kukhala ndi ana, ndiye kuti sangatero.
10. Bozena Rynska
Monga mkango ndi mtolankhani wolemba zachinyengo Bozena Rynska sali mwana wamwamuna basi, iye ndi wotsutsa. Komanso Bozhena akunena mosadalirika komanso osakhudzidwa, amadana ndi anthu omwe amapita kuntchito, anthu olumala komanso anthu ena osatetezedwa. Amatchula anthu okalamba "opulumuka" omwe amangowonongeka ndi achinyamatawo. Ndipo ana ake amakhumudwa kwambiri, choncho amatha kumva "ayi" ngati akufunsidwa za kupitiriza kwawo. Rynska imatsutsana ndi masewera a ana m'mabwalo a nyumba ndipo safuna kuwaika mu sarin.
Amakhulupiriranso kuti ngati mwanayo sali wopambana, ndiye kuti zimenezi ndi zovuta, ndipo ana ena samafunikira basi. Koma, atayamba kukwatirana ndi boma ndi sayansi ya ndale ndi munthu wamalonda Igor Malashenko, wolemba nkhani wochititsa manyazi adasintha maganizo ake panthawi yake, ndipo adalola kuti atha kubereka mwana. Koma Amayi Nature anakana kuchita izi, ndipo Bozhena anayenera kuyankhulana ndi madokotala apadera kuti abereke. Komabe, posakhalitsa kukana kukhala ndi ana kunayankhulidwa ndi mtolankhani wosankhidwa, choncho pamene mayi wamng'ono uyu ali ndi mchira wake makumi anayi ndikukhala yekha.