Inde, maloto osasangalatsa ali, ndithudi, vuto. Loto losasangalatsa lidzagona - ndi tsiku lonse lakuda. Pano pali nsabwe yomweyo, komanso mosiyana ndi zosiyana, ndi zotsatira za kuyimba kosasangalatsa. Kuwona mkota mu loto, ndithudi, akufuna kudziwa zomwe akulota.
N'chifukwa chiyani nsabwe ndi nthiti?
Otanthauzira maloto alibe lingaliro lofanana pa nkhaniyi.
Ambiri amakhulupirira kuti maloto amaliseche pa matenda. Ngakhale si nthawi zonse, koma ngati ali ambiri ndipo ali pamitu yawo. Ndipo malotowa akhoza kukhala ovuta, makamaka ngati pali zambiri.
Zina zotsatizana za kutanthauzira nsabwe ndi utitiri: kubwezeretsanso banja, kukangana ndi abwenzi, chifuwa, kuyesayesa zopanda phindu, kuwonongera ndalama, kulemekeza ndalama, kulemekeza ndi kulemekeza, miseche, kuledzera, umphawi , ku ntchito yosayenerera ndi yokolola chaka chokolola (chabwino, mwachiwonekere, kutsimikizira). Koma maulosi ambirimbiri - si zoipa, nthawi zonse mungasankhe chinachake ku kukoma kwanu. Mwachitsanzo, woganiza bwino angaganize kuti akuyembekezera ndalama zowonjezera, ndipo vutoli ndi mphuno.
Mavitamini amawoneka asanayambe kupambana, makamaka ngati anaphedwa m'maloto. Koma palinso zosankha zosasangalatsa: zimbudzi zili ngati zopinga pa njira yopita ku chuma ndi zinthu zina zokondweretsa. Kotero mu maloto, monga kwenikweni, musasiye nitsamba amoyo.
Malonda ku mutu wakunja
Zoona, ochuluka a otanthauzira amakhulupirira kuti nsabwe mumutu wa wina akulota za chinthu china chokoma kuposa chokha. Nsabwe zakunja zimadetsa nkhawa pang'ono. Olemba ena amalingalira ngakhale kuti nsabwe yowonjezereka mumutu wakunja, kukhala ndi chimwemwe chochuluka kwambiri m'tsogolomu. Chabwino ngati izo zikugwiranso ntchito pa maloto. Mu moyo weniweni, kulankhulana ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi nsabwe zambiri, ndi zosasangalatsa, ndi zoopsa, palibe chisangalalo pano.
Maliseche pamutu wa mwana, malingaliro a otanthauzira ambiri, maloto a chinthu chosasangalatsa: mwina kutsutsana, kapena matenda, kapena kuvutika, kapena, potsiriza, kukolola kolemera (?!).
Ndiyeso yowonongeka kwambiri ya nsabwe ndi utitiri akulota, anati Monethetti. Amakhulupirira kuti tizilombo toyamwa magazi amachenjeza munthu za kukhala ndi mphamvu ya vampire pafupi naye. Nenani, chikumbumtima, motere, chimatchula pa ngozi.
Mwamtheradi, malemba abwino. Mfundo yakuti chidziwitso chimadutsa m'maloto sizingatheke kutsutsana (ndipo pali mfundo iliyonse yothetsera?). Mphungu zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi chonyansa chomwa magazi ake, ndipo ngati akumva ubale wotere kuchokera kwa wina wake (ndiwo magazisuckers!), Akhoza kuwonekeratu m'maloto chithunzi. Izi ndi njira zambiri zogwirizana ndi zosankha za abwenzi amwano ndi kukangana nawo. Ndi nkhani ina yomwe sizowona kuti zonsezi ndi zoona. Mwinamwake palibe yemwe amamwa magazi ndipo samafuna choipa, chifukwa cha kukhumudwa. Simungapereke ufulu wotsutsa!
Tiyenera kutchula malingaliro a katswiri wodziwika kwambiri mwachidziwitso - Freud. Iye, monga nthawizonse, mu repertoire yake. Malingana ndi Freud, nsabwe zikulota mwamuna,
Kugona ndi malo osamvetsetseka. Apa malamulo onse akusokonezedwa. Kuzama kwa chidziwitso ndi nkhani yoopsa ndi kufufuza zomwe sizidzawululidwa. Mwina maloto ndi malangizo omwe chidziwitso chawo chimapereka. Koma, kuti muwatsatire iwo, ngati izo ziri, ndiye mosamala kwambiri. Sitiyenera kuiwala kuti malo osamvetsetsanso ndi dera lopanda kanthu, dera lachabechabe. Ndipo kukhala mofanana mofanana ndi, kugwirizanitsa zochita ndi zifukwa, koma osati ndi chikumbumtima. Kotero funso la zomwe zimapangitsa maloto a munthu wina kuti alowe, ndibwino kuti musaganize, koma kuti musambitse bwino mutu wanu.