Malangizo a munthu wamalonda

Makhalidwe abwino ndi fano la munthu wamalonda sikuti amapanga kalembedwe ka zovala, nsapato, makonzedwe ndi makongoletsedwe, komanso ndondomeko ya makhalidwe yomwe imathandiza kupewa zolakwitsa polankhulana ndi mabwenzi awo. Ntchito yaikulu yamakhalidwe abwino ndi yabwino. Anthu amalonda amayamikira kuti zinthu zimapindulitsa komanso zimawathandiza , choncho amalingalira zonse kuchokera ku zinthu zing'onozing'ono kupita ku malamulo ambiri ndikupanga dongosolo lomwe liri pafupi ndi moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku.

Makhalidwe abwino a munthu wamalonda

Makhalidwe abwino a munthu wamalonda amaphatikizapo malamulo angapo ofunika:

  1. Mphamvu yomvetsera ndi kumvetsa bwino lingaliro la interlocutor.
  2. Zojambula bwino, kufotokozera momveka bwino maganizo awo pagulu.
  3. Zolinga zoganiza za mnzanuyo, mosasamala kusiyana kwa inu.
  4. Kukhoza kukhazikitsa maubwenzi abwino ndi anthu mosasamala za udindo wawo, kaya ndi abwana kapena olamulira.
  5. Kukhoza kupeza zofanana ndi oyankhulana pazokambirana.

Chinthu chachikulu mukulankhulana ndi bwenzi la bizinesi sizinthu zakuthupi zomwe mudzalandira kuchokera pamsonkhano uno: mgwirizano wotsekedwa kapena wogwirizanitsa ntchito. Chofunika kwambiri kuposa momwe mumamvera komanso mmene mumamvera, zomwe mungathe kuzimvetsa. Mawuwo adzaiwalidwa m'kupita kwa nthawi, koma zomwe zimakhalapo pamisonkhano yanu zidzakumbukila mnzanuyo kwa nthawi yaitali ndipo mwinamwake izi zidzakhala maziko othandizira.

Komabe, musaiwale kuti mu chikhalidwe cha kuyankhulana mawu, pali zizindikiro zofunika zomwe zimatsimikizira msinkhu wa maphunziro anu:

  1. Vocabulary. Osiyana kwambiri ndi olemera, omveka bwino adzatha kufotokozera malingaliro anu komanso osachepera ndi zokambirana za omvera.
  2. Kutchulidwa. Kulankhulana kwanu kuyenera kukhala kotonthoza komanso kokondweretsa, kotero ngati kujambula ndi mawu amphamvu, yesani kuchotsa izo mwamsanga.
  3. Malemba ojambula. Musamalankhule mawu osokoneza mawu anu. Apo ayi mungayambe kuopseza kuti adziwonetse wekha osati kuchokera kumbali yabwino.
  4. Stylistics of talk. Chinthu chachikulu pakuyankhulana ndi mabwenzi a malonda ndi kupezeka kwa machitidwe abwino. Chotsani mawu-zizindikiro ndi mawu osokoneza.

Masiku ano, udindo waukulu mu bizinesi wapatsidwa kwa munthu wolimba ndipo ngati amalemekeza makhalidwe ndi khalidwe la munthu wamalonda, zokolola za ntchito ndi zotsatira za ntchito zimadalira. Chifukwa chake, amalonda padziko lonse amagwiritsa ntchito mfundo yaikulu: khalidwe labwino ndi lopindulitsa. Nthawi zonse zimakhala zosangalatsa kugwira ntchito ndi kampani yomwe imayang'ana ulemu, ndikupanga nyengo yabwino pakati pa mabwenzi.