Zomwe amamva ponena za kubadwa kwa mwana wake Zadin, Nikki Smith adalemba pa Facebook masiku angapo apitawo, adalimbikitsidwa ndi zithunzi zochepa, ndipo lero adakambirana kwambiri pa intaneti!
Pomwe tili m'masukulu athu, timaphunzira maphunziro okhudzana ndi kugonana ndi kugonana pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, akale omwe amasulira chirichonse kukhala pistils ndi stamens, Jasey wazaka 12 wochokera ku Mississippi (USA) watha kale kubereka amayi ake ndi kumuthandiza m'bale wake kuonekera kuunika!
Jacey akukonzekera kubadwa kwa mchimwene wamng'ono
"Jessie adati akufuna kuwona mchimwene wake atabadwa miyezi ingapo yapitayo, koma ndinaganiza kuti anali wamng'ono kwambiri chifukwa cha zimenezi," adatero Nikki Smith. "Pambuyo pake, tinakambirana nkhaniyi ndi mwamuna wanga ndipo tinatsimikiza kuti mwayi woterewu ungamupatse zabwino kwambiri kuphunzira kuphunzira. Mwana wanga wamkazi anabwera ndi bambo anga ku chipatala madzulo, pamene ndinapangidwa kuti ndikhale ndi matenda oopsa. Patadutsa maola 8, ndinayamba kumva ululu, koma mwanayo sanawonekere ... Jacey anakwiya kwambiri, akuyang'ana zomwe zikuchitika kutali ndi bedi. Koma mwadzidzidzi dokotala anamuuza kuti abwere ndi kuyima pambali pake. Ndinadabwa, koma ndinamva kuti mwana wanga ali wokonzeka. Mukudziwa, kudula ndi kuyesa kunandibweretsa kuzunzika kosatha, koma ndikuyang'ana pa nkhope ya Jaycee, ndinatha kupitiliza. Ndinayesetsa monga momwe ndingathere, ndipo mwana wanga wamkazi, ankagwira Zadina ndi zovuta zake. Zinali zozizwitsa zokha! Osati tsiku lililonse mwana wanu wamkazi wa zaka 12 amakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi mwana! "
Yambani njirayi
Pakalipano, kukhalapo kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi mu chipinda choperekera kumakhala kozoloŵera, koma mumavomereza - osati aliyense, ngakhale wokondedwa kwambiri, amavomereza kuti "apereke mayesero awa", omwe msungwanayo akupirira molimbika.
Jacey amathandiza abale kuti abadwe
Koma ndithudi, ambiri mwa olemba mabuku sali okondwa ndi zomwe adawona ndikuwerenga ...
Zithunzi popanda kutsutsana!
Mtsikanayo akulira pamene akuwona momwe mbale wake anabadwira!
Jacey amadula mutu wa umbilical
Tsoka, m'maganizo okhudza maganizo, anthu adawona chizindikiro chochititsa mantha, kunena kuti chochitika ichi chidzakhala cha msungwana yemwe sali kuphunzitsa,
"Ndikuona zodabwitsa izi. Sindingalole mwana wanga kuti ayang'ane kapena kugwira mkazi wanga pamene wadulidwa. Ngati amayi anga anandipanga ine kuchita izi, zimandipweteka ... "
"Pali njira zina zambiri zopanga mgwirizano wosagwirizana pakati pa abale ndi alongo, kupatula kulingalira komanso kutenga nawo mbali mwa kubadwa kwa mwana."
"Ndikhoza kumumva atamuuza mbale wake akamakula:" Usalankhule nane monga choncho, ndinakuthandizani kuti mubadwire! "
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