Kodi mukudziwa kuti kuchoka kwa amayi ku Sweden ndi chimodzi mwa nthawi yaitali kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi? Choncho, kukhala ndi mwana wakhanda kungakhale masiku oposa 480, "kutenga" mbali zina - miyezi, masabata, masiku komanso ngakhale ora.
Ndipo aboma adzalipira ndalama zokwana 80%, ndipo ngati muli antchito a boma, mudzalandira 100%. Koma khalani okonzeka kuphunzira chowonadi chochititsa chidwi kwambiri - kuyambira masiku 480 ndendende 60 ndi mwanayo ayenera kukhala bambo, ndipo ngati iye akana, kuti masiku ano achotsedwa ndipo sanalipidwe!
Zinkaganiziridwa kuti kukanikizidwa kumeneku kungathandize makolo kumvetsetsana bwino, kuphunzira kugawana maudindo ndi kuganizira za mabanja awo ndi ntchito mofanana.
Koma, tawonani, pokhapokha kuti 12 peresenti ya apapa atsopano ndi okonzeka kupindula ndi mabhonasi ochokera ku boma ndikupereka miyezi iwiri yosamalira ndi kulera mwana wawo. Ndipo wojambula zithunzi Johan Bävman ndi mmodzi wa iwo:
"Ndinayamba ntchitoyi pamene ndimakhala kunyumba ndi mwana wanga wamng'ono. Kenaka ndikuwoneka kuti mu bizinesi iyi ndine wosungulumwa ndipo ndilibe thandizo. Ndipo ndinabwera ndi lingaliro lojambula ndi kusonkhanitsa nkhani za apapa omwe, monga ine, sanasiye gawo lawo la makolo, kuti apeze chifukwa chake iwo adatengera gawo ili ndi phunziro lomwe adaphunzira ... "
Tiyeni tipeze zomwe zachitika izi?
1. Johan Ekengård, wazaka 38, wogulitsa zinthu ku Sandvik ndi Papa Ebby (wa zaka 7), Taira (zaka zisanu) ndi Steen wazaka chimodzi:
"Ndinakakamizidwa kuti ndiwononge ndalama zanga pa tchuthi, koma motero ndinapambana kawiri - ndikudziwa kuti ndakhala ngati bambo ndipo ndinayamba kumvetsa bwino bwenzi langa. Ndipo kulumikizana kwathu kolimba ndi ana ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti akule ... "
2. Mzinda wa Mtsinje wa kumpoto, wazaka 32, wogwira ntchito zachangu komanso bambo wa Holger wa miyezi 10:
"Mu moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, ine ndi mkazi wanga timayesetsa kukhala mofanana momwe tingathere. M'miyezi yoyamba zinali zovuta kwa ife, koma lero ndikunyada nthawi ino. Mwana wathu anakana dampers mu miyezi inayi! Ndipo tsiku langa lamasiku ano ndilokuti ndikuyenera kuphika chakudya cha Holger ndikusewera naye. "
3. Loui Kuhlau, wazaka 28, wojambula komanso bambo wa mwana wa Elling:
"M'banja mwathu sipanakhalepo zokambirana - ndani adzayenera kukhala ndi mwanayo. N'zoonekeratu kuti makolo onse ayenera kutenga mbali! Koma ngati sindinakhale nawo mwayi wokhala ndi chaka chimodzi, sindikanatha kulingalira zomwe anali komanso zomwe anali nazo. Ndizodabwitsa, chifukwa mwa lamuloli amalipira tsiku lonse, choncho bwanji anthu sakufuna kukhala kunyumba ndi mwana wawo? "
4. Samad Kohigoltapeh, wa zaka 32, yemwe ndi injiniya komanso mababa awiri a Paris ndi Leia:
"Munapatsa dziko lapansi amuna atsopano ndipo ndi udindo wanu kuti muwapatse moyo wanu wonse! Koma ndinkakangana ndi mkazi wanga, kuti ndipeze miyezi "yanga"! "
5. Ola Larsson, 41, wogulitsa ndi bambo wa mwana wa Gustav:
"Iyi ndi mphatso yeniyeni - kukhala pafupi ndi mwanayo ndi kukhazikitsa mgwirizano wamphamvu! Abambo sakudziwa ngakhale kuti akutaya chiyani akamasankha ntchito m'malo mwa maulendo. "
6. Tjeerd van Waijenburg, wazaka 34, wogulitsa zinthu ku Ikea ndi bambo wa mwana wa Tim:
"Ngakhale tsopano, pamene masiku anga 60 atha, ndimayesetsa kuchepetsa sabata yothandiza kuti ndizikhala ndi nthawi yambiri ndi mwana wanga. Kunyalanyaza kwa abambo awo omwe samawona ubwino uliwonse mu njira yolumikiza! "
7. Andreas Bergström, wazaka 39, wantchito wa boma ndi bambo wa ana awiri:
"Mwana wanga wamng'ono atabadwa, mkazi wanga anali ndi mavuto. Ndinatenga gawo la mkango mu maphunziro a mwana wamkulu ndipo ndinamva kukhudzana kwa abambo kudzera kudyetsa mwana wamng'ono. Tsopano ana anga amandikhulupirira kwambiri ngati amayi anga, ndipo izi ndi zofunika kwambiri kwa ine! "
8. Marcus Bergqvist, wazaka 33, ndi injiniya komanso bambo wa ana a Ted ndi Sigge:
"Akazi amakonzekera amayi kuyambira masiku oyambirira a mimba, ndipo apapa amayamba mwadzidzidzi, atabereka. Koma ndikuganiza kuti ngati sindinagwirizane ndi ntchito zanga pa tchuti, kudzidalira sikukanatha! "
9. Marcus Pranter, wa zaka 29, wogulitsa vinyo ndi bambo wa miyezi 8:
"Awa ndi malamulo opusa! Abambo ayenera kupita ku lamuloli, ngati akufuna, osati pazitsogozo. Ndipo patapita nthawi mapepa amachedwa kuchezera, zovuta kwambiri ndi kukhazikitsa chiyanjano ndi mwanayo. M'banja mwathu, ine ndi mkazi wanga tinagawana udindo wowaphunzitsa mofanana. "
10. Göran Sevelin, wazaka 27, wophunzira komanso bambo wa mwana wamkazi wa Liv:
"Ngakhale mutakhala ndi ndalama, kukhala ndi mwana ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri! Amayi amawayankhulana pakamwa, kotero abambo ayenera kusamalira maubwenzi awo ndi mwana nthawiyi. "
11. Jonas Feldt, wa zaka 31, wotsogolera ku malo ogwira ntchito komanso bambo wa ana aakazi a Syria (chaka chimodzi) ndi Lovis (zaka zitatu):
"Ndisonyezero yanga inali kufufuza m'magazini ya achinyamata. Ana ambiri, pamene akudwala kapena osamva, amafuna chitetezo kwa amayi awo. Ndipo ndikufuna kuti atsikana anga azitha kudalira ine nthawi zonse! "
12. Ingemar Olsen, wazaka 37, katswiri wa IT komanso bambo wa ana a Linus ndi Joel:
"Kwa ine kunali chisankho chovuta, chifukwa mu ntchito zomwe ndimagwira ntchito, amuna amalamulira. Koma bwana wanga anali munthu wabwino m'banja, zomwe zinandilimbikitsa. Masiku ano ndikusangalala kuti ndimakhala ndi ana komanso kumvetsa bwino zosowa zawo. "
13. Martin Gagner, 35, woyang'anira University of Malmo ndi Papa Matilda (zaka 4) ndi Valdemara (chaka chimodzi):
"Ndili ndi mwana wanga wamkazi sindinali pa tchuthi, ndipo ndimamva kuti ndine wolakwa. Ndikuganiza kuti ndataya zambiri, ndipo ndili pafupi kwambiri ndi mwana wanga ... "
14. Juan Cardenal, wa zaka 34, wophunzira ndi bambo Ivo (chaka chimodzi) ndi Alma (zaka 4):
"Makolo achoka kwathunthu anasintha moyo wanga - ndinali ndi nthawi yoganizira chinthu chachikulu, ndinatha kusintha kwambiri ntchito yanga, ndipo ndinakhala ndi mwayi wowona njira zoyamba za ana!"
15. Michael Winblad, wazaka 35, bambo a Matisse (osagwira ntchito) (zaka 2) ndi Vivian (miyezi isanu):
"Ndinali ndi mwayi ndi mkazi wanga. Panthawi zovuta, ndalama zake zimatha kupezera ndalama za banja lathu. Ndipo ine, nayenso, ndinayesa kukhala bambo wabwino kwambiri kwa abambo onse "!
Mpaka lero, anthu ojambula zithunzi a Johan Bävman amakhala kale ndi mapapa 30 paulendo wobereka, koma cholinga chake ndikusonkhanitsa nthano 60 (malinga ndi chiwerengero cha masiku), kotero kuti apitirize ...