Makhalidwe mukumenyana

Mwinamwake, pa dziko lonse lapansi n'zosatheka kukomana ndi munthu aliyense amene sangatsutsane ndi aliyense. Aliyense ali ndi khalidwe lake pamtendere, koma ndi zosiyana siyana, zitsanzozi ndi zosavuta kuzigawa ndikuzifufuza: zina zimakhala zothandiza ndipo zimayambitsa chiyanjanitso, pamene ena amatha kulimbana ndi nkhondo yeniyeni.

Zimachokera kumakhalidwe a munthu omwe ali pamtendere chifukwa chimadalira kuti mikangano ikhoza kuononga maubwenzi kapena mosiyana, iwo adzalongosola chidziwitso chatsopano mwa iwo. Ndikofunika kuti muzindikire khalidwe lanu lachidziwitso mukumenyana ndipo mutha kusintha kuti likhale lina muzochitika.

Pali mndandanda wa njira za makhalidwe mukumenyana:

1. Mpikisano (kuyesayesa kukwaniritsa zofuna za wina popanda ndalama zina). Njira iyi ya khalidwe la anthu mukumenyana kumapangitsa kuti munthu akhale ndi dzanja lapamwamba, koma osati kwa nthawi yayitali, ndipo njirayi siigwiritsidwe ntchito ku ubale wa nthawi yaitali. kumayambitsa chiwonongeko cha maubwenzi.
2. Kusintha (chilakolako chodzimana zokondweretsa wina). Izi ndizovomerezeka kokha ngati nkhani yothetsa mkangano siili yofunika kwambiri kwa amene akutsutsana. Mbali yomwe yakhala ikutsutsana ndi chifuniro chake idzakhalabe yotembereredwa, idzalemekezedwa ndi wachiwiri amene akutsutsana.
3. Pewani ( yesani kubwezeretsa chisankho nthawi ina). Njira imeneyi yothetsera mikangano imagwira ntchito bwino pokhapokha ngati nkhaniyi siyifunika kwambiri, kapena ngati palibe mgwirizano wa nthawi yayitali ndi chipani chotsutsana chachiwiri. Mu ubale wa nthawi yayitali, njirayi siigwira ntchito, chifukwa mphamvu zowonjezera zoipa ndi kutsogolera ku kuphulika kwa maganizo.
4. Kugonjera (kukhutira pang'ono phindu pa maphwando onse). Ngakhale zili zokopa zonse, kusamvana ndi kokha pakati pa kuthetsa mikangano, komwe kumathandiza kuchepetsa kutentha kuti mupeze yankho lomwe limagwirizana ndi aliyense.
5. Kugwirizanitsa (kuyesa kuthetsa mkangano kuti onse asiye kupambana). Izi mwina ndizopindulitsa kwambiri, koma panthawi yomweyi ndizovuta kuchita izi. Komabe, njirayi ndi yabwino kwambiri kwa ubale wa nthawi yaitali.

Mulimonsemo, musaiwale za khalidwe la makhalidwe mu mikangano: musapite paumwini, musakweze mau anu, musakumbukire "zakale, musati muziimba mlandu wina. Kulimbitsa mtima kukambirana, kumakhala kosavuta kupeza njira yowonjezera.