Zinthu ngati wotchi zimakonda kwambiri moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, zimatizungulira ponse paliponse, ndipo sitiganiziranso moyo wathu popanda iwo. Ndi yabwino, yothandiza komanso yofunikira. Koma kuti apereke wotchi, amati, ndizoipa. Tiyeni tiyese kuona ngati izi zilididi.
Kufunika kwa chizindikiro
Ambiri amakhulupilira kuti mphatso zoperekedwa ndi amithenga olekana, kupatukana kapena kukangana kwapakati, popanda kuyanjananso. Ngati tiganiziranso zamatsenga izi pakadali pano, kulandira alonda monga mphatso yakula kukhala chizindikiro choipa chifukwa sitidziwa kutanthauzira molondola tanthawuzoli lomwe linabwera kuchokera ku mayiko ena.
Choncho, kummawa mphatso yotereyi ndiitanidwe ku maliro. Mu Asilavo, kufotokozera kumeneku kunayambitsidwa kusokonezeka, komabe kugwirizana kosavuta ndi tanthauzo lakale lakum'mawa kwa dzikoli lakhalapobe: mphatso yoteroyo imachepetsa moyo wa munthu amene adawapereka.
Koma, padzakhala chilakolako, ndipo ziribe kanthu momwe kutanthauzira sikulili chizindikiro mwa iwo wokha, chikhoza kupatsidwa katundu wabwino. Inde, tiyeni chitsanzo chotsatira chisagwiritsidwe ntchito, koma sizingakhale zodabwitsa kuzilemba. Mwachitsanzo, wotchi ikupereka ngati mphatso kwa munthu amene watopa kwambiri ndi inu komanso omwe simukufuna kumuwona posachedwa kapena kwa nthawi yayitali, ndipo mwina mwinamwake muli ndi chilakolako chachikulu chochotsa munthu uyu m'moyo wanu.
Koma ngakhale iwo omwe saganizire zawonedwezo amawonetsa chizindikiro cholakwika sungakhale ndi zokhazokha zokhazokha pakuwona mphatso. Malinga ndi malamulo a malingaliro a lero, maulonda sayenera kuperekedwa kuti atseke anthu ndi achibale, makamaka amuna ndi mabwenzi awo. Mphatso imeneyi ikhoza kuwonedwa ngati kuti simukufuna kukhala ndi nthawi ndi munthu uyu, kapena mwachitapo kanthu mwadzidzidzi mumadziwitse kuti mukupepesa kwa mphindi zakale za munthu woteroyo.
Chizindikiro "Ola laima"
Kawirikawiri ichi ndi chizindikiro chotsimikizika cha imfa ya mwiniwake wa wolonda. Koma sizingakhale zodabwitsa kuzindikira kuti chizindikiro ichi sichinali chofunikira chotere. Ikhoza kutanthauzidwa ngati makhadidali kusintha pamoyo, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti kusintha kuzungulirana, malo ndi chiyambi cha moyo watsopano.
Ngakhale kuti tikukhala m'dziko lamakono apamwamba kwambiri ndi mafakitale apamwamba, mawu akale, zizindikiro zomwe zimasonyeza zomwe mungapereke n'zofunikira, ndipo zomwe zimayenera kuleka, zimapitiriza kukhala ndi ife.
Akatswiri ambiri a sayansi amati ngati munthu sakhulupirira zizindikiro komanso mozama, ndiye kuti sangathe kuvulaza moyo wake.