Maloto nthawi zonse amakhala ndi chidwi, koma amawachitira mosiyana: wina amaganiza kuti ndi ubongo chabe, ndipo ena amakhulupirira kuti mwanjira imeneyi maganizo osamvetsetsa amatsimikizira zam'tsogolo. Kuti muwaphunzire iwo, nkofunikira kufotokoza molondola chiwembu chowonedwa. Chofunika kwambiri, aliyense akhoza kuchita izi, pokhapokha pogwiritsa ntchito mabuku omwe akupezekapo.
N'chifukwa chiyani timalota za chisanu m'chilimwe?
Maloto omwe chipale chofewa chikubwera, koma osati kufika pansi, kusungunuka ndi chizindikiro chabwino, cholonjeza kusintha kwabwino kwa moyo. Mphepete mwa chipale chofewa, zomwe mwadzidzidzi zimayendayenda mozungulira, ndizo zizindikiro za mavuto ang'onoang'ono, koma amasiya kudzimvera chisoni. Tidzazindikira chomwe chisanu chimagwa m'chilimwe, chomwe chimasungunuka - ndicho chizindikiro chomwe chimasonyeza kuti zomwe zilipo kale zilibe maziko ndipo, zenizeni, zimachokera ku malingaliro . Maloto ena akhoza kukhala chiwonetsero cha chokondweretsa. Masomphenya ausiku, kumene chipale chofewa chimagwa m'chilimwe, amatanthawuza kutuluka kwa matenda, choncho ndi bwino kuyang'anira ukhale wabwino.
Zidzakhala zosangalatsa kudziwa chomwe chisanu chikulota m'nyengo ya chilimwe, chomwe chimasanduka chisanu cha chipale chofewa ndi chizindikiro choyipa, kusonyeza kuwonongedwa kwa mapulani omwe anamangidwa. Komabe wolota posachedwa adzakhumudwitsidwa mu zina kapena mwa munthu. Masomphenya ausiku, m'chilimwe adakwera chisanu, akulosera za mavuto ambiri m'moyo wonse. Malingaliro amasonyeza kuti zomwe woyembekezera akuyembekezera zidzachitika mosiyana. Mmodzi mwa mabuku otota, omwe maloto a chipale chofewa m'chilimwe, amatanthauzira ngati chiwonetsero cha nkhani zosayembekezereka ndi zochititsa mantha. Cholinga china chikhoza kutanthauza kuti m'tsogolomu wolembayo adzasintha malo ake ndikuchita chinachake chimene sakanatha kuchita.
Ngati mu maloto m'chilimwe amatha kupanga wopanga snowman, ndiye pamphindi palibe kuthekera kupereka nthawi ku zinthu zomwe zimabweretsa chisangalalo chenicheni. Ndi chifukwa cha ichi kuti pali chisangalalo chosakhutira. Choncho, maloto amasonyeza kuti ndi nthawi yopatula zinthu zonse, ndikudziyang'anira nokha. Mmodzi mwa mabuku otota, omwe chipale chofewa chikulota m'chilimwe, chomwe chimasungunuka nthawi yomweyo, amatanthauzira ngati kusokoneza mtima mu moyo. Ndibwino kuti muphunzire momwe mungasamalire nokha maganizo anu, mwinamwake, wolota sangathe kuchita bwino ndondomekoyi. Maloto, omwe kutentha kwa chilimwe imathamanga pa chisanu, amachenjeza za kutsutsana kwakukulu kwa chilungamo. Ngati chodabwitsachi sichisokoneza, ndiye chifukwa chake, kudzatha kuteteza malo ake. Kutanthauzira kwa maloto kumalimbikitsa kuti tisamachite mantha, kuti adani asagwiritse ntchito mwayi.
Masomphenya ausiku, kumene chipale chofewa chimaphimba dziko lapansi m'chilimwe, chimasonyeza kuyamba kwa nthawi yamtendere m'moyo. Posachedwapa simungachite mantha
Nchifukwa chiyani tili ndi chipale chofewa m'chilimwe kunja kwawindo?
Maloto oterewa amasonyeza kusokonezeka kwa kudzidalira. Mwina posachedwapa m'pofunikira kukhazikitsa chiyanjano ndi munthu amene kwa nthawi yaitali adayambitsa zowawa. Chifukwa cha izi, zidzatheka kuthetsa mavuto ena ndikupeza madalitso. Chinthu china, chomwe chimatanthauza, ngati chipale chofewa chikulowa chilimwe - ndi chiwonetsero cha zopweteka m'banja, zomwe zidzasokoneza chiyanjano. Dreambook amalimbikitsa kupirira moleza mtima osati kumvetsera zosavuta kuti zisamayende bwino.